Girl who I used to be interested in e-mails me after many months

[Big Nuts]

You can ignore her...or...as a second option...you escalate an immediate sex option...I have one of these on the go right now....as I sit here she periodically texts me "I miss u"...blah blah blah crap...I simply respond with something purely sexual..."Come by and I'll make you squirt", "You give great bjs!", "Come on over" .

Her usual response: "Nice", "LOL", "That's all u think about"

Notice how non-committal she is...that's how I know her interest level is low (she lives far, I've banged her 100 times anyway, so I don't care)

Because I have 3-5 plates spinning at all times...I don't care if she is offended...the reality is she is simply too dumb to realize I don't care about any prospect of a future with her and that she is instead a warm body for me to exploit if she so happens to let me...if she doesn't, I don't care.

You can't manufacture desire....if she was into me.....she'd be at my house, rescheduling her life around sex with me....she doesn't, so I have nothing to lose...it is empowering to not give a fvck what her response is...she's an HB8 too.

 

[user name]

You can ignore her...or...as a second option...you escalate an immediate sex option...I have one of these on the go right now....as I sit here she periodically texts me "I miss u"...blah blah blah crap...I simply respond with something purely sexual..."Come by and I'll make you squirt", "You give great bjs!", "Come on over" .

Her usual response: "Nice", "LOL", "That's all u think about"

Notice how non-committal she is...that's how I know her interest level is low (she lives far, I've banged her 100 times anyway, so I don't care)

Because I have 3-5 plates spinning at all times...I don't care if she is offended...the reality is she is simply too dumb to realize I don't care about any prospect of a future with her and that she is instead a warm body for me to exploit if she so happens to let me...if she doesn't, I don't care.

You can't manufacture desire....if she was into me.....she'd be at my house, rescheduling her life around sex with me....she doesn't, so I have nothing to lose...it is empowering to not give a fvck what her response is...she's an HB8 too.

how old is this girl that texts you periodically?

 

[JoeMarron]

The big mistake people don't realize in suggesting to meet up with her, is that he never banged her to begin with.

You can't approach this situation the same as with a previous fvk-buddy relationship that ended amicably.

The OP did the right thing. When you finally master the ability to walk away from pu$$y, your entire demeanor changes.

It shocks me how many of you are so willing to drop everything for a possible chance at getting laid. I have never had so much pu$$y thrown at me as when I just didn't even bother acknowledging it, or even cared about it a fraction.

OP, you are doing it exactly right. Now take your new-found self-respect and build your better life knowing that no b1tch can control you with her pu$$y.

I promise you, you WILL get more girls interested in you as a result.

He doesn't really have anything to lose though. It takes 5 seconds to tell her exactly what he wants from her. This isn't equal to dropping everything for a chance to get laid. Plus it would probably be funny as hell to see her response

 

[JoeMarron]

He does have something to lose. Establishing the proper mindset of nexting.

Nexting does not mean, until she contacts me again. Nexting means nexting. It means not even the prospect of getting laid with her is worth the bother of replying to her.

THIS is exactly the mentality the vast majority of people on this site need. But they are so soooooo pu$$y-whipped that they value even a remote chance of getting laid more than just walking away and saying "no more".

This isn't about being pu$$y whipped. It doesn't seem like he cares about this chick anymore so it's fine to use her for sheer amusement. I'm sure he's not gonna be constantly checking his email, anxiously waiting for a reply from her to renew his hopes of finally getting a taste of her golden pvssy. I can see how your opinion would be valid however in many cases here where the dude has broken up with a girl and is going no contact in order to heal.

 

[Doku]

This is something we can tell ourselves, but at the end of the day if one is getting in contact with her, then it becomes obvious that he would still fvk her.

If he would still fvk her, and isn't fvking her, then yet it is about being pu$$y whipped.

Because honestly, if he didn't care, he wouldn't even bother to reply. That's what "not caring" is.

I stand by what I said about the viability of doing something like asking for naked pics. She's a hot girl. It would be cool for both parties involved if she sent pics. First, she would feel good for being valued, and second, he would feel good because another person is sharing herself intimately with him.

Whether I'm fvcking a girl or not, if I see potential for having some sexy fun, and to spread some good feelings around, I take that opportunity. It feels good just being masculine, reveling in the fact that I enjoy seeing sexy ladies nude, that I am a sexual being, etc. Penetration isn't a necessary precursor to having sexual fun.

If she responds negatively to the request for nude pictures, it's no problem. No harm done. Move right along.

I'm not saying what OP is doing is wrong. I'm saying that there's nothing wrong with having some fun with the girl if you want to.

Both options are cool.

 

[Big Nuts]

There is nothing wrong with texting her (only of she texts first)....just part of spinning plates...keep it only about sex....who cares about her life.