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girl says she'll "think" about going on a date

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she's playing around. . . seems like she likes having your attention. Be smart about it by not giving her too much attention. If you give her the attention when she is looking for it, guess who is in control?

Take control dude. Insecure girls seek attention because of their lack of confidence.

Also, don't take her seriously if she's not going to take you seriously. If you do visit her at her place and you guys make out, do not snooze. Push it as far as you can and try to get to 3rd base.

Let us know what you do next time you talk or see her. Tell us the highlights of your experience and we can take it from there.
 

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syemour said:
this ***** just wants your attention. cut all communication cold and see how see reacts, and in the mean time be talking to other chicks.
very well said... before I even read this, I posted the same thing
 
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Raikojo17 said:
..... because she still says it. what the hell is this? seems to me if she was into me she would jump at the chance to go out.
Quit playing hor games KID!!!!!

Give her 5 seconds to answer your request!!!!! 5, 4, 3, 2, 1!!!!! Then hang up!!!!

NEVER play into a woman's hand -- you are the dealer - you control the cards and the tempo of the game!!!!!!
 

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Raikojo17 said:
so get this. she's now telling me to call her so we can arrange a get together. she is bringing one of her friends, and she's asking to bring one of my friends for her friend. she also agreed to our little date too, saying that she had to see wat her mom was doing first. I guess she was just playing hard to get, cuz she and her friend are tryin to get me to call her, and she's callin me "beasty",soo...
Wait a second, she's putting your date with her behind what her mother plans on doing and that her girlfriend needs a hookup. Make sure you aren't wearing blinders and take a look at what is going on around you.
 

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Never accept a "maybe" date, or a double date for that matter. When you give into her demands it lowers her interest level in you. Get some balls, go out with her on YOUR terms, not hers. When she pulls that ****, simply find a way to end the call and freeze her out for a few days and call again.

I'm actually probably one of the few guys here that thinks she is into you, but you got to cut through all her B.S. and stand up to this girl and get her in line.
 

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next time anyone says "i'll think about it" just say "i'm a busy man, i need to know now!". Usually you'll get an answer. If she still tries to keep you hanging or keeps p u s s y footing around then just tell her "nevermind" no chick should be telling you to bring a friend or playing the mom card. Its either a yes or a no.
 

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neko said:
she's playing around. . . seems like she likes having your attention. Be smart about it by not giving her too much attention. If you give her the attention when she is looking for it, guess who is in control?

Take control dude. Insecure girls seek attention because of their lack of confidence.

Also, don't take her seriously if she's not going to take you seriously. If you do visit her at her place and you guys make out, do not snooze. Push it as far as you can and try to get to 3rd base.

Let us know what you do next time you talk or see her. Tell us the highlights of your experience and we can take it from there.

so she was tryin to make plans with me for today, but i cancel because i was already doin somethin with my friends. i told her some other time maybe.
lol now she's pissed at me i think because she's talking about how we planned this for days.
i had to break the plans because she brought in some last minute details that didnt go with my schedule. now i think i hurt her feelings cuz she's talkin about how guys from our school suck and wat not.
 

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lol. . . reminds me of me... lol I had one of those girls and I snoozed! she had D cups! and liked me so much and invited me to her condo right after we had lunch. . . maybe if I tell u about this girl, u can take from it bc they might be similar.

Now, this girl is daddy's little girl and they're pretty loaded$ cha ching. . . She is always texting non-stop on the phone. Probably all the other guys she turned into her *****es. She also has many stalkers. Why would she have stalkers? bc she loves attention and loves having them on the palm of her hand.


What drives her mad?
When I don't pick up the phone or text her back(lol)
Don't make yourself available all the time, that's where I screwed up.
And you're doing such a great job! Props! (hands clapping)

When is she interested?
When I tell her I'm mad at her. (she just wants me on her palm)

According to her, no one has ever treated her as rude as I have. lol

Now, what u need is 2 get some alone time w/ her. What sucks is that she may try 2 control and come up w/ stupid plans so what u need 2 do is say "hey, there's this party I'm going 2, I'll text u the address if you're interested." (something along those lines) U just need 2 get some alone time and you're set. In my case, we had some alone time and made out topless. ("Very nice" - Borat) :) I could've scored a Home Run! but I snoozed. :-( (sucks)

Also, when she does something you like, treat her nicely n give her attention. When she acts stupid, ignore her. Reward n punish

I also screwed up when she found me dancing at a club w/ some other chick.

Keep us updated dude and don't forget the condoms. I'm serious, do not 4get the condoms!
 
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