girl tells me about FWB situation? is this a **** test?

[AttackFormation]

Ok so after reading all of the posts I have a simple conclusion to share with you guys.

- When a girl brings up a boyfriend/husband, it's a sign that she's either trying to reject you nicely or looking to cheat.

- When a girl brings up a "friend"/fwb who she keeps around, it's the opposite. She is looking to use someone for the beta role, thus giving her emotional drama (drama: 4. any situation or series of events having vivid, emotional, conflicting, or striking interest or results) from being a "good girl" with the beta while going to the fwb to get c0ck and alpha. She makes her fwb more exciting by "cheating" on a beta with him and feeling the tension of going against what she "should" do like a bad girl. Instead of the fwb being simply some guy she fvcks, not that she wouldn't enjoy that already, he becomes forbidden fruit. It becomes like in a movie. In one word, it's exciting.

 

[RangerMIke]

She's telling you this after your first date????

Dude, you have to be done with this chick, she is a drama queen... and a DJ's life is a Drama Free zone, this will completely mess up your frame.

 

[dude99]

I got a FB message from some girl i just started dating (we've been on one date) but there's ton of chemistry and we'll be getting together again this week at my place ...

anyway i get this message from her today:

I need to tell you something about my situation. I have an FWB that kind of helps me out when I am between boyfriends, and after I broke up with my last boyfriend, I asked my FWB to spend Valentine's Day with me, and he agreed. I just told him that I met you, but he still wants me to hold to my promise to spend Valentine's day with him.

Ive dated a lot of girls ... never have they admitted to having a FWB that helps them out in between boyfriends ...I honestly don't care as i assume all girls do .. but a girl admitting it is an approach ive never seen before.

additionally i never set up plans with her on valentines day either ... so its not like she had to tell me about these valentines day plans with someone else.

Is this a sh1t test ... or is this signs of low interest?

UPDATE:

Got this message from her without my responding shortly after:


I did already tell him no more sleeping together. Just want to be up front with you and honest.

Sounds l

I got a FB message from some girl i just started dating (we've been on one date) but there's ton of chemistry and we'll be getting together again this week at my place ...

anyway i get this message from her today:

I need to tell you something about my situation. I have an FWB that kind of helps me out when I am between boyfriends, and after I broke up with my last boyfriend, I asked my FWB to spend Valentine's Day with me, and he agreed. I just told him that I met you, but he still wants me to hold to my promise to spend Valentine's day with him.

Ive dated a lot of girls ... never have they admitted to having a FWB that helps them out in between boyfriends ...I honestly don't care as i assume all girls do .. but a girl admitting it is an approach ive never seen before.

additionally i never set up plans with her on valentines day either ... so its not like she had to tell me about these valentines day plans with someone else.

Is this a sh1t test ... or is this signs of low interest?

UPDATE:

Got this message from her without my responding shortly after:


I did already tell him no more sleeping together. Just want to be up front with you and honest.

She sounds like a user and has been stringing this guy along. At least you know ahead of time who she is going to cheat on you with.