Girl tells me she doesn't want a relationship. So I cut her off. right choice?

gimmeyofonenumba

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We've hung out plenty of times. Know each other through friends, so I'll most likely see her again. She had said she didn't want a relationship before and I played it cool and didn't care but now its been a few months and she drops it on me again and I quickly felt the need to just cut it off and I did. It's tough cause I wish it could've worked and do want to see her but I'm sticking with no contact. I figured if she rely liked me she'd want a relationship. Her excuse is she needs to finish up with her schooling etc and isn't ready yet blah. Any thoughts?
 

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Yes it's simple enough, just concentrate on continuing to fvck her and do a few activities once in a while outside of the fvcking. Bang other women as well.

The formula is: you bang her pvssy and demonstrate her value -> she will want exclusivity within 2-3 months.

That is really the way to get into a relationship. That's what women want, they don't want a guy professing their love to them and asking "will you be my girlfriend?" with some flowers and chocolates. :crackup:

They want someone charming and charismatic on the outside but they can feel there's something about him, they just don't know what it is. You play the mysterious charismatic figure who fvcks her without giving too much of a fvck about her to want much more, like pulling her in and half pushing her away. She will know you're in the power position of the relationship and will want to exert control and that's where her great idea of exclusivity comes into place.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
So just fvck her. Relationships are for women anyway.
This.

Men don't benefit from committing to women. Men who thirst for relationships have delusional Disney movie ideas of what relationships with modern women are actually like.

Just have sex with her as often as you can and don't worry about where it goes.
 

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Thinking about relationships is a woman's role in life. Your job is to lead the way with your awesome life and let her follow and support you. Not cower in the shadow of her life wondering if you can be a part of it, asking permission repeatedly.

A man is not supposed to ask a girl if she can be a part of his life. A man is supposed to allow a girl to be a part of his.

This is what she wants too...
 

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They want someone charming and charismatic on the outside but they can feel there's something about him, they just don't know what it is. You play the mysterious charismatic figure who fvcks her without giving too much of a fvck about her to want much more, like pulling her in and half pushing her away. She will know you're in the power position of the relationship and will want to exert control and that's where her great idea of exclusivity comes into place.

How?
 

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I think you made the right choice. However, there is also a chance that she will come crawling back to you. If that time comes, don't just take her right back. Either stay away from her for good, or if you must take her back then only do so after she has proven that she truly wants you. If you take her back the moment she expresses any interest, she'll probably just flake out on you again.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
Thinking about relationships is a woman's role in life. Your job is to lead the way with your awesome life and let her follow and support you. Not cower in the shadow of her life wondering if you can be a part of it, asking permission repeatedly.

A man is not supposed to ask a girl if she can be a part of his life. A man is supposed to allow a girl to be a part of his.

This is what she wants too...
This man has hit the nail on the head.

I learnt this from dating my ex- if they really want to be in your life, you get on with yours and they will find a way of showing you they want to be in it.
 
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