Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Girl in my class

static

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2003
Messages
141
Reaction score
0
Location
LA
There's this girl in one of my classes. She was in the same class last term (it's a multiterm series course). Last term she was with some dude. I remember at the beginning of the term she smiled and made EC at me on several ocassions right in front of her boyfriend. I just looked down like a chump (scared to smile back because her boyfriend was right there..wasn't scared of him beating me up..just of what would happen..I was scared it was socially wrong). Later in the term I tried to make EC with her but she would just would look away like a disinterested girl. Now this term that guy isn't in the class. I didn't really look at her much this term. I just ignored her for most part. I did notice that she didn't really look at me either, but it seemed that she was more curious about me than she was at the end of last term, but still not at the level as the beginning of last term.

Then I'm in some isolated area of the school going to a lab. I see her walk by and we make EC. She smiles and at the same time so do I and I say "hi." Then we talk about the class for 3 minutes, then she goes. Everything was positive.

This term she's always sitting alone in the back of the room.

The day after the above convo as I came into the classroom, she was looking at me, and I could tell she was expecting some kind of communciation, so I headknodded her in class with a "hey." She gave a smile and a wave. Then today, I didn't look at her direction as I came into class. After class, however, I did look, but in an AFC (unsure of myself) way, and she looked as though she was gonna look my way (she felt my presense) but halfway as she was turning she looked back. I just walked out of the room

I think she knew that I want to sit next to her all this term and I think at some point she wanted the same, but now she's holding me as a wuss for not doing so already.

Basically, the convo that happened above served as a "finally they get to talk" (because static was such a wuss not to say anything all this time and he finally got that opportunity out of luck)

Also, She's always sitting outside near the classroom alone 10-15 min. before class starts. I'm thinking of either talking to her there and if things go well, then walk in the room with her and sit next to her. If things go bad, then I'll try to cold approach one of the females walking by or getting out of class in her presense?
 

LouieVaton Don

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2002
Messages
300
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
maryland
Ok I feel what your saying, but your making this situation more complex than it is. Just make your intentions known to this girl, you dont have anything to lose but everything to gain. I mean even if you arent good at expressing what you want, its a good start because you and I both know there will be other girls you want. This experience is all about you finding our how you operate in the real world and what you want.
 
Joined
Apr 23, 2004
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
Just start buying her expensive things and telling her how pretty you think she is. It also helps if you tell her you can't live without her.
 

pimpdog420

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2003
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!!!

THIS IS STARTING TO BOTHER ME!!! YOU PEOPLE NEED TO START READING ON THIS BOARD BEFORE POSTING QUESTIONS LIKE THIS!!! DUDE!!! SHE IS IN ONE OF YOUR CLASSES AND SHE LOOKED AT YOU!!! WHAT MORE DO YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT SHE COMPLETELY WANTS YOU!!! WHO CARES THAT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!! ONCE SHE IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE OF EVERYTHING YOU HAVE LEARNED AT THIS SITE YOU WILL NEVER LOSE HER LIKE HER CURRENT AFC BOYFRIEND WILL!!!!!
 

pimpdog420

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2003
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
one more thing

one more thing!!!

Next time you see her go for the kiss close!!!
 

VictorK

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2003
Messages
196
Reaction score
0
Age
44
Location
Canada
I think you need to forget about all this "is she looking at me? does she want to make EC??" crap and be a real duan and close the girl. Your taking WAY TOOOOOO LONG and thats gonna be your downfall. YOUR POST is still pure AFC.
 

ArmondTamzarian

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2004
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Age
48
Location
Key West
As the ranking old man here. Try to remember she has just as much to benefit from a relationship as you do. That said you don't need to run into this. You have already placed yourself in an awkward possition. I would try to get to class a couple minutes earlier, but still after she shows up. Aknowledge her as you enter the room with the simple head nod. Remember you might want her but you certainly don't need her. Then put your books down in your regular seat. Then you can go back up and talk to her. See you are not in such a hurry to talk to her then. I would try this on the last day of the week you have class together. That way you can ask her out to an activity you have thought of before you saw her. But it should be something you would go to by yourself. For instance,'I'm going over to Jack's bar Saturday for Blues Night, come with me.' Here you are asking here out, but you are not without plans of your own. Try to remember she wants to be with someone just as bad as you do.
 
Top