Girl went from obsessing to unfriending

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She kept saying she was falling for me and calling me hot and even triple texting me. Then she all of a sudden I friended me lol after sending me a pic of her pvssy saying how wet and horny she is. What’s up lol? Met her a week ago
 

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Nobody can give you a 100% true answer given this little piece of data. Everything, at best, is a "maybe"

"Maybe" she lovebombed you and regretted it.
"Maybe" she was just a psycho
"Maybe" she wasn't even a she, but a dude

I wouldn't waste anymore braincell trying to decode this. I'd instead go out, seduce, and fvck other women.
 

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Nobody can give you a 100% true answer given this little piece of data. Everything, at best, is a "maybe"

"Maybe" she lovebombed you and regretted it.
"Maybe" she was just a psycho
"Maybe" she wasn't even a she, but a dude

I wouldn't waste anymore braincell trying to decode this. I'd instead go out, seduce, and fvck other women.
I'd say that's sound advice.
 

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The girl's insecure that's what's up
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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The feelings you gave her were not powerful to sustain her, she faded.
 

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It was fun getting you all worked up, but eventually she moved onto her next target. She was never serious about actually meeting, it was all just a game from the get go.

Likely already taken and that's her fun.
 

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Did you send a pic of your penis? It was probably too big for her!

Or maybe she was texting the wrong dude. You know girls these days got so much going on.
 

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Likely already taken and that's her fun
I said it before and say it again. Yes, she’s either married or in a stagnate LTR.
She got a thrill and then got cold feet. Rinse and repeat. I’m sure one day she’ll jump on the cack carousel, but she’s not ready yet.
 

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She kept saying she was falling for me and calling me hot and even triple texting me. Then she all of a sudden I friended me lol after sending me a pic of her pvssy saying how wet and horny she is. What’s up lol? Met her a week ago
Women's behaviors change as a function of their emotions and ovulatory cycles. They are much more sexual, provocative, and aggressive when they are ovulating than when they are in any other time of the month. You may have caught a glimpse of her cycle or she may have just been sexually aroused that day for one or more reasons.


I am curious to hear about how you behaved in this situation, though.

How did you respond when she said she was falling for you, saying she found you attractive, and triple-texted? Did you show interest to her responses? Did you joke around with her? Did you reward her behavior? Did you take a long time to respond or wrote very short texts that may have conveyed lack of interest to her? You may have unknowingly had an effect on this situation as well. Tell us more information.
 

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Women's behaviors change as a function of their emotions and ovulatory cycles. They are much more sexual, provocative, and aggressive when they are ovulating than when they are in any other time of the month. You may have caught a glimpse of her cycle or she may have just been sexually aroused that day for one or more reasons.


I am curious to hear about how you behaved in this situation, though.

How did you respond when she said she was falling for you, saying she found you attractive, and triple-texted? Did you show interest to her responses? Did you joke around with her? Did you reward her behavior? Did you take a long time to respond or wrote very short texts that may have conveyed lack of interest to her? You may have unknowingly had an effect on this situation as well. Tell us more information.
I ignored which made her like me more
 

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I ignored which made her like me more
Liked you so much she unfriended you huh?

How far you get with a woman depends on what she's looking for and what she has at the time you go for her. They're more volatile than crypto.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Liked you so much she unfriended you huh?

How far you get with a woman depends on what she's looking for and what she has at the time you go for her. They're more volatile than crypto.
Well this was the in the beginning towards the end when I said no she unfriended me. I’ve moved on idc
 

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Her BF came back in the picture.

Or Tyrone decided to take her off ignore because his GF is going away for a couple weeks.
 

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At this point I've stopped wasting braincells trying to make sense of women's irrational behavior. The solution is indirect, rather than thinking about what went wrong with any one of them, remind yourself that "you're not talking to enough women". Once you talk to enough women and funnel in the high IL ones, this problem will go away and you won't even have to pointlessly analyze anything like this.
 
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