Girl pulled back after awesome dates / She is not texting anymore

[BadBoy89]

Should you text her? Never understand these types of questions from men. What do you want from her?

If you want to have sex with her, text her
If you want to hang out with her, text her
If you need help from her, text her
If you want emotional support and have her care about you / care you alive, don't text her.

 

[Gamisch]

@AM349 what do you think is causing this to happen?

Date 1 time a week. Taking hours to text back, because i am busy with life. Acting warm and cold during dates.

I wonder why you acting warm/ cold. Is this a reaction to how they behave or is this a "tactical move"?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Essentially you thought the dates were awesome OP, her not so much.

 

[Barrister]

These women typically are seeing multiple men at once just like you are seeing multiple women. She has a big board of interest just like you do. You just aren't at the top and she probably is with the guy who is. Don't get angry or over-analyze it. Just move on and keep seeing high interest women. You will be a happier man if you don't over-think this kind of stuff (as hard as it is at points).

 

[BackInTheGame78]

These women typically are seeing multiple men at once just like you are seeing multiple women. She has a big board of interest just like you do. You just aren't at the top and she probably is with the guy who is. Don't get angry or over-analyze it. Just move on and keep seeing high interest women. You will be a happier man if you don't over-think this kind of stuff (as hard as it is at points).

Pretty much this...and just because you had sex with her at the end of each date doesn't qualify as a "great date" in her mind. She can literally have that anytime she wants.

Essentially a woman's criteria for a "great date" tends to be different from most men's where it mostly revolves around "did sex happen"?