girl I just met

[So pimp its scary]

I mentioned recently about a girl that I met in the comp lab at school while printing off some resumes, then we went on a little lunch / store walking date before she dropped me off for the interview.... That was the extent of the relationship, untill last night.

I went to a school beer bash, and as I was walking around she comes and grabs my arm, "Hey, what are you doing here?" And we started talking untill I said I was gone to get a drink. So, as I'm waiting in line, she shows up with a couple of her friends, and we started talking... for most of the rest of the night (the four of us I mean, with me taking breaks to talk to other friends)

This girl is obviously a seductress (charmer / tease), and she follows the same principles that we learn here, (not being overly available/needy, etc). I've been constantly having to slap myself to make sure that I don't get infatuated because this girls got a mint body on top of all that.

Here is the e-mail that I would like to send her, and if it is not a good idea someone please stop me, or help correct. But I would also like an explaination for the WHY I should or shouldn't send this.

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Hi C_____

I really enjoyed talking to you last night, being in your calming glow, seeing the relaxing smile of yours, the excitement and energy in your eyes as we were all talking, getting to know each other, the music pounding in the background creating such an intense atmosphere. I was so focused on our conversation that everything outside our circle seemed a blur, you know like when you are riding a bike and the only thing that matters is the space right in front of you, the rush of the wind blowing through your hair, the whooshing noise of passing cars and trees, yet everything in front is perfectly crystal clear, the more focused you get the clearer all the lines, shapes, faces become.

By the time that you were leaving I felt compelled to just grab you and kiss you; to taste your soft lips, to feel your body against mine, to take in your gentle aroma. Yet at the same time, the urge for patience holding me back, a surge of conflicting emotions tearing me apart from the inside... it's rare that I'm so quickly intrigued by someone like I've been by you.

Untill I see you again.
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[Hot Ice]

OK. you are infatuated.

A question:
Why didn't you feel her and kissed her back there at the party?

 

[FromNothin2Somethin]

eh i dont know

It's great you found a girl you're so attracted to. But i think you're giving too much emotion too quickly. Let her give the impression she has to do more for you to make your attraction build. I wouldn't wanna just make her feel like a goddess right away, gives her the upper hand definitely. If you do really feel compelled to say this though, I think it might be better in person, not through e-mail. Through e-mail you can revise what you say as many times as you want, it might not seem as authentic and genuine as if you said at a select moment. Good luck.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

I'd go with something a bit more casual like:

C_____,

Last night was fun! We should get together and do it again sometime.

SPIS

 

[So pimp its scary]

I am infatuated, which in itself isn't a bad thing, I just have to make sure to maintain control. (Why I made a point to not send the e-mail right away.)

What stopped me was that her friends were right there waiting for her, and I am trying to maintain a single image with the people at the school, so I figured if I kissed her others would see that and all. I know it's a sh!tty excuse... BAD SPIS!

FN2S - You are new here, I do appreciate your comments, and that is why I wanted to post the e-mail first before sending it... just that when using this style of communication it is VERY easy to slip into an AFC mode of communication. I know that if others can read and revise that the crap can be filtered out. I am still learning how to communicate like this effectively in person, but this way of talking has a DEEP effect on the person you're saying it to (if it's a woman). I could e-mail you an e-book that would explain this style of communication, just PM me. You are right though, it does seem alot more genuine in person...

Chewy, you are right, I will make it aLOT more casual... here is my revision :
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Hi C_____

I really enjoyed talking to you last night, being in your calming glow, seeing the relaxing smile of yours, the excitement and energy in your eyes as we were all talking, getting to know each other, we really should do it again sometime.
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[Hot Ice]

What stopped me was that her friends were right there waiting for her, and I am trying to maintain a single image with the people at the school, so I figured if I kissed her others would see that and all. I know it's a sh!tty excuse... BAD SPIS!

Man, that is not an excuse!
You should see me in action with a HB versus her friends.
I've been practically alone so many times (I have no good wingmen) so I have had to go for groups of girls.
I usually just take her and ignore the group. Not many guys have balls to do that.
The resistance usually ends in like 5 minutes when they see they can't stop me from taking this girl.
Most of them are just jealous when a man of action like me take one of their friends and not them!

Borrowing a girl is really good technigue if you don't feel like 'stealing' the girl.
Just go towards the group and say to her friends that I'm going to borrow this one to a dance. Then I just take this girl I've 'asked' for and do anything I like with her.
This is really good way to do it. When you tell to her friends you are going to borrow her a while they really rarely resist. And when this chick you are taking sees that their friends accept that you are going to take her she will agree. Because most of the times girls don't want to lose their reputation and be seen as sluts in their friends eyes.
And when you are there and take her, you show that you are really confident and have some major balls.
Haha, every time I've won a girl from her group they just look with that oh, why she did get so lucky instead of me look in their eyes and aren't resisting anymore. They are more likely to ask the girl you took if she is coming with them or not when it's time to go home.
This stuff is really powerful.
Use it next time you are out there on the field.
Keep in mind that when I've came to the situation hard taking what I want, the other girls have always bent to my will. That's what women do when a powerful man appears around them.

And no, So pimp its scary, you don't get a label as not single by kissing a girl in a party.
You are just having a good time there.
That's all.


To your e-mail.
I know the technique you are talking about.
Giving a woman emotions through your words.
That can be really turn on.
But I think it's much more effective in person.

Well, I think you new version of your mail is better, but I wouldn't use words "calming glow". Sounds too AFC. It's like you saw her as an angel and put her into a HUGE pedestal. "excitement and energy in your eyes" is good because that's little more sexual and doesn't put her on a pedestal.

how about this:
"I had a good time last night also it was fun talking to you all.
I sensed some excitement and energy in your eyes and your smile as we all talked.
We should get together and do it again sometime and get to know each other better."

 

[So pimp its scary]

Hot Ice - You are right, that is as bad of an excuse as ANY excuse... There really is no reason other then choking. Choking should be avoided at all costs.

I also kept macking on another girl once C____ left, and if one had seen then it might have made things a little trickier.... I'm gonna try and not worry about that shyte in the future though... I keep saying, "I've got game, but I've also still got some improving to do..."

I liked your e-mail suggestion enough that that is what I am going to send... thanks alot guy.

But, that technique is VERY powerful, one time I just made a half-a$$ed attempt at that, by describing the woman's passion (rock-climbing) back to herself and as soon as I finished that 1 paragraph she instantly relaxed and her shoulders dropped, and she got a huge smile on her face...

I also know that it is easy to go a little overboard. Thanks again for helping me keep my head on straight.