Girl in Philly down to meet, do I make the trip on NYE?

[BPH]

So this is something I'm either doing or not doing in the next 2 hours here, so I'll try to make this concise.

• Hot 27-year-old visiting Philly and New York, from the Dominican Republic
• Works as a "general doctor and in aesthetic medicine"
• Matched via Tinder, bio reads "In Philadelphia for a week to make friends and find the love. Who knows.."
• Apparently leaving tomorrow night (I think she meant she was only in the USA for the week)
• Staying in Fishtown with a female friend (about 50-minute drive from me)
• Initially didn't give out her phone number and only her Instagram, since she's visiting with a provisional phone
• Tried to test the waters a bit by seeing if she would be free after the ball drops, since bars there are open till 2AM, and she was comfortable with that
• So far she has been receptive, but not particularly flirty; she asked if I preferred to see her before or after midnight, because she was willing to home and get changed so she could meet me if I wanted earlier. Occasional multiple texts in a row, but I'm not confident in whether she's hot or cold yet

What do you guys think?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

NYE is not my thing...I would stay in.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It depends on how stressful your day has been, what you have to do tomorrow, how horny you are, how much money they have to spend, and how adventurous you're feeling. If it were up to me, I wouldn’t leave my bed unless I was 100% guaranteed some drama-free punani.

Edit: I guess I also would go if I didn’t have a **** load of laundry, cleaning, work, and cooking to do.

 

[BPH]

It depends on how stressful your day has been, what you have to do tomorrow, how horny you are, how much money they have to spend, and how adventurous you're feeling. If it were up to me, I wouldn’t leave my bed unless I was 100% guaranteed some drama-free punani.

Edit: I guess I also would go if I didn’t have a **** load of laundry, cleaning, work, and cooking to do.

I have time and I don't expect it to cost much.

My main consideration comes from the fact that she's staying over at a friend's place and leaving tomorrow night. Now I'm charming and all but I don't know how interested this girl is if I'm going to make the trip.

The girl last weekend was in a similar boat and we saw how that went, but at least she had the place to herself.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I have time and I don't expect it to cost much.

My main consideration comes from the fact that she's staying over at a friend's place and leaving tomorrow night. Now I'm charming and all but I don't know how interested this girl is if I'm going to make the trip.

The girl last weekend was in a similar boat and we saw how that went, but at least she had the place to herself.

I guess there is only one way to find out, isn’t it? It seems like your mind is to go and see how it goes.

 

[Chow Mein]

I would have expected more self-confidence from someone who has claimed to slay more than triple digits, unless fatties also count

 

[BPH]

I guess there is only one way to find out, isn’t it? It seems like your mind is to go and see how it goes.

I would have expected more self-confidence from someone who has claimed to slay more than triple digits, unless fatties also count

I'm still in the double digits, just close to the triple.

Anyway yeah, I went, just got home, ended up smashing her in the backseat of my car after a short night out. I'll probably write up a FR tomorrow in more of a Do's and Don'ts style, but it's nearly 6AM and I need to go to bed

 

[Gamisch]

I'm still in the double digits, just close to the triple.

Anyway yeah, I went, just got home, ended up smashing her in the backseat of my car after a short night out. I'll probably write up a FR tomorrow in more of a Do's and Don'ts style, but it's nearly 6AM and I need to go to bed

Gtfo. Lukewarm interested girl has no life,so she invites you over at new years eve . Hello!!! Like she has no friends or family. Lol. I try to keep the forum peaceful so I kinda ignore your bs posts, but this one went too far.

Anytime when you get called out your response is a THREAD with a fake story. Razor Rambo- esque. I see through this like lingerie. Do's and Don'ts LOL. You liar..

Whatever dude. The only thing that might be true is you don't have to do laundry and dishes.

Anyone who believes you can join you in the circus. You are blowing your cover if you didn't knew.

But imma leave it here and enjoy the rest of your erotic fantasy novel. Happy new year Razor Rambo!!

I would have expected more self-confidence from someone who has claimed to slay more than triple digits, unless fatties also count

Nah unlike you and me he only smashes hot chicks on new years eve even.

If y'all done with reading and circle jerkng pm me , got a great bridge for sale in London!! Discounted price!!

 

[BPH]

Gtfo. Lukewarm interested girl has no life,so she invites you over at new years eve . Hello!!! Like she has no friends or family. Lol. I try to keep the forum peaceful so I kinda ignore your bs posts, but this one went too far.

Anytime when you get called out your response is a THREAD with a fake story. Razor Rambo- esque. I see through this like lingerie. Do's and Don'ts LOL. You liar..

Whatever dude. The only thing that might be true is you don't have to do laundry and dishes.

Anyone who believes you can join you in the circus. You are blowing your cover if you didn't knew.

But imma leave it here and enjoy the rest of your erotic fantasy novel. Happy new year Razor Rambo!!

Nah unlike you and me he only smashes hot chicks on new years eve even.

If y'all done with reading and circle jerkng pm me , got a great bridge for sale in London!! Discounted price!!

You don't believe me?

Oh no...anyway...

 

[Gamisch]

You don't believe me?

Oh no...anyway...

Nope. You full of shyte.

My gut tells me you are a liar. A basement dweller who constantly seeks approval from strangers on the internet by making up fake stories. Yet too ignorant to realise it.

Looking forward to your next fantasy novel Razor Rambo.

 

[BPH]

Nope. You full of shyte.

My gut tells me you are a liar. A basement dweller who constantly seeks approval from strangers on the internet by making up fake stories. Yet too ignorant to realise it.

Looking forward to your next fantasy novel Razor Rambo.

The irony of calling me a basement dweller looking for approval, when you've posted 1.5x what I have in 14 years in just over 2 is...interesting...

 

[Gamisch]

The irony of calling me a basement dweller looking for approval, when you've posted 1.5x what I have in 14 years in just over 2 is...interesting...

I don't see the correlation. If you DO wanna go that route, what I do see is people somehow dont really like your post not even a surplus in like counts...the forum likes my posts three times more than yours. In just two years lol!

I post more than you because;
- I have more substance than you
- more experience with women and life general
- care more for others

Just to name few. Not gonna lie, I can imagine life is great for you. Carefree, basement all to yourself. No expenses or responsibilities...Mommy washing your dirty boxers..man I miss being a teenager when I see how you move !!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP if you were a dish detergent, you definitely wouldn't be Palmolive, but doing the Dawn thing gets old as well.

Higher interest women won't be having you get home at 7am.

 

[New_Journey]

I would have expected more self-confidence from someone who has claimed to slay more than triple digits, unless fatties also count

I know right, this posts looks more like validation and attention seeking more than a genuine post asking for thoughts.

 

[BPH]

OP if you were a dish detergent, you definitely wouldn't be Palmolive, but doing the Dawn thing gets old as well.

Higher interest women won't be having you get home at 7am.

I dropped her off and drove home at around 3:30 AM, bar closed at 2 so between that and when I dropped her off it was only about an hour and a half. I got home close to 5 AM after stopping at a gas station. I took a shower, ate a meal, then chilled for about an hour before going to bed.

She was staying with a friend who lives with her husband, so staying over with her wasn't really an option.

The lateness is mostly my fault because I watched the ball drop with my friend at a local bar here and wasn't even sure if I wanted to make the trip. So I didn't even get there until a little after 1 AM.

I'll probably get into the details in an FR but I don't blame her for my being late.

I know right, this posts looks more like validation and attention seeking more than a genuine post asking for thoughts.

I was leaning toward not making the trip, but I wanted to see if anybody thought it would be worth it. Just because I get around doesn't mean I don't have questions - I'm not sure how else you would've wanted me to phrase this.

 

[Gamisch]

Let's analyse this.

-So at new years eve
- a Dominican hot 27 y.o woman who happens to be a doctor is here for a week.

-Then she's like " yeah I am here to celebrate new years eve, got a plane ticket but I'm willing to meet you at the most crucial time of the year "( 31 December 00:00), completely disregarding the purpose of her stay.

-you also don't celebrate new years eve with friends/family

- next, she leaves her friend to get slutted out by a random dude from Tinder day one.

-no report or build-up straight SMASH.

-Leaving after 12 at night in a strange country to get smashed by a random stranger and come home to her friend like a true wh0re. ( I know women who get into BIG fights if their friends would do this, or at least c0ckblock like crazy)

-she also had to leave and take a plane back to her home country.. pack things ect...but feck it let's keep the script convenient right? Right?

So you see how this doesn't add up? You have no idea how women work so you can't even FAKE a believable story LOL.

Would be more sincere if you said I'm gonna meet up with a hooker from Craigslist.

 

[SW15]

no report or build-up straight SMASH.

Then she's like " yeah I am here to celebrate new years eve, got a plane ticket but I'm willing to meet you at the most crucial time of the year "( 31 December 00:00), completely disregarding the purpose of her stay.

This is possible if the guy is top tier enough. Playing with Fire did this experiment as a Chad tier guy messaging on Bumble very directly.

The video publication date was January 13, 2023 so the experiment was likely done January 5-10 of that year. That's a more ordinary time but a time of year when women are motivated to meet men.

New Year's Eve is a more valuable time slot than January 5-10.

Leaving after 12 at night in a strange country to get smashed by a random stranger and come home to her friend like a true wh0re. ( I know women who get into BIG fights if their friends would do this, or at least c0ckblock like crazy)

I've seen instances of American women in their home cities getting into fights/having drama with their female friends over this too. It would be common for American women to try to penis block their American woman friend in a situation like this.

 

[Gamisch]

This is possible if the guy is top tier enough. Playing with Fire did this experiment as a Chad tier guy messaging on Bumble very directly.

The video publication date was January 13, 2023 so the experiment was likely done January 5-10 of that year. That's a more ordinary time but a time of year when women are motivated to meet men.

New Year's Eve is a more valuable time slot than January 5-10.



I've seen instances of American women in their home cities getting into fights/having drama with their female friends over this too. It would be common for American women to try to penis block their American woman friend in a situation like this.

You have never seen OP but yet you are glazing him up and down. Yeah ,he gotta be a 10/10 if you hear his stories. All we know is that he lives at home and eversince we had some hefty discussions about whether a TOPTIER man should have his own place or not he apparently went on a killing spree.

It's all too coincidentally for my taste. It's not impossible but I've never seen a member being this eager to recieve shoulder taps for such things. It's also odd that IF he indeed was honest he ain't rushing to get his own place ASAP . Or simply has a steady gf who accepts his flaw. It doesn't add up !

Most of us with some experience in life know how women operate. Even if you are a pro baller who gets 10 dates you won't feck all ten of them the same day in your Honda pruis. You will ALWAYS get some pushback and need to invest more time in some of them. If a woman does give it up first day she oftentimes expects more. ONS is a possibility, but lets be real its still nkt that common. The latter again, is MY experience.

Dude is just looking for specifically YOUR approval. These threads are a tennis match between you and him now. He writes fr99 and you go yeaaaaaaaah.

Lastly, new years eve might be a good time slot, but not when a woman flies to the States to specifically celebrate this with friends. It doesn't make sense to leave her friend SPECIFICALLY when the new years bells are ringing to meet a COMPLETE STRANGER after MIDNIGHT. Women can get r aped, they need some kind security and it's hard to believe that her friends will just allow her to endanger herself like that.

Most people think he is full of it. Whatever.

I watched your video and even in the video most women are skeptical. Only our wunder doctor bph can pull this , as we all know now lol.

 

[SW15]

whether a TOPTIER man should have his own place

I would recommend that most guys have their own place. However, it's not a necessity. It's possible for a guy to get laid while being a late 20s/early 30s adult living with his parents. It's going to be more difficult.

when a woman flies to the States to specifically celebrate this with friends. It doesn't make sense to leave her friend SPECIFICALLY when the new years bells are ringing to meet a COMPLETE STRANGER after MIDNIGHT. Women can get r aped, they need some kind security and it's hard to believe that her friends will just allow her to endanger herself like that.

You and I have a similar thought process on this. It's not impossible, but more improbable. That's even a challenge to pull off with American women in their home cities.

 

[Solomon]

The logistics are not in your favor, I prefer to go on "NYE" dates as I find those tend to be easier to close if the girl is going out with you the whole time. In past experiences, it just makes it easier. However trying to meet a woman who is only in town but with friends sounds like you're just an option at best instead of being a priority

She's Dominican so most likely she has a phat a$$ depending on how down bad I was I'd do it for sure
But now that I'm older I would most likely pass