girl i use to fuk should i add her on new facebook?

[tony-montana]

so this girl i use to fuk for a few months, she suddenly wanted to stop it cause she said she never tried friends with benefits and i was the only one... so she eventually said she didnt want it anymore and slowly started not talking to me and then she ended up deleting me off msn. i have a new number and new facebook now.. would this be a good excuse to re-add her on facebook or txt her my new number? maybe could catch another fuks from her ?

 

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Stop trying to hide your oneitis by calling it "friends with benefits".

Find someone else.

 

[kingsam]

Stop trying to hide your oneitis by calling it "friends with benefits".

Find someone else.

this ^

she dumped you ... and you still want her.... else you wouldn't give a fu.ck .... dont add her and move on

 

[tony-montana]

hey dont be so quick to judge. i dont like her anymore than a fuk and a bit of her company. she wanted to date but i didnt and she found out i was with another girl then she started goin a bit weird after that. trust me, its not how you think

i was seeing two other girls after her.. shes just more convienient cause she lives close and i dont go out much either (dont say go out cause i wont) no bars or clubs for me. just wanted to see what u guys would say. its not a oneitis! she was calling it friends with benefits, not me. she wanted a relationship, not me. i was just enjoying everything else but she fuked it up and ditched me.

thanks anyway. i wont add her now.

 

[amoka]

Sounds like you changed your number and FB because of her. Why the heck do you want to add her now? Send her a text now? Sounds like a friend I know.

 

[f283000]

This is what happens when you don't have other options and are not gaming other women.

the last thing i did on facebook was contact some former fling. I knew it was not the dj thing to do i knew i was doing the wrong thing but i wasn't going out trying to game women at the time i was being lazy. So for trying to get ***** the easy way I got ignored and i lost some of my dignity to this hor.

you got 3 outcomes that can come out of this
1. she will ignore you
2. she will make you an orbiter/ego booster
3. she will fuk with you again

You lose your dignity with the first 2. When you make contact again with a woman that cut off contact with you they know you don't have other options right now, and that you miss her. They know this and use this to their advantage.

So why risk it? Instead of contacting her why don't you contact some random girls from POF or other dating sites? If you feel like contacting someone online why her and not a brand new girl? It's only common sense.

And the reason for that is you're not being a man. A man knows when to move on to better things and a man values his dignity (she deleted you from her msn not you). You are thinking about getting easy ***** but the only thing you might get in situations like this is losing your dignity because when you're not a man yet you will put ***** on a pedestal and forget your dignity.

She will delete you from her msn but keep a bunch of people that she rarely ever talks to on her list. What does that tell you? She is disrespecting you and wants to get rid of you! But you don't respect yourself enough to acknowledge that!

You have to value yourself in life and rid yourself of people that don't respect you.

 

[tony-montana]

Sounds like you changed your number and FB because of her. Why the heck do you want to add her now? Send her a text now? Sounds like a friend I know.

nope. facebook got disabled had to make a new one. bought a new phone and it came with new number.

This is what happens when you don't have other options and are not gaming other women.

the last thing i did on facebook was contact some former fling. I knew it was not the dj thing to do i knew i was doing the wrong thing but i wasn't going out trying to game women at the time i was being lazy. So for trying to get ***** the easy way I got ignored and i lost some of my dignity to this hor.

you got 3 outcomes that can come out of this
1. she will ignore you
2. she will make you an orbiter/ego booster
3. she will fuk with you again

You lose your dignity with the first 2. When you make contact again with a woman that cut off contact with you they know you don't have other options right now, and that you miss her. They know this and use this to their advantage.

So why risk it? Instead of contacting her why don't you contact some random girls from POF or other dating sites? If you feel like contacting someone online why her and not a brand new girl? It's only common sense.

And the reason for that is you're not being a man. A man knows when to move on to better things and a man values his dignity (she deleted you from her msn not you). You are thinking about getting easy ***** but the only thing you might get in situations like this is losing your dignity because when you're not a man yet you will put ***** on a pedestal and forget your dignity.

She will delete you from her msn but keep a bunch of people that she rarely ever talks to on her list. What does that tell you? She is disrespecting you and wants to get rid of you! But you don't respect yourself enough to acknowledge that!

You have to value yourself in life and rid yourself of people that don't respect you.

it's also hard too cause i go on the same chat program she does and im chatting in the rooms but she never ever does. shes always chatting to guys in private. i mean i dont care that shes in there but its strange that we are both in the same room and we never talk anymore. also how would i be putting her on a pedestal by msgn her on chat sayin hi how are you? i also don't care about the whole dignity pride thing. i never cared about what ppl think of me. i just do it and dont care... ( i just msgd her then anyway and we are chatting again.)

also it's so much that she wanted to get rid of me.. she told me shes never done the whole have sex with friends and she was giving it a shot... then after a few months she said she didn't wanna do it anymore (she wanted a relationship) and she eventually stopped contacting me and i stopped contacting her.

 

[kingsam]

tony you know what.... i bet she isnt giving time to ANY thoughts about you, (unlike you spending all this time thinking about her) she was probably bored and seeing if youd service her needs ..... woudln't be suprised if she sent that message/suggestion to other guys aswell.... all desperate horn dogs happy to sell their dignty for some easy puss.

you need to stop hanging about on the internet chat rooms, and meet people in REAL life

keyboard jocky

forums (like SS, or special interest forums) are ok as long as its not a substitute for a REAL SOCIAL LIFE

i also suspect this FB situation is clearly gonna be on HER terms as well.....

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an ex is an ex for a reason, most the time going back will regresses your manly progress

 

[tony-montana]

i dont go out much like i said. im a hermit. i dont go clubbbing or parties or bars anymore at all. i use to do it every weekend and i did get women. but im old and lazy now and cant be stuffed. dont bother giving me advice about this part cause i like how i live. anyway i like doing things my way just to see the answer.. well i msg'd her on the chat room and we spoke a bit but obviously she didnt wanna chat cause it just died after 5 minutes so i just stopped talking and she never replied

thanks for the advice guys. i lost my dignity, oh noeeesss