Girl who is "just one of the guys"... question

DJ Girevik

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How would I alter my approach with this sorta girl? I was on the phone w/ her (I have a date with her on Friday) and she named off like 4 guys as her usual Friday bowling buddies. She's also into sports, a lead guitarist (she played a damn good solo for me when we were on the phone) and a weightlifter.

BTW - this is our second date, the first one she asked me out on through a friend (she goes to a diff school but the friend goes to mine) and it was a double date. This date is "rock 'n bowl" (bowling with loud music and lighting effects and whatnot), the first one was dinner at a Chinese restaurant.
 

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These types of chicas are usually two types:

1) Really friggin ugly.

2) A man with make-up.

Don't waste your time. You're not trying to make a friend here, and you're not going to make a girlfriend. Bail.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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if you want a friend, you're in good shape.

but i wouldn't tap that man-ass if i were you
 

DJ Girevik

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Actually, she is pretty girlish, for all her sports and guitaring stuff. She's not ugly or man-ish. So, again, the QUESTION.
 
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