Girl said we’re not compatible in bed after 1st date

[Hal9000]

Never had a woman tell me that but I've definitely dumped a woman for being bad in bed, although incompatible doesn't necessarily equate to bad. I'd always give them a second opportunity to change my mind but if they were lousy the first time they were lousy the second time as well.

 

[SW15]

Congrats! you landed a single mommy

Single moms can be good for recreational sex. Some men are willing to put up with someone with difficult logistics for arranging sex. Most women with children under 10-12 or so have rather difficult logistics. If all her children are 13-17, she might have slightly easier logistics since all her children are more independent. The downside is that she's likely nearing menopause age if her children are 13-17 years old.

 

[Manure Spherian]

She's a very promiscuous woman, she doesn’t hide this and talks a lot of bs.
she cheated on her husband and obviously meets a lot of men.
However I texted her today and she said we’re not compatible in bed but otherwise I’m a good person.

Exactly why do you care what this woman thinks or says?

Do you like her?

 

[kavi]

You cannot turn a hoe into a housewife bruh

 

[Mike32ct]

You had regular/vanilla sex and was happy to just get laid. Nothing wrong with that.

She wanted to be railed into next week.

It was a mismatch of expectations.

 

[Smok1nAce]

Matched with this 35 yo single mother on a dating app.
Met her last Friday and we had sex 3 times.
she slept at my place.
She's a very promiscuous woman, she doesn’t hide this and talks a lot of bs.
she cheated on her husband and obviously meets a lot of men.
However I texted her today and she said we’re not compatible in bed but otherwise I’m a good person.
I asked her why but she just said we’re not compatible.
I mean she’s not a long term candidate anyways but it would be nice keeping her as a plate. Had no other choice than wishing her good luck.
It hurt my ego tbh.
Did something like this happen to you before?

So you already Fuked, and now your wondering why she left? dude you dodged a bullet.

This is a good example of why the game is what it is today, dudes would rather waste time and give up their balls to sleep with a *** receptor then putting in work for a higher value women just for "easy sex". Women who talk like this are a pump and dump, not some ...well I'll put her in rotation, tolerate her bad behavior and bs talk so I can score. This diminishes you and elevates her. leave this women for a lesser man and let him deal with her f'd up attitude.


what you did...

what you should have done...

unless your really handicapped in that department, you probably did fine in bed. She just f'd up in the head and needs a dude who gonna treat her like ****. If that's a path you want to go down fine, but remember that type of behavior only diminishes you and elevates her.

 

[member162951]

I have another girl I’m seeing for 2 months and as soon as I see her it’s different and I also last longer.
she doesn’t expect that much and sex is not the only reason she’s with me.

I want the shy girl that can’t help herself when I make out with her in my car on the first date, not the woman that had countless bodies and now I have to prove myself.

These two quotes say it all especially what's bolded. Stick with that. It's what you want anyway and what you respond to, sexually and emotionally.

Don't fight with yourself trying to desire something you don't and be someone you're NOT.

You're not bad in bed you were simply with the wrong person and not compatible.

That said, it wouldn't hurt to watch some videos to learn technique and improve performance, generally.