Girl pulled back after awesome dates / She is not texting anymore

[Solomon]

Typically only if they are losing interest or there is someone else she is more interested in that has entered the picture.

Or she decided she doesn't see any future potential with you. Why? Who knows.

Could be for lots of reasons some of which have nothing to do with you at all.

^^This there is no need to mentally masturbate if a woma nshows high IL initally then it wanes suddenly or slowly it means she lost interst
happens all the time

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Hey man, burn this onto your frontal cortex and you will be smooth sailing life..before a chick becomes your official LTR/girlfriend/bonnie always assume that she is talking to another dude. Better yet assume that she is getting railed by at least that one dude. More times than not they have a fall back guy. Remember, she still posing in the open market (social media, exes, coworkers, friends of friends etc)
On a further note, seasoned chicks who have been riding the pony for a while also have their player ways if her instincts pick up that you don’t see her for anything serious other than an after 9pm “sport fvck”. Unless your game is as sharp as surgeon’s scalpel, they will treat you accordingly and pull sh!t like this. Never dismiss female game.
keep one foot grounded in the basics.

ps. Call her and don’t bring any of this up. Get in her feelz again. If she don’t pick up and doesn’t call you back in a timely frame then put her on ice.

 

[BadBoy89]

Should you text her? Never understand these types of questions from men. What do you want from her?

If you want to have sex with her, text her
If you want to hang out with her, text her
If you need help from her, text her
If you want emotional support and have her care about you / care you alive, don't text her.

 

[Gamisch]

@AM349 what do you think is causing this to happen?

Date 1 time a week. Taking hours to text back, because i am busy with life. Acting warm and cold during dates.

I wonder why you acting warm/ cold. Is this a reaction to how they behave or is this a "tactical move"?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Essentially you thought the dates were awesome OP, her not so much.

 

[Barrister]

These women typically are seeing multiple men at once just like you are seeing multiple women. She has a big board of interest just like you do. You just aren't at the top and she probably is with the guy who is. Don't get angry or over-analyze it. Just move on and keep seeing high interest women. You will be a happier man if you don't over-think this kind of stuff (as hard as it is at points).

 

[BackInTheGame78]

These women typically are seeing multiple men at once just like you are seeing multiple women. She has a big board of interest just like you do. You just aren't at the top and she probably is with the guy who is. Don't get angry or over-analyze it. Just move on and keep seeing high interest women. You will be a happier man if you don't over-think this kind of stuff (as hard as it is at points).

Pretty much this...and just because you had sex with her at the end of each date doesn't qualify as a "great date" in her mind. She can literally have that anytime she wants.

Essentially a woman's criteria for a "great date" tends to be different from most men's where it mostly revolves around "did sex happen"?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Essentially a woman's criteria for a "great date" tends to be different from most men's where it mostly revolves around "did sex happen"?

They'll remember mostly the feelings you gave them and those feelings are not necessarily sex/romance related. If a woman feels really good with you, better than she feels with anyone else, she will want to be with you all the time. And she won't make dating or any type of 'coming together' difficult.