PlatoPacks23
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think I know answer to this already but anyway
see girl constantly at class I take (2-3 a week), we always talk and are partners etc for things. we went out once for smoothies, but pretty sure she didn't see it as a "date" necessarily" (thanked me after for buying her smootihie, said she'd return favor)
since then I prob tried to hang out w her 2-3 times since outside of class. 1 time she hadn't been to class in a while and said that was why hadn't seen her, other time she said she wasn't free that day, and the most recent time she said she could get a smoothie with me but she had a work thing after and it'd be super quick, just walk to get the smoothie, and walk back/no sit down (so like 15-20 minutes give or take). I declined that last one and said balls in her court
so I feel like it's low interest bc she never has offered another day to hang out other than, "ok let's do it next week" and after 3 times of asking I don't think it's worth pursing anymore. I left the door open/balls in her court, but otherwise going to focus on other people and still be nice to her.
am I missing something? dont think im getting butt-hurt esp. bc even though she said "yes' to a second hang out, it was literally only like a 15 minute thing and not an actual sit down thing.
see girl constantly at class I take (2-3 a week), we always talk and are partners etc for things. we went out once for smoothies, but pretty sure she didn't see it as a "date" necessarily" (thanked me after for buying her smootihie, said she'd return favor)
since then I prob tried to hang out w her 2-3 times since outside of class. 1 time she hadn't been to class in a while and said that was why hadn't seen her, other time she said she wasn't free that day, and the most recent time she said she could get a smoothie with me but she had a work thing after and it'd be super quick, just walk to get the smoothie, and walk back/no sit down (so like 15-20 minutes give or take). I declined that last one and said balls in her court
so I feel like it's low interest bc she never has offered another day to hang out other than, "ok let's do it next week" and after 3 times of asking I don't think it's worth pursing anymore. I left the door open/balls in her court, but otherwise going to focus on other people and still be nice to her.
am I missing something? dont think im getting butt-hurt esp. bc even though she said "yes' to a second hang out, it was literally only like a 15 minute thing and not an actual sit down thing.