Girl gone cold after 3rd date out of nowhere

[evilguy_]

Quick answer. As Rollo's rules and others have said. Frame is paramount. Think frame right now and you control the shots.
Frame is liquid yes but after this post from you the frame has to come back to you. If that means you flake on her. You flake. No questions

I flake yes.. IF she tries to set a date. I think she just wants attentions.

 

[evilguy_]

So i met her again we had the best date so far, ended at my place again.

She's still talking about travelling together but she almost never initiate convs. Ok i told her i don't like to text but still.. the others women were texting me all the time.

I have to fu**ing stop overthinking probably.

 

[Visionist]

It's never a bad idea to kick the sex up a notch or ten, either. One of the hallmarks of abundance is you won't care about any one girl and as a result you'll f*ck her, not "make love" or other such phaggotry.

The more a girl is into you, the more she'll do for you sexually. You lead by example. If she's reluctant, withdraw the D -literally and figuratively- and she'll know that the missionary sh!t she practiced in high school won't fly here & now, and she'd better present that sphincter for painal.

F*ck her raw and she won't stay away. I disagree with all the "no porn" wisdom out there. If I hadn't watched so much porn I'd be a pretty vanilla lay, as would most of us.