Girl who trains boxing? Red flag?

[Sebastian2005]

Hey G's, recently I met a girl that is pretty attractive to me.

She is travelling a lot, have friends and seems like a good girl.

But what made me kinda shocked is that she said she is training boxing and she will beat me up. (not in a rude way, more like a joke)

So is that a red flag for you guys? I mean she is kinda pretty but that's one thing that confuse me.

And she said she wants to spar with me but I don't want to beat a woman.

Not sure if she's just flirting. Especially considering that she texted to me first.

And now she's not responding for 2 hours. Not sure if now she play some games and ignore me or she's just busy.

Any suggestions?

 

[Dr.Suave]

You are too young, grasshopper. Im assuming she´s very young as well.

I think you should be cautiously optimistic about this young, hot girl. Dont rush into exclusivity but keep things moving forwards. Dont forget about logistics that make sex possible and escalate.

 

[BPH]

Just go on some other date.

You don't HAVE to set up a boxing match...

 

[Pandora]

I think it is a big red flag depending on how much she trains. It also depends on the gym that she trains at. If she trains a lot at a serious MMA/ Boxing gym then its a red flag. She will most likely be a gym hoe and sleep with one of the trainers.

Also a girl that trains MMA/ boxing usually has a competitive streak against men. Its not natural for a women to be interested in getting punched in the face. Thats the equivalent of a man whose hobby is making cup cakes or something.

If she is just doing cardio boxing here and there then it might be ok. No biggie.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Boxing is not a fight. Sparring is not beating up people for fun. She will likely be able to teach you some basics about the sport.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

It's not a red flag...just female delusion. I am pretty tired of women who take some self defense/martial arts classes and then walk around thinking they can take on men. A a typical female boxer/martial artist would likely get destroyed by an untrained, unfit man in about 30 seconds.

What I have done with women who display this attitude is ask them to wrestle me. It's highly amusing. Break it down into 3 rounds:
1) Ask her to pin you down and overpower her. This takes maybe 25% of your strength.
2) Ask her to pin you down, but this time can only use 2 limbs. This takes ~50% of your strength.
3) You have to pin her down, but you can only use 1 limb. This takes about ~75-100% of your strength.

She will be shocked and realize how much stronger men are, and this attitude of hers will vanish and she likely won't bring it up again.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It has only been 2 hours since you sent the text message. Stay busy and try to not invest too much brain power on this girl.

She will text later. Crack a couple of jokes, build a little bit of rapport and ask her out.

Also, I don’t see any red flags here. There is a saying in my country, it loosely translates to “in times of war every hole in the ground is a trench”. Just try to get to know her on a deeper level and you will know what she is about. It might be something good.

Keep it up!

 

[SW15]

I think it is a big red flag depending on how much she trains. It also depends on the gym that she trains at. If she trains a lot at a serious MMA/ Boxing gym then its a red flag. She will most likely be a gym hoe and sleep with one of the trainers.

Also a girl that trains MMA/ boxing usually has a competitive streak against men. Its not natural for a women to be interested in getting punched in the face. Thats the equivalent of a man whose hobby is making cup cakes or something.

If she is just doing cardio boxing here and there then it might be ok. No biggie.

Cardio boxing is not a big deal at all. Many women do cardio boxing classes. They are a good workout in general but they don't train you a lot for fighting.

If a woman trains at a cardio boxing type gym, that might be more of a green flag because she might get a hot physique from it.

I think a woman who trains at a more serious MMA/Boxing type gym is more likely to have issues. Those issues are more likely found in women a lot older than the ones @Sebastian2005 would be pursuing.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

And now she's not responding for 2 hours.

Two hours?!

Damn dude, this is finished.

You'd better go monk mode for the next ten years to build a better frame!

 

[Sebastian2005]

Two hours?!

Damn dude, this is finished.

You'd better go monk mode for the next ten years to build a better frame!

Yeah now I see I overthink a bit too much because she was replying so fast and suddenly stopped.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

There are few things better in life than a masculine social butterfly travel junkie good girl who seeks to subject you to unpleasurable physical activity. Hang on to this chick OP, you've got a keeper.