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Aesthetix29

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Ok so I've been messaging this girl and she's going on holiday on Monday so tried to get her round mine tonight but was having none of it haha and she texted me this:-

I no yeah it's so cold outside makes u not wanna go out!! Might be when I come back now so busy tomoz m havd to leave at 5 ;( mite squeeze u I. For an hour in the pub tomoz tho :) xxxx

What would be a good reply or would it be better to just leave it at that ?
 

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Looks like she was drunk while texting that mumbo jumbo bullsh!t, and probably getting DP'ed as well.

Don't contact again. Sign of low interest unless proven otherwise.


"shh baby it's cold out there we can't get out" Yeah :rolleyes:
 

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You say 'ill keep you warm ;)'

make a joke of it and ask her again, make it very clear.

If she rejects that again reply with ok and ghost on her until she reaches out and actually suggests to meet up.

Next my brother there are lotssssss of girls everywhere :) Invest in the ones that are actually interested in you, they are out there I promise you.
 

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TheGambino said:
Now the message in english please
Easy. I'm not interested in you sexually yet. I'll decide.

Sounds like low interest. An actual meet up would help. But don't be an orbiter. A woman either is interested or not. If she shows any more disinterest, kick her to the curb.

Case closed.
 

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Your answer----->"uh ok". That's more than enough for this low interest case.
 

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Squeeze you in? You mean she's going to get busy and likely message you last minute to say "sorry can't do today". Nah leave it. Just be casual. "Ah you sound busy, we'll do some other time" then go silent and wait for her to initiate contact. If she doesn't move on.
 

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"It's all good I got plans tomorrow anyway. Maybe another time though."

Then go NC until she hits you up. If she doesn't she was never interested anyway.
 

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so I didn't reply last night so I'm thinking of sending this text this morning

Morning, listen you sound busy and I have plans for today anyway ... We'll do some other time okay. X
 

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I think saying ''I have plans anyway'' makes you sound butthurt. Also drop the ''Morning'' and the ''X''.

I'd go with VladPatton's response.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Aesthetix29

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So just reply saying okay ?

The thing is there's more too this as we've been texting a while it's actually someone I know not a randomer, we went on a date last week.... And as for her saying it was too cold etc that's because I mentioned in my previous text that I decided on stayin in so that why she put that... And My previous text I also asked her when she was coming round for cuddles that she promised me (private joke) and can't make out wherher she stated she'll squeeze me in for an hour or that she'll squeeze me an hour in the pub due to the type error haha
 

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Aesthetix29 said:
she stated she'll squeeze me in for an hour or that she'll squeeze me an hour in the pub due to the type error haha

The only games you should be playing with women is sex games in your bedroom.

Any other bogus games is a waste of your time when there is no sexual interest developing.

Looks like a waste of time to me.

Let her put her money where her mouth is.

Quit the texting and get her out on a date.

If you get excuses you have your answer of no interest.
 

Aesthetix29

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We went on a date Thursday night and she's goes on holiday for 4 days tomorrow so Im kinda f**ked... I don't think she was being funny with text tho ... Yesterday morning she messaged me saying 'morning sexy' but not sure if that means anything. I'm confused
 
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