This weekend she rented out a house and went to some lake/hiking area with a girlfriend and guy friend of hers (who she's known before we met), the guy that her girlfriend is dating, and a couple of his friends. She told me this like a week or two before-hand, and I have a feeling that if I told her I wanted to go, I could have gone, but she never actually asked me if I wanted to go. Now, I didn't want to go anyways, but you all know what I mean.. And even though this kinda thing triggers the distrust and jealousy in me, I simply told her to have fun and that I'd see her when she got back.
I've met and hung out with most of her best friends, and we do hang out and do things together quite often. We've gone grocery shopping together several times (and she's bought food for me to store at her place), straight up paid for some of my meals, had cook-outs together, I helped her move back in September (with a number of her friends), we hit the gym together last week and this week I decided to take her up on her offer to go to yoga with her (which she paid 15 bucks for me to get in). Sh*t, we even hung out 4-5 times a week the couple weeks before this one and she's been posting on my Facebook recently (which she hadn't done at all before this month), for whatever it's worth. Looking back to the first couple of months we were seeing each other, she actually invited me to a bunch of sh*t (like hanging out with her friends/family) but I always told her I wasn't interested.
She goes on small trips like these to see friends or whatever quite often. She went to New York for Halloween and Thanksgiving, is going to San Francisco in January to visit a *gay* friend of hers, and is going to Colorado with a girlfriend in February.
The thing is, she isn't secretive when it comes to her e-mail, Facebook or phone.. She'll just leave them wide open in front of me whenever I'm at her place and I can look right at all of her sh*t. Actually, this is kinda f*cked up, but I DID end up spending an hour looking through some of her texts, e-mail messages, and Facebook messages one night when she was asleep. The worst I found was her communicating with long-time guy friends of hers. It was all platonic, though, nothing sexual.
I've met and hung out with most of her best friends, and we do hang out and do things together quite often. We've gone grocery shopping together several times (and she's bought food for me to store at her place), straight up paid for some of my meals, had cook-outs together, I helped her move back in September (with a number of her friends), we hit the gym together last week and this week I decided to take her up on her offer to go to yoga with her (which she paid 15 bucks for me to get in). Sh*t, we even hung out 4-5 times a week the couple weeks before this one and she's been posting on my Facebook recently (which she hadn't done at all before this month), for whatever it's worth. Looking back to the first couple of months we were seeing each other, she actually invited me to a bunch of sh*t (like hanging out with her friends/family) but I always told her I wasn't interested.
She goes on small trips like these to see friends or whatever quite often. She went to New York for Halloween and Thanksgiving, is going to San Francisco in January to visit a *gay* friend of hers, and is going to Colorado with a girlfriend in February.
The thing is, she isn't secretive when it comes to her e-mail, Facebook or phone.. She'll just leave them wide open in front of me whenever I'm at her place and I can look right at all of her sh*t. Actually, this is kinda f*cked up, but I DID end up spending an hour looking through some of her texts, e-mail messages, and Facebook messages one night when she was asleep. The worst I found was her communicating with long-time guy friends of hers. It was all platonic, though, nothing sexual.