Girl invited me to play poker with other friends, what should I do?

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Ok here it goes, I was way below AFC when I first came to this forum six monts ago, but I'm improiving my social skills very fast since joinning this forum, and just recently started talking to girls, now I talk to girls in Bus, Metro, pretty much anywhere.

Ok for this girl, she has been studying with me this semester, and we connect well, as she has similar career oriented goals just like me, we go out to coffee after class, and have great conversation, on almost all possible issues, just had two hour of practicing interview questions, as she is preparing for interview tomorrow just to give an example, So i'd say interest is very high from both side...

So, now she offers me the choice of joinning her along with her girl friends to play poker, but I still want to keep special connection with her.

Should I go out on poker, and then contact her later to make some plans to enjoy some activities togather, without her friends? I don't think she has boyfriend, but I still can't interact intimately, as this still requires some self growth from my part.

I have lost many contacts before because I don't followup after the semester, so I want to change that fact, this time, as I'm very motivated to make things better for myself.
So I don't want to lose her but at the same time, I don't want her friends getting in our way, should I make my move or let things unfold as they should without any game from me?
 

The Shocker

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play poker, stop thinking so much.
 

PectoralisMajor

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Go play and flirt with her & her friends. be funny, be ****y and have fun.

Stop worrying so much and prove YOUR the man.....
 

stinkyape

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You and a bunch of girls playing poker. Be (or become) awesome at poker. Turn it into a game of strip poker, and have several girls (who you've already stripped right down with your spectacular poker skills) competing to be the first to get you naked.

But yes, go... Treat her friends with respect, and remember to maintain your sense of humour and alphaness. There's no harm in impressing the heck out of her friends, who will then continually remind the girl how great you are. This would be a good thing.
 

Jay Jay

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Don't play poker!

Thats just what they'll be expecting.

Play Blackjack.

That'll keep em on their toes!

JJ
 

Scought

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I'd flirt, laugh with her friends--make her jealous (assuming she has some interest). Basically, have fun. I did something similar (but watching hoops--posted it a bit ago).

Anyway, after you have left with a good impression, later ask her to do something solo. You'll have your answer: Either a yes, or a not, or she'll suggest another 'group' thing where you will know that it's a friend thing.

Group dynamics are always tough, especially when JUST meeting a girl, or getting to know her.

I have a hard time getting a read on them.

I am so used to meeting girl, getting number, grabbing a drink at a later time, and making my move or not--not the case when others are around.
 

WaterTiger

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Tell them your favorite game is "Strip poker"!:moon: ! Go play and have fun!
 
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