Girl lied to me

[Heweab24]

I urgently need your help DJs, and please excuse my English for it is a second language to me.

I'm 29 and I'm currently dating this 18 year old college student who I've only known for two weeks. I managed to get the cookie last and it was actually her first time ever having sex, but things didn't end pretty well. When we were done fvcking she told me she wants to leave and join her lady friends who were out that night, and that was at about 3am. These ladies happen to be her colleagues and they also live at the same college residence. I genuinely told her that wherever her friends were, they were with guys and she can't leave me go join them but she said she only wants to go there because she can't sleep alone... I then told her that she shouldn't go but she didn't listen and went on to join her friends. Funny thing is these friends of hers were at a hotel with guys, which I only got to know coz I hacked her whatsapp and saw her conversation with one girl who was giving her directions to get get there. She only started texting me when she was there and even lied to me about her whereabouts. I then told her exactly where she was to her surprise(she still doesn't know I hacked her whatsapp).

To make the long story short I called her up, confronted her about it and stopped answering her calls and texts until she came unannounced to my house. We had a little chat and told her I can never trust her again and that we should part ways.. She started crying and all and begged me not leave her, which I responded to by telling her she should just leave my house and at least give me time.. Now she's bowing up my u
phone with texts asking me to forgive her and she'll never do it again, of which I haven't answered any of them, nor picked her calls.

What should I do DJs?

 

[Thatfeel21]

1st off, she's 18. Still a child. What are you expecting from her? Personally, I could give a damn what a woman does after I hit. Sounds like she wanted to hang with her girls afterwards, nothing wrong with that. Lay back some more bro

 

[Heweab24]

1. You were not her first. She lied about that too.

2. You had sex but then tried to dictate terms when you are not in a relationship. Bad move on your part.

3. She lied to you about where she was going and she will lie again.

Too many strikes here in the beginning. I would say "forgive her" and use her for what she is, a fvck toy and nothing more.

I did hit it first.. I broke her virginity

 

[wifehunter]

I did hit it first.. I broke her virginity

Uhh, you mean "cookie".

 

[Igetit!]

1. You were not her first. She lied about that too.

2. You had sex but then tried to dictate terms when you are not in a relationship. Bad move on your part.

3. She lied to you about where she was going and she will lie again.

Too many strikes here in the beginning. I would say "forgive her" and use her for what she is, a fvck toy and nothing more.

Agreed. You seem to be expecting A LOT out of someone you've only known 14 days.

You're a grown,ADULT man. She's a teenager....still a child. You're expecting maturity out of a kid.

She likely is just looking to have fun. You're all serious...like you're putting girlfriend or wife-like expectations on her. You might wanna ease up on that.

She just left her parents household where she was under authority. I doubt she wants to go straight from that to seeing someone who places more rules,restrictions,and expectations on her.

 

[marmel75]

Dude you sound super lame. You dated this chick for 2 weeks and banged her once and want to act like she is your girlfriend of 5 years? Give me a break.

This is insecure and controlling behavior to the max. If I knew her I'd advise she walk away from you, but she will likely stay a while considering the circumstances.

You need help thats for sure, but the advice you are going to get isn't what you were expecting I'm going to guess.

Stop being insecure and needy.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Hacking her WhatsApp is ridiculous behaviour, enough said.

Also I finally just realised that Danger and wifehunter DO have slightly different profile pics. Was tripping me out for weeks...!

 

[wifehunter]

Hacking her WhatsApp is ridiculous behaviour, enough said.

Also I finally just realised that Danger and wifehunter DO have slightly different profile pics. Was tripping me out for weeks...!

the word 'stalkerish' comes to mind.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Boohoo.

Who cares.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Hacking the whatsapp and stalking a teenager you know for 2 weeks?

Find professional help.

 

[Thatfeel21]

To play devils advocate: she may have wanted to run to her friends due to her excitement of just having lost her v card, and needed to tell the story. Regardless, you're way too involved, you have no excuses OP.

 

[AJ84]

I urgently need your help DJs, and please excuse my English for it is a second language to me.

I'm 29 and I'm currently dating this 18 year old college student who I've only known for two weeks. I managed to get the cookie last and it was actually her first time ever having sex, but things didn't end pretty well. When we were done fvcking she told me she wants to leave and join her lady friends who were out that night, and that was at about 3am. These ladies happen to be her colleagues and they also live at the same college residence. I genuinely told her that wherever her friends were, they were with guys and she can't leave me go join them but she said she only wants to go there because she can't sleep alone... I then told her that she shouldn't go but she didn't listen and went on to join her friends. Funny thing is these friends of hers were at a hotel with guys, which I only got to know coz I hacked her whatsapp and saw her conversation with one girl who was giving her directions to get get there. She only started texting me when she was there and even lied to me about her whereabouts. I then told her exactly where she was to her surprise(she still doesn't know I hacked her whatsapp).

To make the long story short I called her up, confronted her about it and stopped answering her calls and texts until she came unannounced to my house. We had a little chat and told her I can never trust her again and that we should part ways.. She started crying and all and begged me not leave her, which I responded to by telling her she should just leave my house and at least give me time.. Now she's bowing up my u
phone with texts asking me to forgive her and she'll never do it again, of which I haven't answered any of them, nor picked her calls.

What should I do DJs?

She's 18. She's doing what teenagers do, which is whatever the f**k they want. Don't like it? Don't date teenagers. Or at least don't expect much from them I mean, you gotta take the bad with the good if you're dating that young.

And you may of been her first but you for sure won't be her last. Just enjoy for what it is. A fling with a much younger girl.

 

[JohnChops]

Dude you sound super lame. You dated this chick for 2 weeks and banged her once and want to act like she is your girlfriend of 5 years? Give me a break.

This is insecure and controlling behavior to the max. If I knew her I'd advise she walk away from you, but she will likely stay a while considering the circumstances.

You need help thats for sure, but the advice you are going to get isn't what you were expecting I'm going to guess.

Stop being insecure and needy.

Ya I agree. If she was your girlfriend officially for a longer period of time then I’d say drop her. But you’ve only known her 14 days and she’s 18... get a grip.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

She lies? NEXT.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A girl lied?

Now I've seen it all.

 

[MrWood]

no virgin fvcks the first time, and then wants to go join her friends right after... this has never happened once, ever
she lied to you

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I urgently need your help DJs, and please excuse my English for it is a second language to me.

I'm 29 and I'm currently dating this 18 year old college student who I've only known for two weeks. I managed to get the cookie last and it was actually her first time ever having sex, but things didn't end pretty well. When we were done fvcking she told me she wants to leave and join her lady friends who were out that night, and that was at about 3am. These ladies happen to be her colleagues and they also live at the same college residence. I genuinely told her that wherever her friends were, they were with guys and she can't leave me go join them but she said she only wants to go there because she can't sleep alone... I then told her that she shouldn't go but she didn't listen and went on to join her friends. Funny thing is these friends of hers were at a hotel with guys, which I only got to know coz I hacked her whatsapp and saw her conversation with one girl who was giving her directions to get get there. She only started texting me when she was there and even lied to me about her whereabouts. I then told her exactly where she was to her surprise(she still doesn't know I hacked her whatsapp).

To make the long story short I called her up, confronted her about it and stopped answering her calls and texts until she came unannounced to my house. We had a little chat and told her I can never trust her again and that we should part ways.. She started crying and all and begged me not leave her, which I responded to by telling her she should just leave my house and at least give me time.. Now she's bowing up my u
phone with texts asking me to forgive her and she'll never do it again, of which I haven't answered any of them, nor picked her calls.

What should I do DJs?

Doing it right by dating top form SMV but, the sec a woman lies, you simply next her. Begin charging up your troll cannon. If you aren't hitting you, jakes on you kuz. You dun goofed.

Hit it one last time, take nudes, vids, and blow up revenge porn dot com. Wait wut?

 

[sazc]

How many girls lose their virginity and then immediately want to rush out to hang with other men?

You did not take her virginity, she lied to you, yet again.

This is the truth

 

[devilkingx2]

I urgently need your help DJs, and please excuse my English for it is a second language to me.

I'm 29 and I'm currently dating this 18 year old college student who I've only known for two weeks. I managed to get the cookie last and it was actually her first time ever having sex, but things didn't end pretty well. When we were done fvcking she told me she wants to leave and join her lady friends who were out that night, and that was at about 3am. These ladies happen to be her colleagues and they also live at the same college residence. I genuinely told her that wherever her friends were, they were with guys and she can't leave me go join them but she said she only wants to go there because she can't sleep alone... I then told her that she shouldn't go but she didn't listen and went on to join her friends. Funny thing is these friends of hers were at a hotel with guys, which I only got to know coz I hacked her whatsapp and saw her conversation with one girl who was giving her directions to get get there. She only started texting me when she was there and even lied to me about her whereabouts. I then told her exactly where she was to her surprise(she still doesn't know I hacked her whatsapp).

To make the long story short I called her up, confronted her about it and stopped answering her calls and texts until she came unannounced to my house. We had a little chat and told her I can never trust her again and that we should part ways.. She started crying and all and begged me not leave her, which I responded to by telling her she should just leave my house and at least give me time.. Now she's bowing up my u
phone with texts asking me to forgive her and she'll never do it again, of which I haven't answered any of them, nor picked her calls.

What should I do DJs?

1. You did not bang a virgin in 2 weeks unless she's a 5 or a 6, a girl that eager to lose it would've lost it long before you met her, so at best she was a technical virgin (as in, she sucked off like 6 guys, got fingered by 2 more, etc. But never gave up the pvssy before)

2. You take what you have a lot more seriously than she does, you're a hookup or a fling or an FWB to her, if she wants to leave you and go partying with more guys right after (this makes her sound like a total slvt, not a virgin)

3. Of course she lied, you didn't want her to do something that she wanted to do, so she lied and did it anyway, this is always what will happen in that situation, this is why you don't get serious with girls that aren't already totally aligned with what you want in every major way (then ignore the minor stuff)

 

[devilkingx2]

though it's vaguely sort of possible that she is a virgin, but the sex was so bad she wanted to get away from you lol