Girl says she can't have an orgasm during sex??

[jophil28]

Well last night she told me she blew the other two guys off( no pun intended) and told them she wasn't going out with them. Of course this was only after I told her that I had a couple of different women I was talking to as well and that I told her I was not looking for a relationship.

And as far as the no orgasm thing it wasn't with me but just every other guy she's been out with. She is coming over tonight so I will see about tending to and offering some kind of solution to her problem!!

I get a gut feeling that this woman is playing head games that are all too familiar....
Firstly, she told you that she was interested in a couple of other guys (to trigger you into competing for her) You got though that one without caving in and chasing her like she wanted.
Now she is telling you that she cannot "orgasm". Can you see how she repeatedly tries to command the spotlight ?
I think that she is telling you this ENTIRELY to get you to work HARD at pleasing her. She wants "the frame", she wants the power position and she wants the focus to be on HER and not on the connection that you and she have.. She want to be "the prize" and the center of your efforts and the object of your attention. If you DO play into this game, she will invent another game and then create more hoops for you to jump through. You will endlessly be acting like a performing seal for her amusement and approval.

The way to counter this crap is to casually mention that a woman is responsible for her own sexual pleasure and you are nobody's sex slave and that you expect a woman to GIVE as much as she receives....
Say it with a smirk so that she hears your message.

 

[kingwilliam]

Listen, some women simply can't have orgasms during intercourse. Its just the way things are.

That is why you should also be good at using your tongue. Once you master her klit orally, you may be able to induce an orgasm during sex by rubbing her klit with your thumb while you pump away......

You could also try letting her be on top, where she can "grind" her ***** while she does her thing. This way she can control the speed and intensity.

I have been with hundreds of women and I am confident in my skill and experience. Some women simply cant have an orgasm during sex.

I had a girlfriend one time that couldn't.....but I could have her convulsing like she was in a seizure with my tongue.