Girl wants me to pull out instead of using condoms

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Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms.
I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children.
She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is.
I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
 

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Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms.
I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children.
She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is.
I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
Rawdog dem h0es. Spread your seed. Responsible parenting is for simps and betas.
 

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Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms.
I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children.
She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is.
I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
How old is she? Is her egg timer ticking. She could be trying to trap you. That actually happened to a friend. The woman was on top and supposedly didnt let him pullout in time. Thats how his first kid was made haha
 

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The worst fvck of my life made me pull up 2 condoms.

The best fvcks of my life all hated condoms.

If a woman is out there to get you, she will find a way.

What are you gonna do? Let her svck your dyck with a condom on?

What if a woman tells you she´s on the pill? You still insinst on a condom each and every time?

If you think that woman is trying to trap you and you cant imagine having a kid with her, why are you fvcking her?
 

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Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Use condoms. I have used condoms with women who claimed to be on birth control when we were together and used condoms with women who weren't using birth control.

Most women won't mind if you use condoms. There are some women who dislike condoms because it reduces feeling for them, just like condoms reduce feeling for us. Even if some women dislike condoms, most of them don't dislike it enough to want you not to use them.

Always follow Iron Rule #5 unless you're trying to become a parent in a more secure and committed relationship. More secure and committed is always relative though.
 

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If the clock is ticking for her, then yes, its a red flag. If she was a super hot, wealthy, 18 year old girl, then she really hates condoms. If your gut is telling you that maybe she is trying to trap you, cut her loose before its too late.
 

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Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms.
I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children.
She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is.
I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
Is she on the pill? If not then tell her to get on it. I don’t pull out but I got snipped…
 

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OP, you have the right to use condom IF you want. That's fact. She has no right to tell you what and what not to do if it's about protecting yourself sexually (and mentally).
 

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She may be running tight birth control practice but it’s still the absolute definition of insanity not to take it into your own hands either by condom or vasectomy
 

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I'm all about condoms, but I guess I am a bit of a hypocrite as I don't normally use them. It kills the mood when a girl is like "**** me" and I have to be like "wait, let me dig my condom out of my wallet and get it on, first."
 
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