girl LBJF's me and .....

[Dave111]

girl that I fancied from work, tells me constantly that she only see's me as a friend, which after a while I'm saying to myself, if I'm only a friend to you, why the need to constantly tell everyone that you meet????

anyway, she keeps texting me to see what I'm up to and just txt me there saying

"Woo Hoo, worked out another tune on guitar (She's learning to play the damn thing) to show you, so proud hope uni work is going ok, will see you soon, love you x x"

To me this chick is the ultimate attention seeker I've ever met, and my interest in her is starting to wayne big time. I wont be texting her back,

Just wanting to know any opinions on this girl and if you share the same that I do?

 

[NewMan]

Cut her off - see what happens.

Don't be her Girl friend.

 

[captn caveman]

I've tried this once... After reading somewhere,

This girl goes on talking about her life as if she would talk to a girlfriend..

I put my index finger on her lips, and went "Tell this to your gf, I am not one."

And in that instant, luckily for me, a friend was passing by, so I turned to him to have a bs chat...

Worked... damn well...

She came back with a nice topic, on which I would want to continue.

And I agree, cut her off..

Distance her..

What do you think would happen if she saw you with another chick?

 

[Reto]

Yeah. Cut her off. It may create some attraction/IL...

Does she have a BF?

You're her susbstitute BF until she finds one. With no benefits.

Do you get anything out of the relationship/friendship? If not, get rid of her...