Girl who is quite the conversationalist

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I still say David dAngelo's "Double Your Dating" is pretty good. It's an easy read and the stuff works. It may not answer everything for everyone but it can create a solid foundation.

 

[Skydiver43127]

Dude, do not throw away the piece of wisdom given here. We talk from experience. Girls do not want to talk. They just prefer talk cause it's easier. Smart men do that too and stat's why we fail with women.

"I'm just learning to have fun" = "I want you to f*ck me".

She doesn't know this, but her subconscious mind knows, and expects you to know. Be gentle, do not rush things, but do not give her the impression that you are a clueless idiot who does not know what it's all about. You can have the conversations later.

 

[white cloud 8]

Dude, do not throw away the piece of wisdom given here. We talk from experience. Girls do not want to talk. They just prefer talk cause it's easier. Smart men do that too and stat's why we fail with women.

"I'm just learning to have fun" = "I want you to f*ck me".

She doesn't know this, but her subconscious mind knows, and expects you to know. Be gentle, do not rush things, but do not give her the impression that you are a clueless idiot who does not know what it's all about. You can have the conversations later.

I'll step it up tomorrow, we're going for a late afternoon bite to eat. I'll just go with the flow, see what happens. Since I introduced light kino earlier on, I just have to progress it in stages (so that becomes comfortable with it) or else she'll wonder whats going on.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Understand that "going with the flow" is a defensive maneuver and if she's waiting for you to make a move, you'll get nowhere.

 

[white cloud 8]

Understand that "going with the flow" is a defensive maneuver and if she's waiting for you to make a move, you'll get nowhere.

NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol....I won't be passive, I'll have to keep my eyes peeled for cue(s). Are there some things I should be aware of or are they quite obvious if I just pay attention :yes:.

 

[white cloud 8]

Sometimes I really feel...helpless about trying to escalate things (kissing, touching, sex etc.) it is frustrating and sort of a downer. I guess because I haven't much experience in those areas (so things that I am attempting are sort of like going into uncharted territory) don't really know the outcome(s)?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Stop worrying about the touching, kissing and sex until she becomes familiar, comfortable and attracted to you. Work on those first and the rest will come. Pace yourself.