lastking said:
I had a date at a nice restaurant with this girl that I have been attracted to for a while.
lastking,
Never take a woman out to a nice restaurant on the first date
Go with some good friends that will enjoy it, rather than some chick who may never put out and who you may never see again.
No matter how much you pay for a date, she will only put out if that was her plan in the first place
No amount of champagne, steak, or lobster will change her game plan
Also, the more you spend on a first date, the higher you are setting the bar for the future
She will then expect you to take her out to nice places and meals in the future
Your goal is to get as much as you can out of her, while giving her as little as possible!!
Taking her to a nice restaurant won't help you get into her pants anymore than going out for drinks
You ended up wasting your hard earned money on a chick who won't put out
lastking said:
I tried to set up another date yesterday via facebook
Why are you setting up dates on Facebook? Dates should be set up over the phone
lastking said:
I tried to kiss her at the end of the date and she said that she couldn't kiss because it was a first date.
That is a bvllsh!t excuse
Women who are attracted to men will even bang them on the first date
You can be sure that she kissed men on her first dates before
Women don't kiss the men they are not attracted to.....and they don't reciprocate with kino either
She has thrown up her defenses and has made it known
Chalk this up as a loss.......just like the Denver Broncos did and move on
Anymore attempts by you trying to make her "comfortable again" will make you look even more desperate
She is trying to tell you as nicely as she can.....that she isn't interested......if piss her off enough, she will tell you off and let you know how she really feels about you!!
lastking said:
Anyways how do I recover from this and make her comfortable again. I really like her
she said that she wasnt sure whether she wanted to go on another date
Her: I tried to but you weren't listening. The touching and feeling was way too much for me. I just wanted to have dinner and open up a little. I'm not someone who goes so fast. I'm newly divorced, I just want to make sure I'm doing the right things.
She just answered your question for you with her responses.....this chick isn't feeling it.....you are just wasting your time trying to convince her to go out again.....start looking for new women to date......and don't take them out to nice restaurants!!