Girl is afraid of commitment

salsalero

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2008
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
A girl told me she is afraid of commitment.

What is she really saying here?
Should I pursue her?
 

WC2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
1,705
Reaction score
69
Location
New York City
She's saying she's still in her party years and wants to have a lot of sex before she gets shacked up.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,056
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
But, it is true...
 

Big B

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2008
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
It depends on what you want out of it. If your just looking to hook up then this is an ideal situation as far as that is concerned. If you want to get serious don't plan on changing her and what she wants to do.then when you get hurt by her you have no one to blame but yourself.
 

Lexie

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2007
Messages
163
Reaction score
3
Location
Central US
She's saying she's afraid of commitment. Don't over-analyze it. Has she just gotten out of an LTR? This is usually the problem.

But really, if you want to take her out go for it, just don't come on too strong.
 

MKS82

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2005
Messages
115
Reaction score
0
Dude every fvckin chick says that ****. When they say that sh1t ask why and whatever they say make them sound like they are a wimp nicely. Say oh really why are u so scared? What it boils down to is they are afraid they'll be hurt. Just put urself out there but not too afc. Get her comfortable. Dude all u gotta do is give her good attention then when she doesn't comply a little down the road say ur acting too flakey with me im going to chill out from u for a while (shell feel the loss). Then cut it off immediatley. In a couple days shell call u guranteed. Then qualify her shell say lets hang out or whatever then say well promise ur not going to be a flake then and apologize for being one. Then ur in.
 
Top