girl texting everyday

pyros

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I went on one date with this 29 years old chick. We had fun etc,and we made out intensely and we almost f-vcked but...we had no place available that night...but we were all over each other.

The next day she texted me just to talk. Then she texted me again at night. I asked her out for some day that week but she has this crazy schedule because of work and she said she is not free until Sunday (six days from today). Ok...no date set yet.

The next day she texted me AGAIN, and she texted me again in the evening...

My question is...how do you handle a girl that texts you everyday?
some ppl say texting kills relationship but...what can I do?? she texts me, I reply, we have some laughs...then she texts me again the next day...and the cycle repeats itself.

I dont reply to her instantly of course, I wait from 5 to 30 minutes, but I dont think ignoring her is a good idea...

Thoughts?
 

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Bit busy at the mo. Will get back to you About this later.
 

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She is showing clear interest texting you. Why would you ignore her texts? If you were constantly texting her it would be a problem.
 

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When a girl texts you everyday, it's a clear sign of interest. She has enough friends to text her random silly **** to. The fact she texts you in addition, is more her probing you. You're on her mind, obviously.

I've got a girl like this right now. She texts me every single day, she finds any excuse. She'll send me some ****ty song she wants me to hear, she'll ask how my day/weekend was, or.. she asks me to join her in activity she's doing.

I always respond, but it's catered to the content of her text and the time it is. She texts me while I'm at work (9-5 type gig), I wait an hour or two or until lunch time to respond - when it's convenient for me. When she texts me some ****ty song? I reply with an acknowledging but indifferent response or something clever/flirty. Either way the intent is to not create some drawn out conversation about it. I'm brief but I'm there. I'm not her friend. Hell, I'm not her boyfriend. Now, if she asks me to go out with her? If I don't have other options, I'll agree in a nice but non-eager way and go knock it out of the park.

Bottom line: if she texts you everyday, she wants your attention. Give her some, but keep it short and, if you feel like it, flirty and clever. Don't be an aloof ****head just for the sake of it.

Bottom line2: if she wants to hangout. Cool. Agree, and just kill it in person. Either you go home with her or you leave her wishing she had invited you over (assuming going home wasn't quite in the cards). She'll keep on texting you everyday and inviting you to do ****. Then the weekend rolls around, and all the other losers texting her are boring. She has options, all women do; she wants the guy who was cool, fun in-person, and involved when it's appropriate. Be that guy. Stand out by not trying too hard while being the guy she wants to get her hands on.
 
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