Girl not answering phone

[Kerpal]

Met this girl online, met in person and just walked around and talked for a bit. When we parted she gave me a hug and said we should do something this week. I said OK and that I would call her. I called her once a few days later, no answer. I tried again today, no answer. I didn't leave a message either time because I figured it's kind of pointless, your phone tells you if someone called.

Should I forget about this girl?

 

[Mr. Me]

I'd say forget her.

The chemistry wasn't there for her.

That's why you got a hug. And a gentle let down via the vague invitation to do "something this week".

But look, try one more time (call next Sunday at 10 PM, most people are home then), and if she still doesn't pick up, leave this very brief message: "Hi, it's Kerpal. Sorry I didn't catch you - give me a call back at XXX-XXXX. Talk later, bye!" And that's it.

If she's interested, she'll call you back... but she has caller id and knows you've called before, twice? I wouldn't then expect a call.

 

[DonGorgon]

Met this girl online, met in person and just walked around and talked for a bit. When we parted she gave me a hug and said we should do something this week. I said OK and that I would call her. I called her once a few days later, no answer. I tried again today, no answer. I didn't leave a message either time because I figured it's kind of pointless, your phone tells you if someone called.

Should I forget about this girl?

Call them 1 time.. no answer means no more calls... women know what they are doing....

 

[Kerpal]

Thanks guys. It's too bad, she was cute. I'm running out of online girls pretty quickly here, going to have to start approaching in person soon, lol.

 

[Axcell]

Over 1000 posts and you don't know the answer to the question!? Haha jokes, sometimes we all ask questions we know the answer too... just to back up what we already know.

Definetly next her. I would have called her once and left her a voicemail message, and than never called again. This is why it is REALLY essential to build enough rapport with a girl beforehand to make sure your plan follows through. Getting digits is hardly nothing these days.

I know I've talked to quite a bit of women and I know for a fact that many times they give their number to just get the guy off their back! (And at many times they give a wrong number!) lol. (But we all know how to bypass this, and if you don't, you have some learning to do!)

All I can say is just build more rapport next time and try not to focus TOO much on getting the number. Rather, focus on carrying out a good, interesting, funny conversation while being charismatic and confident at the same time. You'll notice that you may not get as many numbers, but you'll get higher results. To me, I'd rather get 5 numbers and plan dates with all 5 of them than to get 10 numbers, and only get 2 dates.

Hope I helped,
Axcell.

 

[decades]

I believe that if Colin Farrell called her she would answer. And there lies YOUR answer.

 

[Single_Sucks]

sorry to hear it man

the thing is she probably liked you on the internet but maybe she didn't have the attraction in person (yes girls are superficial too).

 

[slaog]

Don't call her anymore. You tried twice so she leave it at that. If she was online she might have other dates lined up.. actually it's a certainty she has.

How did the date go when ye were walking around? Did you come across as being too nice?

 

[Kerpal]

Don't call her anymore. You tried twice so she leave it at that. If she was online she might have other dates lined up.. actually it's a certainty she has.

How did the date go when ye were walking around? Did you come across as being too nice?

I don't think so. There were a couple of silent moments where I just couldn't think of anything to say, but I made her laugh a lot. Also, she suggested we meet again and even the place we should go, and she initiated the hug at the end, so I thought she was interested.

 

[slaog]

I don't think so. There were a couple of silent moments where I just couldn't think of anything to say, but I made her laugh a lot. Also, she suggested we meet again and even the place we should go, and she initiated the hug at the end, so I thought she was interested.

It happens. The same happened me a few months ago and I was a bit perplexed to say the least. She talked about meeting again etc..

There obviously wasn't enough attraction there for the girl (same with mine) so just try to keep improving. I know my date went well and smoothly but I wasn't 100% confident and didn't feel like the prize.

 

[broken dreams]

use the "fake loser" phone message.
call up with love music background and crying saying I thought you were the one, Im a loser dont have any friends, you are my only hope for Love!
....then stop the music and say NOT! and tell her to stop being a brat and to call you back seriously, then play the music back loud singing loudly and hangup.

I used it it is funny as hell, they will call back for sure.
if not, she is a boring sour biach not worth even calling.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Also, almost Every time a woman has "said" she'd call me back in 5 minutes, it became 45 minutes, later became tomorrow etc etc. Women are only good for cleaning your house and cooking your dinner for when you get home. Other than that, I can't think of any other use outside of sex and spawning babies for a woman in this life. Women are pretty much useless and undependable unless given the leg-up or piggy-back by a man in the first place.

 

[DonJuan11]

Met this girl online, met in person and just walked around and talked for a bit. When we parted she gave me a hug and said we should do something this week. I said OK and that I would call her.

Mistake right here. As soon as she said "we should do something later this week" you should have not let her off the hook. You should have asked what day, what time of day, when you could phone her, what time you could phone her, what she likes to do, how she likes to do it. By leaving it open, she has no reason to respond, she could have been sleeping with her bf those two times you phoned and left no message. If she gives you an opening, do not let her off the hook.