girl interested in me but has a bf.

[chance]

sorry for the long post but i feel it's needed to let you know the full details.

first day - the place where i just started to study on monday (first day) is the place where a girl seems to have interest in me.

second day - i initiated the first conversation when sitting next to her on the computer asking what she was up to. we clicked pretty good and asked each other questions like age, where each other lived, etc. she would always smile and almost get a shy look goin on. i would smile too of course

third day - when i started to lay some moves as she showed some interest. i was sitting next to her and my new pal studying. she turned around on her chair making her legs rub against mine... not really caring about it either. she knew it was there... i let her be. soon i moved to get my stuff ready so we could go... she came next to me and we talked a bit more and i asked her if she had a phone and to give me her number. she asked why (bit of hesitation or maybe bein a bit of a challenge) - i got her to give in to it and she put her number into my cell phone... she asked for my number too.

now a girl asking for a guys number is known to be some kind of interest. now this is where i find out about her boyfriend. i am not sure how we got into it but she said somethin' about her boyfriend and i took it good and played it cool. i shoved in a lil joke asking: "won't your boyfriend be jealous?" (of her taking my number) - she replied, "my boyfriend doesn't get jealous."
i have not called her.

fourth day (present) - today was more intense in a way. we talked a bit more and felt more calm talking to each other. i noticed she would like to stare at me alot. look in my direction trying to get my attention. i would sometimes look and wink or smile. today at the computers while studying i mentioned movies: "do you like to watch movies? come see a movie with me." (i meant the cinema of course) - i am not sure if i mentioned the movie when i said that but eventually i did and she said "oh my boyfriend wants to see that one." so again i played it cool: "awww... ahh well, fair enough." with a smile.

we flirted a bit more for the rest of the day, looking at each other and smiling. i teased her a bit which was harmful but fun for both of us.

my thoughts on this: i will not ask her out again. i have done my part. it is up to her i would think now. i don't feel right calling her just yet since she has a boyfriend. i think she will message my phone or call me if she is interested enough. besides, she's the one who took my number and the one who's got a boyfriend. i am thinking in the back of my head to just lay off a little and keep her on the back of my head...

opinions please. much appreciated.

 

[Desdinova]

Sounds like you're going about this the right way. Just keep doing what you're doing. Leave her on the backburner for now.

 

[NewMan]

What your edge?

So you've developed a little raport with her, now it's about time she see's you working other girls as well.

You don't want her to know that she's the only one your interested in - otherwise you'll be her Daytime BF - a subsititute if you like.


Let her see you talking and flirting with other girls....

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by chance
today at the computers while studying i mentioned movies: "do you like to watch movies? come see a movie with me." (i meant the cinema of course) - i am not sure if i mentioned the movie when i said that but eventually i did and she said "oh my boyfriend wants to see that one." so again i played it cool: "awww... ahh well, fair enough." with a smile.

Chance, you need to improve your listening skills my friend... did she at any time say "No"? All you had to do was ask her "So what doesn't your bf want to see?" or "So you pick a movie, but no soppy movies <say this with a smile>"

Get her in the movie theatre, if the armrests lift up between the seats, do that. Initiate hip/thigh contact... only buy one drink so you have to share it, same with the popcorn. If you need to talk to her, lean in real close so you "don't disturb the other people in the theatre". Do the whole bf thing and get her used to touching you, works like a charm.

You are right, don't contact her, if her bf doesn't know you exist then that is all the better. If she does all of the above with you, then she is probably looking to offload him, or at least have a bit on the side...