girl in my college class -- help

[seabumma]

Any advice greatly appreciated

Here is an update to my previous thread, where I tried asking a girl out to join me on a little museum trip for a class assignment. Asked her the day before, but, she ended up not coming. She sent me a text message the day I was going thanking me for the offer, but saying she had plans that day via a text message. This was 2 weeks ago.

Well, yesterday was the last day of this class, where we had a bunch of assignments due, one of which was to read a novel (very boring one I might add). I read less than half of the book, and I was hoping this girl could fill me in on the remainder of it (couldn't find chapter summaries), so I sent her a text Sunday night. I had a good feeling she hadn't read a single page of it, but I figured I'd still ask and joke about it. Turned to be a pretty funny back and forth convo. Turns out this girl is an even larger slacker than me, so I offered to fill her in on the 100 pages that I did read of the book. She agreed and said she'd really appreciated it blah blah. The plan was to meet Monday on our campus after one of MY classes. Well Monday comes around and we get snowed on pretty damn hard. On my way to college, she texts me saying she is not going to stick around due to the weather, and asks if she can call me later on in the night to talk about the book. I say sure call me whenever, and end up leaving it at that. Well that night she never ends up calling, I think nothing of it since we have a stack of assignments due for this class the next day. I send her a stupid text later that evening telling her to brace herself for my retarded presentation the next day..no response to that either.

Tuesday comes around, and I do not see her in class as it starts. 15 minutes into the class I get a text, asking me if I am there. I reply, and she says she is running late and so forth. Well she shows up late, and ends up taking a seat next to me. She ended up missing out on an exam we have on the novel. The professor later tells her she can make it up by typing up an essay on it. She gives me this really weird helpless look haha, probably since she hasn't read the book. I end up offering her some help if she wants, since I am going to be on campus Wednesday (Today). She says she thinks shes going to really need help, but mentions something along the lines of maybe not being able to stick around on wednesday (possibly due to work?). I say something along the lines of being free on weekends too.

Anyways once class is over, she asks me what direction I am headed in, and she ends up following me to the parking lot. Out of the blue she randomly apologizes, saying that she meant to text me to let me know she got home safe and sound Monday. I thought it was a pretty awkward thing to be sorry about. She asks me if I had issues getting home yesterday..which I did. She then asks me what type of car I drive and I said BMW, that's when I saw $$ signs in her eyes. ok lol just kidding. We have nice talk for 10 min or so.

Before departing, I mention once again to let me know if she needs help on the paper. She says she thinks she will need the help. As we exchange goodbyes, I felt that I should bring up taking her out to lunch (again). So I say something along the lines of "my previous offer for lunch is still valid, if you'd would like to take me up on the offer". She says okay with a big smile, and we kinda just split from there. It turns out she wasn't even parked in that parking lot, so I guess she followed me so she could just talk to me.

So guys what do I do. I am not going to text her today offering help on her paper. If she needs help, she can text/call me, and if I am available, ill help out...or should I just shoot her a text while on campus today asking if she needs my assistance?

In regards to the lunch thing, how long should i wait till bringing it up. I am pretty sure she has pretty busy schedule as finals week is about to come up (next week).

 

[seabumma]

any advice?

 

[Gangster Of Love]

You're already giving away all your power. Tolerating flakiness, offering to practically do the assignment for her, just because she knows she can use you for that, etc. Nothing wrong with being used, as long as you are aware it is happening and still ok with. If you are doing it just to get approval, or get her to like you, it doesn't look like she's that interested in you.

She followed you because she knows she's got you wrapped around her finger and you would offer to help her. You should have make her bring it up, and ask for the help, not you offering. You are going out of your way to give her the easy way out. You are making excuses for her. She set everything up so it would be YOU who once again offered, and not HER having to asked for the assignment. You played right into her plan, and even took it further in showing your needy side by deciding to "reward" her bad behaviour by offering to take her to lunch.

Again, that is all good if you are not expecting anything from her, and know she just sees you as platonic, and you are ok with it. If not, you will feel very dissapointed and used, and will be back here bitzhing about it.

So, what should you do? Don't help her with her paper. Make sure something comes up. Or better yet, tell her you can meet with her, but just for half an hour, because you are too busy, yeah right (sarcastic). Just show up for a little while. Let her be responsible, appreciative, and learn to "earn" things she needs, not just based on her looks. I know it sounds counter intuitive, but this is the best chance, if any, you have of actually salvaging this one, if you are trying to create attraction. If you want to be her "girlfriend", or her LJBF, "The guy that does my assignments" (she has more than one of those already)or just a platonic friend, then you are doing very well on your own already, and just keep being extremely accomodating and tolerating her second class behavior.

 

[usscrum]

Any advice greatly appreciated

Here is an update to my previous thread, where I tried asking a girl out to join me on a little museum trip for a class assignment. Asked her the day before, but, she ended up not coming. She sent me a text message the day I was going thanking me for the offer, but saying she had plans that day via a text message. This was 2 weeks ago.

Well, yesterday was the last day of this class, where we had a bunch of assignments due, one of which was to read a novel (very boring one I might add). I read less than half of the book, and I was hoping this girl could fill me in on the remainder of it (couldn't find chapter summaries), so I sent her a text Sunday night. I had a good feeling she hadn't read a single page of it, but I figured I'd still ask and joke about it. Turned to be a pretty funny back and forth convo. Turns out this girl is an even larger slacker than me, so I offered to fill her in on the 100 pages that I did read of the book. She agreed and said she'd really appreciated it blah blah. The plan was to meet Monday on our campus after one of MY classes. Well Monday comes around and we get snowed on pretty damn hard. On my way to college, she texts me saying she is not going to stick around due to the weather, and asks if she can call me later on in the night to talk about the book. I say sure call me whenever, and end up leaving it at that. Well that night she never ends up calling, I think nothing of it since we have a stack of assignments due for this class the next day. I send her a stupid text later that evening telling her to brace herself for my retarded presentation the next day..no response to that either.

Tuesday comes around, and I do not see her in class as it starts. 15 minutes into the class I get a text, asking me if I am there. I reply, and she says she is running late and so forth. Well she shows up late, and ends up taking a seat next to me. She ended up missing out on an exam we have on the novel. The professor later tells her she can make it up by typing up an essay on it. She gives me this really weird helpless look haha, probably since she hasn't read the book. I end up offering her some help if she wants, since I am going to be on campus Wednesday (Today). She says she thinks shes going to really need help, but mentions something along the lines of maybe not being able to stick around on wednesday (possibly due to work?). I say something along the lines of being free on weekends too.

Anyways once class is over, she asks me what direction I am headed in, and she ends up following me to the parking lot. Out of the blue she randomly apologizes, saying that she meant to text me to let me know she got home safe and sound Monday. I thought it was a pretty awkward thing to be sorry about. She asks me if I had issues getting home yesterday..which I did. She then asks me what type of car I drive and I said BMW, that's when I saw $$ signs in her eyes. ok lol just kidding. We have nice talk for 10 min or so.

Before departing, I mention once again to let me know if she needs help on the paper. She says she thinks she will need the help. As we exchange goodbyes, I felt that I should bring up taking her out to lunch (again). So I say something along the lines of "my previous offer for lunch is still valid, if you'd would like to take me up on the offer". She says okay with a big smile, and we kinda just split from there. It turns out she wasn't even parked in that parking lot, so I guess she followed me so she could just talk to me.

So guys what do I do. I am not going to text her today offering help on her paper. If she needs help, she can text/call me, and if I am available, ill help out...or should I just shoot her a text while on campus today asking if she needs my assistance?

In regards to the lunch thing, how long should i wait till bringing it up. I am pretty sure she has pretty busy schedule as finals week is about to come up (next week).

i wouldnt have done the things in bold. you made yourself too available. make one more attempt to hang out with her and if she flakes then drop it. if she is interested in you then she will try and set something up. if not, oh well - her loss.

if you hang out with her again, FLIRT with her. be funny, tease her, etc. seems like you are not trying to escalate and she just sees you as a guy who will do her homework for her.

 

[ZhaoYun]

Seems like you two are just buddies to me. If you have bigger plans in mind than being a simple classroom buddy then you need to start escalating asap.

1) You made a mistake telling her you're free on weekends. Even if you aren't busy, you should give the impression you are since it makes her think you're boring by not having anything to do on weekends.

2) You initiated too much. I've made similar mistakes with this one chick I've only taken out on one date. She seems very interested in me, but has only initiated contact once. Your best bet is to not even call/text because she may expect you to do it anyway which isn't a good sign in the early stages of getting to know someone. Let her chase a little (even tho I don't think you have anything other then a casual friendship to work with atm)

You basically put the ball in her court by telling her to get up with you if she needs help. Please do not contact her again until she contacts you. Especially if you want to get romantically involved with this girl.

Only way to find out where she stands is to man up and let your intentions be known. At this point she'll either outright reject you or give you a shot and go out with you. Oh btw, since she didn't counter offer your museum plans that may be enough to know she's not interested. If a girl is truly interested they will almost always counter offer with a better time.

 

[seabumma]

A little more advice would be appreciated. This is what I am about to do:

Tomm I have a final exam ending at 3:30pm and I know she has a class ending at the same time too (she might be taking a final as well). I am going to go ahead and send her a text tonight (Sunday) asking her to grab food with me tomorrow after our classes. I am thinking of sending her something along the lines of:

"hey [name], will you be on campus tomm? Join me for some food after your class?"

I am not sure if this is a good idea or not, as it is finals week starting tomm, and she might have other classes to prepare for. Should I wait till spring break, or should i just go ahead and ask her to join me tomorrow anyways. Also should i send her this text tonight (sunday). Or should I wait till tomm afternoon while I am on my way to campus. If I do it then, I can make it seem more spontaneous, but I am worried that she may not respond then.

Also I would call, but she seems phone shy, texting seems to be her preference.

 

[teagan]

Dude, if there's one thing I have learned in college, it's to ignore cute girls. Seriously, don't answer texts or calls but act like everything is normal in class. Be cool in class then one day, after class is over, just say to her "Hey, Im gonna go get some food, come with me."

The trick is that you have to be flirty in class otherwise it won't work.

 

[seabumma]

Dude, if there's one thing I have learned in college, it's to ignore cute girls. Seriously, don't answer texts or calls but act like everything is normal in class. Be cool in class then one day, after class is over, just say to her "Hey, Im gonna go get some food, come with me."

The trick is that you have to be flirty in class otherwise it won't work.

Problem is, this specific class I have with her has been over as of last week.

Anoyone else care to pitch in? What should I do?? Text her or not? Today or tomorrow?

 

[seabumma]

bumpp, the day is coming to an end and any input would be great

 

[ZhaoYun]

Call her (don't text) and ask her if she'd like to go for a bite to eat on (throw out two days of your choosing)

If she rejects without counter offering you're done. Move on. If she accepts, then great!

 

[seabumma]

Call her (don't text) and ask her if she'd like to go for a bite to eat on (throw out two days of your choosing)

If she rejects without counter offering you're done. Move on. If she accepts, then great!

Thanks.

My stupid iphone keeps losing its signal, so I haven't been able to call/text her today. Maybe this is a sign to wait until spring break actually starts before bothering to ask her out. I think it may be better, since she wont be in the school mode at that time

Anyways, if my phone gets up and running within the next 20 min or so, ill ask her out for tomm.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

***The following advice may seem harsh, but I'm just trying to give you some tough love so you don't end up making the same mistake over and over again.****

Any advice greatly appreciated

Asked her the day before, but, she ended up not coming. She sent me a text message the day I was going thanking me for the offer, but saying she had plans that day via a text message. This was 2 weeks ago.

This right here already screams lowwwww interest on her part. If you contact a girl on Day A and she doesn't even get back to you until Day B, your not a priority to her. Unless there's some extraordinary situation preventing her from contacting you, a girl with high interest will call you back the same day within a reasonable time frame. You didn't create any attraction, therefore she's not eager to talk to you.

Turns out this girl is an even larger slacker than me, so I offered to fill her in on the 100 pages that I did read of the book.

So let me get this straight. You like this girl right? You want to ask her out with the goal of hooking up with her and possibly dating her right?? Then WTF are you doing hiding your intentions behind a classroom assignment?? Don't think for one second that this girl doesn't know that your jockin' her hard, she knows! Girls are attracted to men! Not little boys who are scared to be direct and to the point. Its okay to talk about classroom bs in the beginning, but once youv'e created attraction, go for what you want, don't be scared. This weeds out the bullshyt problems that your experiencing right now, because even if this chick would've gone out to lunch with you, your next post would be saying something like "WENT OUT WITH HB FROM CLASS, BUT NOT SURE IF I'M IN THE FRIEND-ZONE OR NOT, HELP!!!"

She agreed and said she'd really appreciated it blah blah.

Cementing your fate in the friend-zone, by bending over and taking it in the @ss from her. So far you've shown her that your scared to be direct about your intentions and even worse your desperate for her approval.... NEVER GOOD!

The plan was to meet Monday on our campus after one of MY classes. Well Monday comes around and we get snowed on pretty damn hard. On my way to college, she texts me saying she is not going to stick around due to the weather, and asks if she can call me later on in the night to talk about the book. I say sure call me whenever, and end up leaving it at that. Well that night she never ends up calling, I think nothing of it since we have a stack of assignments due for this class the next day.

Now your making excuses for her flakey behavior... Let me ask you this, if this HB said "call me tonight," would you forget due to a "stack of assignments??" Remember this: NO ONE is ever SOOOO BUSY that they don't have 5-10 minutes to call someone, especially someone they really like."


I send her a stupid text later that evening telling her to brace herself for my retarded presentation the next day..no response to that either.

Welcome to DESPERATION: POPULATION: SEABUMMA. Why are you contacting her when she said she would call you??? This tells her that your don't mind her treating you like $hit and even worse, you don't respect yourself enough to even care..

The professor later tells her she can make it up by typing up an essay on it. She gives me this really weird helpless look haha, probably since she hasn't read the book. I end up offering her some help if she wants, since I am going to be on campus Wednesday (Today).

Why don't you zip down your pants right now, pull your balls out and just hand them to her. It'll be a quicker process and end the endless frustration you'll experience in the coming weeks. Your not a man, your a complete wussy around this girl....sorry dude, any chance you might have had with this girl was buried, dug up and shot out into outer space. You have a better chance of being fluent in Chinese then getting into this girl's pants after your actions here.

She says she thinks shes going to really need help, but mentions something along the lines of maybe not being able to stick around on wednesday (possibly due to work?). I say something along the lines of being free on weekends too.

Translation what she's really saying:

HER: Yes I'll absolutely use you and hang you out to dry like a dirty towel in order to pass this class.

YOU: Great!!! You can use me on the weekends too, don't worry I don't mind at all, because you see I don't respect myself and your a godess who should be rewarded constantly for your $hitty, flakey behavior... gee your sooo hot!!

Anyways once class is over, she asks me what direction I am headed in, and she ends up following me to the parking lot. Out of the blue she randomly apologizes, saying that she meant to text me to let me know she got home safe and sound Monday. I thought it was a pretty awkward thing to be sorry about. She asks me if I had issues getting home yesterday..which I did. She then asks me what type of car I drive and I said BMW, that's when I saw $$ signs in her eyes. ok lol just kidding. We have nice talk for 10 min or so.

Now that she knows your her little chump slave homework boy, she wants to make sure you do that assignment for her. On top of all this AFC-retarded-ness, you actually think your car makes you cooler in her eyes....LOL If anything, just shows that your over-compensating for your non-existent game..

Before departing, I mention once again to let me know if she needs help on the paper. She says she thinks she will need the help.

YOU: I can help you with your paper
HER: Okay, I think I need that help
YOU: Hey did I mention I can help you with your paper??
YOU: Hey I'm not sure if you heard me the previous 435 times, but I just wanted to confirm that I will do your paper for you.

text message later that night: Hey its me, I'll do your paper for you, did you get the message??


As we exchange goodbyes, I felt that I should bring up taking her out to lunch (again). So I say something along the lines of "my previous offer for lunch is still valid, if you'd would like to take me up on the offer".

"Hey i know you denied me already for lunch, but now that your using me completely, you can still go to lunch with me and I'll even pay for everything..."

She says okay with a big smile, and we kinda just split from there. It turns out she wasn't even parked in that parking lot, so I guess she followed me so she could just talk to me.

OMG!!! She followed you so you could talk!! Holy $$hit, she wants to fuvk you dude! All that chumpy $hit you did over the past couple weeks, suddenly vanished into thin air...

So guys what do I do. I am not going to text her today offering help on her paper. If she needs help, she can text/call me, and if I am available, ill help out...or should I just shoot her a text while on campus today asking if she needs my assistance?

Your going to text her, you kno why?? Because your desperate, and she's has absolutely no interest in you. So when she doesn't call/text you, your going to panic again and text her. She'll reply because its about HER PAPER, once she gets that done, your toast..

In regards to the lunch thing, how long should i wait till bringing it up. I am pretty sure she has pretty busy schedule as finals week is about to come up (next week).

No one is too busy for someone they like..... STOP MAKING LAME EXCUSES FOR HER S-HIT ON MY SHOES TREATMENT TOWARDS YOU. Your dad has a better chance of getting laid by this chick than you do after this mess...

Hopefully the harsh advice above, drilled the point through to you bro. Your calculating and over-analyzing for no reason here. You messed up right from the start when you completely supplicated to her. Girls are attracted to guys who are confident, fun and outgoing. You on the other hand have shown her that your desperate, insecure and worse off have absolutely nothing better to do than analyze her every action.

This girl is NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!! I REPEAT YOU ARE TATTOO'D IN THE FRIEND-ZONE.

Next time, learn to be flirty and confident with a girl that your attracted to....don't be so willing to give away the farm for free when you don't have to.....

As far as your course of action next: Help her with the paper if you want to, but just know your simply a friend to her and nothing more. All your analyzing about when to call/text etc don't matter, she's not attracted to you. All the planning and smooth talking won't help you now. Think of it this way, your playing a basketball game. Your losing 100-2. Your basically asking us how to come back and win with less than 2 seconds left. It won't matter... game over dude.




PIMP

 

[seabumma]

Pimp-sicle thanks for the advice.

I never contacted her in regards to her paper besides the (stupid) offer I made during the last day of class which was last Tuesday. I think she should complete it herself, and if she really needed me help, she could have asked. If I were not too busy at that time, I would have possibly assisted if I felt like it.

I am not going to text/call her for tomorrow. Ill just give her a call during spring break once classes are all over with. I'll be straight forward and ask her out for dinner. If she says yes, then cool, if not then ill next her. Good?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Pimp-sicle thanks for the advice.

I never contacted her in regards to her paper besides the (stupid) offer I made during the last day of class which was last Tuesday. I think she should complete it herself, and if she really needed me help, she could have asked. If I were not too busy at that time, I would have possibly assisted if I felt like it.

I am not going to text/call her for tomorrow. Ill just give her a call during spring break once classes are all over with. I'll be straight forward and ask her out for dinner. If she says yes, then cool, if not then ill next her. Good?

I personally would not ask her out for dinner period. You've already asked her out twice and offered to help her with her homework a million times. She's not interested, take the hint and move on.

Your best bet for getting anywhere with this chick is to disappear for a while. Maybe once the new semester starts you'll run into her again and you can start with your new attitude.

Go meet new girls and focus on being flirty, fun and direct once you get to know her a bit. It will make your job A LOT easier and you won't have to deal with chicks like this because they'll be the one begging YOU to hang out.


Good luck and I'm glad you have a good attitude and realize I wasn't trying to be a d-ick simply to be a d-ick. PM me if you have any more questions bro.




PIMP

 

[seabumma]

well my stupid phone is being gay. Still no service. I might just send her a text tomm at 10am seeing if she'll be on campus and if she wants to grab food after her class (ends up 3pm-ish) with me. Going to make it seem spontaneous rather than contacting her on a Sunday evening which may make it seem like i am plotting this **** out. If she agrees then cool, if not the her loss and more food for me.

**** women, i am gonna start being up front with them and let my intentions be known earlier on. I'll update this tomorrow. I hope i get stupid cell phone reception by tomm.

 

[GuanYu]

Why are you going to waste time trying to get this girl to go out with you? She's already rejected you can't you see it?

Hell, she won't even accept your invites for helping her with her fvckin paper. You think she's just miraculously gonna want to go out to dinner/lunch with you??? What's the point of even trying to isolate her you don't seem to know what you're doing anyways.

Follow Pimp's advice to the T man. You have a lot of work to do.

 

[green69]

Please don't text/call her again. Follow what Pimp-sicle he said he is dead on. Do you think if she was interested and you asked her out for lunch twice, offered help on her paper she wouldn't at least reciprocate and counter offer? The only way to "get her back" (if you even want to call it that) is to play it cool and move on.

 

[MisterMcGee]

"What's the point of even trying to isolate her you don't seem to know what you're doing anyways."
Haha exactly

 

[Desert Fox]

It seems like you are bending over backwards all on a tightrope with no net underneath for this chick.

I mean I read the first post and you sounded like me 5 years ago always revolving my life around her.....pitiful sh1t son.

Get her off your pedestal. Your constant availability makes you look like a TOOL with no other OPTIONS.

Now I used to think OPTIONS meant OTHER WOMEN, which is GREAT, but it doesn't have to be. For example, a job or grand project I am working on and really passionate about are equally also "OPTIONS."

 

[DonJuan11]

Any advice greatly appreciated

Here is an update to my previous thread, where I tried asking a girl out to join me on a little museum trip for a class assignment. Asked her the day before, but, she ended up not coming. She sent me a text message the day I was going thanking me for the offer, but saying she had plans that day via a text message. This was 2 weeks ago.

Seabumma: Would you like to go out to the museum?
HB: I have plans, but thank you for wanting to go out with me

Not a good sign

Well, yesterday was the last day of this class, where we had a bunch of assignments due, one of which was to read a novel (very boring one I might add). I read less than half of the book, and I was hoping this girl could fill me in on the remainder of it (couldn't find chapter summaries), so I sent her a text Sunday night. I had a good feeling she hadn't read a single page of it, but I figured I'd still ask and joke about it. Turned to be a pretty funny back and forth convo. Turns out this girl is an even larger slacker than me, so I offered to fill her in on the 100 pages that I did read of the book. She agreed and said she'd really appreciated it blah blah. The plan was to meet Monday on our campus after one of MY classes. Well Monday comes around and we get snowed on pretty damn hard. On my way to college, she texts me saying she is not going to stick around due to the weather, and asks if she can call me later on in the night to talk about the book. I say sure call me whenever, and end up leaving it at that. Well that night she never ends up calling, I think nothing of it since we have a stack of assignments due for this class the next day. I send her a stupid text later that evening telling her to brace herself for my retarded presentation the next day..no response to that either.

Tuesday comes around, and I do not see her in class as it starts. 15 minutes into the class I get a text, asking me if I am there. I reply, and she says she is running late and so forth. Well she shows up late, and ends up taking a seat next to me. She ended up missing out on an exam we have on the novel. The professor later tells her she can make it up by typing up an essay on it. She gives me this really weird helpless look haha, probably since she hasn't read the book. I end up offering her some help if she wants, since I am going to be on campus Wednesday (Today). She says she thinks shes going to really need help, but mentions something along the lines of maybe not being able to stick around on wednesday (possibly due to work?). I say something along the lines of being free on weekends too.

You could have told her that if she can't meet you for helping with her book report, you can pick her up too and drop off anywhere after, anytime she wants on the weekend since you told her you are 100% free Friday night and Saturday nights.

Anyways once class is over, she asks me what direction I am headed in, and she ends up following me to the parking lot. Out of the blue she randomly apologizes, saying that she meant to text me to let me know she got home safe and sound Monday. I thought it was a pretty awkward thing to be sorry about. She asks me if I had issues getting home yesterday..which I did. She then asks me what type of car I drive and I said BMW, that's when I saw $$ signs in her eyes. ok lol just kidding. We have nice talk for 10 min or so.

Before departing, I mention once again to let me know if she needs help on the paper. She says she thinks she will need the help. As we exchange goodbyes, I felt that I should bring up taking her out to lunch (again). So I say something along the lines of "my previous offer for lunch is still valid, if you'd would like to take me up on the offer". She says okay with a big smile, and we kinda just split from there. It turns out she wasn't even parked in that parking lot, so I guess she followed me so she could just talk to me.

My guess would be she followed you so she could ask for help on her paper. Oh wait no, you already volunteering 3 times to help and told her you're free Friday and Saturday nights to help.

So guys what do I do. I am not going to text her today offering help on her paper. If she needs help, she can text/call me, and if I am available, ill help out...or should I just shoot her a text while on campus today asking if she needs my assistance?

Read that paragraph again.

- I'm definitely NOT going to text her to see if needs help, if she wants she can call me
- Should I call her and ask if she needs help?

In regards to the lunch thing, how long should i wait till bringing it up. I am pretty sure she has pretty busy schedule as finals week is about to come up (next week).

BMW drivers are not allowed to ask questions such as this.