Girl wants me to physically hurt her during sex..

[CantTouchMyStyle]

I know many are going to fvcking laugh at this, but it is kind of fvcked up and freaked me out.

I met this chick about a month ago and didn't care enough for her to pursue it. Last week, I ran into her again through a mutual friend and I began to run some game on her.

Earlier today this girl texts me asking me if I wanted to meet up. I told her that I wasn't feeling great, but that she should come over to make me food and watch a movie.

Anyways, it wasn't long before she was tugging on my **** and I of course wasn't against getting it in. We start fooling around and she starts telling me to punch her.. I assumed she meant to slap her ass.. I slap her ass relatively hard, she responds to PUNCH or choke her.. I am like WTF? Keep in mind, I barely fvcking know this chick and she is saying this stuff.

I was thrown completely the fvck off and told her I would only punch her if she let me put it in her ass first. This crazy chick agrees! After some sloppy anal, she says "it's her turn!" and I am a man of my word, so I punched the chick a few times while fvcking her *****.

The sex was really good, but the punching her in the face was a little weird for me. She definitely has more than a few screws loose and the fvcked up part is she knows where I live.

I should note this girl is only 22 years old -- a bit early for this kind of fetish? I don't even know what to think.

 

[AFCToDJSlowButSurely]

i wouldnt mind wrapping an arm across her throat, give her to me but yeah she probably has some issues, good on ya for getting anal from her in exchange though, hope you strapped up bro.

 

[DJDamage]

There is a difference between being kinky and being disturbed.

Your girl is disturbed.

One bad hard punch to which it isn't going to do it for her and its off to the cops telling them you beat her.

Trying to explain that to a judge (while she is sobbing on the side) that she asked you to punch her during sex and see how far you get in court.

The Judge will say that you are a disturbed individual and throw your ass in jail.

Some girls are just so nutty that they ain't worth it.

 

[War Against Betaism]

There is a difference between being kinky and being disturbed.

Your girl is disturbed.

One bad hard punch to which it isn't going to do it for her and its off to the cops telling them you beat her.

Trying to explain that to a judge (while she is sobbing on the side) that she asked you to punch her during sex and see how far you get in court.

The Judge will say that you are a disturbed individual and throw your ass in jail.

Some girls are just so nutty that they ain't worth it.

Exactly what I was thinking. Whether or not she wanted you to punch her, the fact is you did punch her while having sex with her. Not much you can do to defend yourself in a situation given the facts.

 

[Quiksilver]

22 year old jailbait man, keep it real or bug outta that one.

 

[RZA26]

I dont think that a chick who likes to be choked or punched is a disturbed individual. If she likes it, she likes it...I done heard of worse fetishes lol.

However, just like the other g uys said I wouldnt mess with that, as the risk is just too damn high.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

I would have so much fun with this one.

 

[Bladerunner]

Each to their own, but for me that girl would be fvcking awesome

One big thing to keep in mind: consciously try to avoid leaving any marks on her body. I.E. if things go downhill, she can't really prove you pulled her hair really hard in a court, but that black eye points straight at you.

 

[GUnit20]

woa

Just curious, what did this b*tch look like? Ethnicity, hair, body type etc?
I was with a wild white girl recently who acted similar. She was a blonde who was on the thick side. She didn't ask me to punch her but she said that she wanted it real rough. I gave her what she wanted and a few slaps but I stopped short of anything more.

 

[Dex Bama]

lucky basturd. haha. she sounds like a keeper to me.

 

[SeymourCake]

She's setting you up for the cops/court. Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing.

 

[Magic Bullets]

**** is one thing which is fairly common and aspects are making its way into the mainstream, this sort of sounds weird.

 

[WhitePimp]

Videotape all sexual encounters if it's possible, and make sure the audio is rolling. If she pulls any sh!t like trying to take you to court you have documented evidence that it was consensual. The obvious choice though is to either not abuse her or ditch her.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

She's probably a nut.

 

[amoka]

She's probably a nut.

She IS a NUT job.

 

[DanelMadr]

I don't want to scare you or anything but a little choking can lead to brain aneurysm which is bad as you can imagine. I know what I'm talking about cause I have several of these nut jobs in a freezer, right. Nope, I'm kidding. Seriously FBI guys, I'm just kidding.

You know what is worse. When it is other way around. When she is a little sadist. Have you ever had a girl scratch your back before you even fakked...it fakking stings, man. You think she is going to give a massage and she fakking scratches your back like mad....it fakking stings and hurts like hell.

And then she tells you she wants to bite you...like really hard. You tell her No way get a fakk out a here and she says OK and goes down on you. You can't enjoy that, man, believe me. You just wait that bytch bites your pride. Freaking nightmare. And when you try rough her up a little, like pull her hait or squeeze her tit she goes "Ouch that hurts." Shyt, man, shyt. Never again. I was feeling like that chump Bond...in that spa scene with that sadistic russian bytch. OUCH. At least she didn't mind to get slapped in revenge Where they learn these things, man? Only positive thing though, her pvssy was flowing like river...clear, no foul smell stream of pvssy juice before I even touched her. She must have got off on that scratching my back.

 

[DanelMadr]

**** is one thing which is fairly common and aspects are making its way into the mainstream, this sort of sounds weird.

Girls are generally submissive creatures. They get off on these things. I knew on extreme she hated foreplay....she needed to be "raped" to be happy. Weird. Not my thing though. And the implications....she will be your slave meaning you have FULL responsibility for everything.

But I tell you, if a girl is not playing the "independent" act (or she actually does not like to be submissive for real) then just telling her you are gonna tie her and do whatever you want with her....she's gonna orgasms right on the spot.

Once I was on first date in a bar/restaurant and I was joking about me being mass murderer and I have a van waiting outside. She got that strange expression and asked how could I keep her for struggling. I told her how would I tie her up and....bla bla like some erotic story. She got horny as hell and begun asking me for more details. Well, I started to feel like a perv so turned it to fun and backtracked from that. But she got so fakking horny she was like grapevine on me - she was even trying to lick my ear - yack. Maybe if I continued she would got naked right there.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I find myself wondering what that would do to me during the process. What does it say about me that a part of me finds the idea appealing?

If I actually acted it out, I have a feeling it might change me in a fundamental way and actually cause me to fantasize about that any time a chick annoyed me.

 

[spider_007]

next time get it on video....or at least get her to say it on video that it's what she wants that way your covered.

Tell her: "Listen, i don't know you that long, and i really want to explore your fetish, but before we do that, i just want to make sure that i'm free of any big consequences that we might run into. If you say it on tape i'll be happy to abuse you like a wh00re that you are."

 

[DanelMadr]

I find myself wondering what that would do to me during the process. What does it say about me that a part of me finds the idea appealing?

If I actually acted it out, I have a feeling it might change me in a fundamental way and actually cause me to fantasize about that any time a chick annoyed me.

The pathological cases got it early on - childhood, puberty or some later serious trauma. So basically you either have it in you or not.

Lots of people enjoying fetishes and/or non-vanilla (weird) sexual practices do it because they are BORED. Either with fakking or with their partners or both. They may even develop a lifestyle out of it. I think they are sad people and need to find some serious hobby and find someone they would like to fakk vanilla style.

Occasional games are OK I guess, although choking is a bit over the top. Never mind, you can try that. Just make sure you don't choke her too much for too long....take it easy. You can add some spanking of her azz and pulling her hair and rough ride.
If you start to like it...I don't think so...occasionally maybe. Look if you start to hear voices telling you to choke your neighbor to death, well it is time for some medication

If you don't trust her...and remember she might be a real nut job - making false accusations and threats once you find someone else to choke - let her sign a paper. Tell her you had bad experience...girl accusing you of harassment bla bla. Or make it a fun...just a napkin where she writes and signs that she is OK with you choking her during sex.

You should know that having her consent is jack shyt when she ends up dead or she tells the jury that she signed it because she was thinking you were joking or that she changed her mind about the whole sex thing during the long evening with you but you raped her. But it can happen with any girl. She bangs her head on wall, tears some tissue inside of her vagina and you are fakked. Then your clean record and good lawyer and hopefully her bad record could save you. Know them well before you fakk them.