girl in my college class -- help

[seabumma]

about to contact her "hi [name], will you be on campus today? Come have some food with me after your class?"

 

[GuanYu]

Did you even bother to read the last several posts?

Anyways, whatever. Let us know how the rejection goes.

 

[seabumma]

Did you even bother to read the last several posts?

Anyways, whatever. Let us know how the rejection goes.

lol. I don't really mind getting rejected. If I don't do this, I know I'll regret it later on that she may have went out with me.

I am a fun guy to be around, it really is her loss if she says no.

 

[green69]

Okay well remind me not to post in this thread in the future since the original poster isn't here to listen to advice but rather to attention ***** and ramble on about his story...

 

[seabumma]

texted her and she replied with the following, does this mean I have somewhat of a counter offer? How should I respond? Or should I not?

"hey seabumma, yea i am on campus but im gonna be working on a project due tomorrow! Sorry! But would you wanna grab some lunch sometime next quarter? (I would suggest this week but my sched is full and im out of town next week) "

 

[GuanYu]

What's next quarter mean? If it's sometime soon I'd ask her to give you a specific date. If it's not soon (meaning 3 weeks out or so) she's giving you yet another hint that she's not romantically interested in you.

 

[seabuma]

next quarter starts exactly 2 weeks from today (March 30th). We are currently in our final examination week, so I can understand her being busy this week. Our spring break is only a week long following finals week.

How should I respond to her text?

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

I wouldn't worry about it at all. "Sorry, busy this week, how about three months from now?" I would laugh if a girl said that to me. Fake some self respect and drop this girl.

Dude this is sad, your inner game needs serious work. I would've dropped this girl a long time ago, but then again, I would never act like you in the first place.

The only chance you have with her is to cut off all contact, don't let her see you for awhile, then the next time she does, you'd better be a badass leader in your socioeconomic realm with women sliming the floor around you and you not giving a f*ck. A bazooka on your shoulder, a cigar in your mouth and a thoroughbred under your saddle thrown in for good measure may make her look at you in a different way.

"Be the Flame, not the Moth."

 

[seabuma]

I sent her a response and I have nexted her. No more contact, if she initiates contact (even next quarter), i will be the busy one. Her loss.

this was my response just now:

"I do not want lunch next quarter, but thanks for the offer. haha just messing, yea thats fine, always down for food . Good luck on the project"

 

[seabuma]

she just responded a min later with:

"hahaha verrry funny, sounds good then! have a good break! and thanks for the luck, i'll need it!"

 

[Darth]

next quarter starts exactly 2 weeks from today (March 30th). We are currently in our final examination week, so I can understand her being busy this week. Our spring break is only a week long following finals week.

How should I respond to her text?

Aha. You go to Ohio State, don't you?

 

[seabumma]

Aha. You go to Ohio State, don't you?

Nope not Ohio state. I wonder if anyone from here does go to my college though, that would be pretty funny.

So guys, I think i've done my part with this girl. Should I wait for her to contact me next quarter? OR should I send her a text sometime next quarter asking when I can take her out so I can fit her into my schedule?

 

[GuanYu]

Damn homie...

Just leave her the hell alone. For your own good. Don't you find any other girls at your school attractive? Try approaching them and not be so wussy

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Damn homie...

Just leave her the hell alone. For your own good. Don't you find any other girls at your school attractive? Try approaching them and not be so wussy

Agreed.

@OP: Okay ElStud, stop posting. You ask questions, they answer, and you do it anyways... and fail miserably and pathetically.

BTW, are you and seabumma and seabuma the same? Troll?

It's like you come here and post to keep up your self-esteem... saying everything you're doing is right. Like you're putting up a show for us so you think we think that you're doing a good job. But in real life, you're creeping the hell out of this chick and you're being needy and clingy. But hey, at least you think that we think you're doing a good job.