girl who is highly intersted but avoids me at all costs!

[babemaster2000]

What should I do? I know this girl is really interested (from insiders), but she really tries to avoid me in school! Any tips from you masters?

HER AVOIDING ME HAS RAISED MY IL!

 

[WaterTiger]

Originally posted by babemaster2000
What should I do? I know this girl is really interested (from insiders), but she really tries to avoid me in school! Any tips from you masters?

HER AVOIDING ME HAS RAISED MY IL!

So what your saying is that HER game is working and she's got YOU more interested in her?

Who are the "insiders"? Your pals or hers? Why don't you bypass the gossip committe and corner the girl and get her number? I mean, who's the DJ here? She can't hide from you forever right?

You're the BABEMASTER! Go get her!

 

[MindOverMatter]

Avoid her, and talk to other girls.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Re: Re: girl who is highly intersted but avoids me at all costs!

Originally posted by WaterTiger
So what your saying is that HER game is working and she's got YOU more interested in her?

Who are the "insiders"? Your pals or hers? Why don't you bypass the gossip committe and corner the girl and get her number? I mean, who's the DJ here? She can't hide from you forever right?

You're the BABEMASTER! Go get her!

On point!

 

[abcd_z]

Let me see...you say she's interested in you, and yet she avoids you. Hmmm. So how exactly do you 'know' that she really is? Actions speak louder than words, especially when it comes to female actions. And her actions say she's not interested. I mean, even if she said, point-blank, that she was interested, and she ignored you, then you would know she was messing with you. To become infatuated with her would be a mistake. What you're doing right now is even worse. You're becoming obsessed, and you haven't even picked up any signs that she's interested in you.

So, yeah. Back off and forget it, hopefully find somebody you have a better chance with. Read the DJ Bible thoroughly, and lose the insecurities. They won't get you what you want.

 

[Befuddled]

Ive reada lot on 'the signs', since im oblivious to picking up on them, and they all said about the same thing.... kino, licking of lips, brushing of hair, etc....
They all mean nothing.
Ive come to the conclusion, something i can say with some certainty.......the true signs are:
1. she chooses to be around you, and spend time with you.
2. She treats you better than the people around you.

Shes not interested, if she were, she'd be around you.

 

[Celadus]

She might just be shy and scared of rejection.

I've known girls who definitely liked me, but I get so nervous of actually suceeding I try to avoid the girl so I don't have to fail or suceed.

Go up to her and ask her out. Only way.

 

[Ice Cold]

HOW DO YOU KNOW SHE'S INTRESTED?

 

[OzzyBoy]

i think she is playing hard to get? or you are wrong, she isn't interested in you and avaoiding you at all costs but she could just be really nervous, i know that quite often the more you are interested in someone the more nervous you are to do anything about it. i think this would raise my interest level if she was playing hard to get because its challenge and it makes things more interesting.

 

[ScrewIt]

i believe it happens. when their IL rises or they like you, they are aloof.

a female friend i pulled some suave **** on, her IL rose high, or she possibly liked me. Then if i'd call her or anything, she wouldnt pick up the phone nor call me back, back then she definitely would. Then we just stopped hanging out on weekends. Dinner party came up and she was really quiet to me/nervous. kinoed me on the shoulder..and said some stuff to me. her avoiding me hasnt raised my IL, definitely not. not only the stuff i mentioned, but a lot of other little things she said/did that brought her IL level to my attention.

I think that when someone's IL rises, their confidence gets kicked down, and tehy are more intimidated by that person they like. maybe cuz they're not sure how to act around them or talk to them anymore cuz their feelings get in the way.

but if they're being aloof with you in a certain way (like going out of their way to avoid you) then you know something's up.