Girl giving all good signs but flakes - next.. but this is different

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What if she replies within minutes to every text. Calls immediatley back after a missed call, likes to keep the phone convo up when I try to hang up, she just tells me noo stay on the line or changes subject when I tell her i got to hang up. I know she likes me but she doesn't want to hook up anymore after me being very sexual on the phone and in real life I kissed her once touching her and more. She wants to hear all about it(sexual/romantic convo) yet she flaked on last date request. She never initiates contact but her statuss in whatsapp and FB become desperate like im walking away/im pulling back from you and that stuff when I quit contacting her. She also remembers every single detail I said even from weeks ago.

On the phone she mentiones us, talking about romantic situations about how 'we' do things lovers would do and loves my company.
Yesterday she said this: Your only after one thing with me... its not for nothing that you call me ! (she means sex duh)

She is religious and talks about jesus a lot.. Also she wants that marriage be4 laying stuff and is in a ghospel band with other religious people.. she just turned 18 and never had a boyfriend thats for sure coz a friend of mine is family related to her and can tell.. every time I mention a ex or a girl anyway she acts jealous, who is she, was she with you that stuff and I foound out she was asking stuff about my history to people i know

Its funny to have a lot of plates going on because you see so much difference. You see how girls that really want to F*ck you will be almost throwing it at your feet, yet that doesnt attract me...
 

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She sounds like she has some serious issues at best, and is pretty crazy at worst. Why bother with girls like this?

My advice is to stay away. Find other, more stable, more willing girls to date.
 

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If i post a pic youll completley understand why cordon..and great personality, ill just next until she works for it
 

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"She is religious and talks about jesus alot"

You seem to have other plates so why are you busy trying to disassociate a women form her religious foundations. It's more trouble than its worth.
 

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denverfan110 said:
"She is religious and talks about jesus alot"

You seem to have other plates so why are you busy trying to disassociate a women form her religious foundations. It's more trouble than its worth.
Yep. As soon as I saw this "talks about Jesus alot" I saw a big flashing neon green "N E X T". Super religious girls will not do anything but string you along and frustrate you. Then she'll try to get you to join her group of jesus freaks. fvck that noise. I should know...I went to catholic school for 6 years. Its no wonder I'm an Atheist. Let her talk to Jesus...you find another chick to talk to.
 

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GS750 said:
Yep. As soon as I saw this "talks about Jesus alot" I saw a big flashing neon green "N E X T". Super religious girls will not do anything but string you along and frustrate you. I should know...I went to catholic school for 6 years. Its no wonder I'm an Atheist. Let her talk to Jesus...you find another chick to talk to.
Let her talk to Jesus... LMFAO
 

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Guyss ok but not a lot man in all convos twice 3%of all cnvo ever was religion related.. What do you guys think of the rest i made it like she talks about religion all the time not true
 

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She has promised to God that she will be celibate until she is married. I guarantee it. You want to try and break through those barriers good luck. The "you're only after one thing with me" solidifies that. She is stringing you along. Most likely attracted to you, but her religious beliefs are blocking it.
 
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TheGambino said:
What if she replies within minutes to every text. Calls immediatley back after a missed call, likes to keep the phone convo up when I try to hang up, she just tells me noo stay on the line or changes subject when I tell her i got to hang up. I know she likes me but she doesn't want to hook up anymore after me being very sexual on the phone and in real life I kissed her once touching her and more. She wants to hear all about it(sexual/romantic convo) yet she flaked on last date request. She never initiates contact but her statuss in whatsapp and FB become desperate like im walking away/im pulling back from you and that stuff when I quit contacting her. She also remembers every single detail I said even from weeks ago.

On the phone she mentiones us, talking about romantic situations about how 'we' do things lovers would do and loves my company.
Yesterday she said this: Your only after one thing with me... its not for nothing that you call me ! (she means sex duh)

She is religious and talks about jesus a lot.. Also she wants that marriage be4 laying stuff and is in a ghospel band with other religious people.. she just turned 18 and never had a boyfriend thats for sure coz a friend of mine is family related to her and can tell.. every time I mention a ex or a girl anyway she acts jealous, who is she, was she with you that stuff and I foound out she was asking stuff about my history to people i know

Its funny to have a lot of plates going on because you see so much difference. You see how girls that really want to F*ck you will be almost throwing it at your feet, yet that doesnt attract me...
Chick sounds like she's got serious issues.

She'll string you along knowing you want sex like a normal person and use her "love of Jesus" as her sheild and "excuse".

I'd drop the chick quick. Don't be surprised to find out after you dropped her she's getting banged left and right by some new dude who doesn't buy her nonsense.

Drop the Jesus freak. She's full of crap. And she doesn't really care about "Jesus" like she claims. She's using Jesus himself to try to play you.

Drop her ass and never bother with her again. Period.


You could have fun with this chick and use reverse psychology on her for the fun of it before you drop her. Agree and amplify her love of "Jesus" and how wrong it is etc. Play dumb and keep it up letting her know but not saying it that she's a clown. Keep bringing up Jesus and nothing else in conversation till she gets sick of hearing about "Jesus" and then drop her foolish azz and don't bother with her after that. Play her and let her play herself.

I'd get a kick out of fvcking around with a chick like that for my own amusement. Never in anger. Never confrontational. Just agree and amplify. Get her to keep talking about "Jesus" asking questions and talking good about "jesus" yourself. Make her sick of her own BS. Then go "holy" ghost for life.
 

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"Judge a woman by her actions, never her words." - Old jungle saying.
 

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TheGambino said:
@sylvesterstallone yaap..
You might be the worst at taking advice. It's disrespectful to yourself but also to all the forum members who keep responding to your same problems about the same girl.

There are so many other girls out there who don't come with all this drama, yet you insist on being involved with this one.

If she's this much trouble now - do you think it's going to get better in the future?

Doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result is not only the definition of insanity, but it is the opposite of what is taught here.

If you're not here to learn, Gambino, what are you doing here?
 

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I know she got me hb10 in my eyes but i know im out
 
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TheGambino said:
@sylvesterstallone yaap..
guess you're just going to have to learn this one the hard way.

u already know the answers but you still insist on pursuing this.

been there myself. just would not accept she was not interested despite all advice given.

remember, you can't blame the girl on this one.

this is all down to you.
 

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Maybe she's praying about it and has yet to get an answer back from the big man himself. Drop this chick!
 
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