Girl: Situations

[yearsofwisdom]

Hey, im new to this and i wanna be one of those don juans. theres this girl that always smiles and waves at me when she sees me. i see potential in her but what should i do back? i always smile nicely and say hey ____. is this the correct way to handle this or what?

 

[MrP]

Think about it. Is saying hi gonna get you some? Probably not (Unless your a stud like me of course!). One word for you... BANTER.

 

[Bladerunner]

Flirty banter.
+kino

 

[mrdann]

yes, that would be the nice way to do, you can invite here for small talk at restaurant too, it's old fashion romance but it works

 

[yearsofwisdom]

what is banter? and how do i do it?

 

[Bladerunner]

banter definition
ban·ter (ban′tər)
transitive verb
to tease or make fun of in a playful, good-natured way
Origin: 17th-c. slang < ?
intransitive verb
to exchange banter (with someone)
noun
good-natured teasing, ridicule, or joking

 

[yearsofwisdom]

what would be some things to do for banter? like what would i say thats flirty?

 

[Bladerunner]

Something to get you started:

http://www.tsbmag.com/2009/04/17/how-these-****y-funny-examples-build-immediate-attraction-rapport-and-respect/

 

[schoolfights]

To win a girl you need to be someone she can talk to, but talking doesn't do any good when you reply with a lie. Don't be afraid to tell her what you really think or how you really feel about her or your relationship.

 

[Reckoning]

(Unless your a stud like me of course!).

I just love people like you, bragging over the internet.

 

[ARrocket]

To win a girl you need to be someone she can talk to, but talking doesn't do any good when you reply with a lie. Don't be afraid to tell her what you really think or how you really feel about her or your relationship.

No offense schoolfights, but this is exactly what DOESN'T work. I'm guessing you're a girl...never take advice on how to get girls from another girl! In other words...don't ask a fish how to fish.

In response to the question, you need to smile, say hi, and then flirt with her. What do I mean by flirt? Tease her playfully, if she's smiling and hitting you playfully, you're doing great. Then, you get her number, call her up sometime, and get her to hang out with you. From there, you escalate physically, until you get in there

I'd recommend reading the DJ Bible, there's lot's of good stuff in there that will get you started.

 

[yearsofwisdom]

now this girl that i like is sorta taken.... how feasible is it for me to win her? or?

 

[ARrocket]

now this girl that i like is sorta taken.... how feasible is it for me to win her? or?

From my experience, it's probably best to continue as if she weren't taken. If you're looking for a relationship, probably not gonna happen, but if you just wanna bang her, just continue to escalate shamelessly and see what happens.

 

[yearsofwisdom]

interesting. Now i have a question about engaging in conversation. would it be a good idea to talk about how another girl is really hot? like a actress or a model or something ? would that be like desperate sounding or?

 

[ARrocket]

Yeah the point is to make her see you in a sexual way. Don't say "Wow Jessica Alba is so pretty." Instead say "Jessica Alba has a great face and an amazing body, I would do unspeakable things to her if she was in my bed!" This can get her to talking about guys she'd like to sleep with, which can lead to you two talking about sex, which can get her all hot and bothered, which will work to your advantage!

 

[yearsofwisdom]

now what if there isn't attraction between the girl that i want? is that a lost cause? and if i try to act ****y but i have nothing to back that up with like a rep or something, is that useless?