Girl Visiting!

[z0diac]

Here it is... I met this chick who has a bf, yes i know... I know. Anyway, I want her, she has the most unbelievable body. I'd much rather bang a single girl but this chick is making me feel like this is the exception.

She flirts with me all the time, she came down to my house on the weekend, we smoked a joint and I made my move... she said she wouldn't cheat on her bf or any guy she was with.

I thought to myself, what is this girl doing here if she doesn't want me. So i asked her, what are you doin here? She said she was just hanging out... I told her I wanted to jump her bones and that if that wasn't happening then she couldn't be stopping by my place.

She started saying shyt like: Lots of ppl have friends that they may want to bang but they don't and they still remain friends. I said not this cat!

So i told her she can't stop by anymore. But i still see here almost everyday. The last time i saw her the first thing out of her mouth was "You're the one with the problem" meaning i'm the one who has a problem with her coming down to my place. Well she's right... if she comes down, I'll want her, and she'll just be waving that ass in my face, know what i mean... practically telling me "Look what you can't have"!

So I'm not sure what to do about the whole ordeal, should i just let her come down and work my magic... hoping she'll have a moment of weakness, or should i just "Next" her. She has such an amazing body. )

So I'm interested in hearing what you've gotta say...

 

[Chewy Bagel]

I'd wait until she gets rid of her bf and then try again.

 

[PRMoon]

stick with it, keep your ban of her not coming to your house till she pays her dues. Since you've already layed it on the line for her and were blunt about it, she'll be turned on by your strength of mind sooner or later. Confidence wins and no play no stay is sure enough a very confident statement to make to any chic. If she ditches out and doesn't come back, big deal you'll find more and soon I'd wager. If she comes back to you you know all systems are a go.

Good plan good man

 

[z0diac]

Sounds like some good advice to me... the chic actually wants to come down to my place today to talk about the whole ordeal...
what should i do?

Like i said i would love for her to come down but i don't think it's gonna work out the way i would like. You guys will probably tell me to stand my ground right?

 

[chlywly]

meh, attention *****..............

 

[z0diac]

So i guess i should just tell this chic to stay away then huh....

 

[NewMan]

Fvck - I like what you did.

Most guys would remain her friend - but you had the balls to call her on it.

Now she wants to come down and talk to you about the whole thing.

Thats another Attention getter right there....

What's to talk about? I'd tell her you know what's up - there's nothing you can't say over the phone. I want to bang you, and if I can't you can come over.


Great move.

 

[z0diac]

It's been a few days now and already this girl is asking my friends if they've been talking to me and stuff. I'm thinking about distancing myself from her. In other words, staying the fvck away from her, out of site for however long it takes.

I banned her from my place "unless" there was going to be some sort of action. She knows my number and where i live... Should i just forget about her and let her come to me?

The way i figure it is if she doesn't see me for a week or more it'll drive her nuts. Then maybe she'll come down with different intentions. Either way... I've got to have her or get away from her before i go insane.

Should i stay away from this girl!? In order to get her and/or to forget her.

 

[Austin Allegro]

I was in a very similar situation as this. She was an old college friend, we were 'FBs' for a while and she used to come and stay at weekends etc but then she decided she wanted it to be ' just as friends' etc.

However this still involved her sleeping in the same bed as me, parading around in her bra and knickers, talking about other men, etc but forbidding any physical contact.

Eventually she asked if she could stay with me for two weeks while she looked for a job in my town. I just flipped and said no way - you are not staying in my flat unless we are having a sexual relationship.

She was annoyed about this but you're absolutely right: your place, your rules.

 

[z0diac]

I'd like someone to bonk me over the head and say this is exactly what you must do! If you do this, things will be good.

You guys have good advice man... I've got so much to learn.

 

[z0diac]

Hmm, things haven't changed much. I've decided to take the Ganji route. I've cut this girl off. No contact.

I'm going to see how this goes, since it is my last ditch effort to get that body, even though i guess with Ganji it's all about NO effort.

It's been only 2 days, but i've had zero contact with her. As far as i'm concerned that's a start for me. The girl works odd shifts so i'm not sure of her work routine. I'm taking steps to ensure i don't run into her anywhere. We'll see how this goes, and i'll let you dudes know the results.