So some of you may know me and read some of my stuff but here I am with a question and situation.
Last 6 months or so I've been out and about getting laid, having fun and staying away from anything that involved commitment. I've met a few girls in the course of that, that I could consider for something more then fvck buddy or friend status but not many.
Last 1 month or so I've met a girl. At first it started as sort of friends without actually meeting her even though we are at the same school we started to chat online. Recently we started to hang out.
I am 25 and she is 23. Today, last night we hung out and through drinking it became apparent she likes me more then friends. She got close to me and hand holding and the such. Now I would have been aggressive to begin with but I knew she had a boyfriend in another state and I decided not to pursue as much. Now I only hung out with her 2-3 times and I didn't really express myself as a friend only, there was always some tension and chemistry there and I didn't let that slide and not be there. I did like her from the start but cause of her boyfriend I didn't really pursue and went after other girls. Now I feel like after what happened last night I perhaps want to see where and if it goes further.
One thing I want you to understand. This is not we are friends and I want something more situation. This is we both feel that there is something there situation but I have to play my cards right in order to secure her and have her. Being that she has a boyfriend and that she is rather conservative how do I approach this situation without freaking her out or being a chump and expressing myself to her, because I will NOT do that. I will only do that through action. So what are the steps or tips I should do in order to pursue that into more then what it is now. I will lead and risk whatever I have with her now, I have no fear of that. Because she will not lead and take responsibiltiy of leaving her b/f on her I have to take charge.
Am I too much over my head? Tips? Comments?
Thanks.
Last 6 months or so I've been out and about getting laid, having fun and staying away from anything that involved commitment. I've met a few girls in the course of that, that I could consider for something more then fvck buddy or friend status but not many.
Last 1 month or so I've met a girl. At first it started as sort of friends without actually meeting her even though we are at the same school we started to chat online. Recently we started to hang out.
I am 25 and she is 23. Today, last night we hung out and through drinking it became apparent she likes me more then friends. She got close to me and hand holding and the such. Now I would have been aggressive to begin with but I knew she had a boyfriend in another state and I decided not to pursue as much. Now I only hung out with her 2-3 times and I didn't really express myself as a friend only, there was always some tension and chemistry there and I didn't let that slide and not be there. I did like her from the start but cause of her boyfriend I didn't really pursue and went after other girls. Now I feel like after what happened last night I perhaps want to see where and if it goes further.
One thing I want you to understand. This is not we are friends and I want something more situation. This is we both feel that there is something there situation but I have to play my cards right in order to secure her and have her. Being that she has a boyfriend and that she is rather conservative how do I approach this situation without freaking her out or being a chump and expressing myself to her, because I will NOT do that. I will only do that through action. So what are the steps or tips I should do in order to pursue that into more then what it is now. I will lead and risk whatever I have with her now, I have no fear of that. Because she will not lead and take responsibiltiy of leaving her b/f on her I have to take charge.
Am I too much over my head? Tips? Comments?
Thanks.
