im confused with this girl cause when we first met she said to me she just wanted to be platonic friends.. and so did i to be honest cause im not fully attracted to her but shes not bad looking. just nothing id drool over.
okay so i been hangin out with this girl i met last week.. kinda almost everyday. she comes after work, hangs out, we have dinner, go for walks, i went shopping with her yesterday (yes a friend thing i know), just been hangin out alot you know... then today.. well this morning (its 7am now) .. much earlier on she called me just to say hey and that she was to a gay club with her gay male friend. so they were all gay in the club... then she calls me 2am asking if she could come over which i thought was a joke... so anyway she came.. all dressed up n stuff... now i havent had a girl in my room .. sleep on my bed for a veryy very long time. and im terrible at doing making moves cause i was so use to girls making moves on me back in the day (not being up myself but usually every girl ive fuked has made it easy for me).
so im watchin a movie and i jump on the bed with her lying down.. i told her to lie down make her self comfortable. instead shes got her feet on my head side and my feet are on her head side.. so i make her laugh alot as usual and blah blah.. oh and i offered to massage her the other night, she declined...
so anyway, she kinda falls asleep.. wakes up when the movies done.. then i hit the lights n all and we are lying in bed but shes way on the other side (to me thats not a good sign) and im like.. sitting there thinking for ages why the fuk did she come over at this time and then just totally cold shoulder me. you'd think she would go home instead to sleep. we talk and laugh a little but then she wraps the blanket around her, turns her back to me and is like good night.
i could NOT sleep at all and was very uncomfortable.. after about almost an hour of lying there in the heat (it was hot to me) i just got up and went to the other room... she got up a few moments after that and looked for me askin what im doing. i said .. its too hot i cant sleep. you take the whole bed its okay.. im going to lie on the other bed. she went back to my bed but five mins later got up and put her heels on and said she was leaving.. she sounded a bit upset too.. i said you dont have to go you can sleep on my bed.. she said no its okay ill disturb you another time. i opened the door and she walked out and said bye... i said.. ill talk to you soon okay.. she just said yep and hopped in the car and left. didnt seem happy.. probably just tired i dunno.
sorry for the long post but this is the reason ive never had girl FRIENDS in my life. ive always been alone and use to it. the only girls ive had were very short term relationships or one night stands. so what's this girls deal? she wants to be friends but she comes to my house 3am with this sexy dress and her tits showing.
ps we are pretty open about things. sometimes ill put things down her bra or whatever but it doesnt get past that since she never makes a move. she just sometimes hits me with a pillow when im mean to her or whatever. or slaps my arm. arrgg women!
btw this isnt me asking how to get in her pants. im just trying to figure her out.
okay so i been hangin out with this girl i met last week.. kinda almost everyday. she comes after work, hangs out, we have dinner, go for walks, i went shopping with her yesterday (yes a friend thing i know), just been hangin out alot you know... then today.. well this morning (its 7am now) .. much earlier on she called me just to say hey and that she was to a gay club with her gay male friend. so they were all gay in the club... then she calls me 2am asking if she could come over which i thought was a joke... so anyway she came.. all dressed up n stuff... now i havent had a girl in my room .. sleep on my bed for a veryy very long time. and im terrible at doing making moves cause i was so use to girls making moves on me back in the day (not being up myself but usually every girl ive fuked has made it easy for me).
so im watchin a movie and i jump on the bed with her lying down.. i told her to lie down make her self comfortable. instead shes got her feet on my head side and my feet are on her head side.. so i make her laugh alot as usual and blah blah.. oh and i offered to massage her the other night, she declined...
so anyway, she kinda falls asleep.. wakes up when the movies done.. then i hit the lights n all and we are lying in bed but shes way on the other side (to me thats not a good sign) and im like.. sitting there thinking for ages why the fuk did she come over at this time and then just totally cold shoulder me. you'd think she would go home instead to sleep. we talk and laugh a little but then she wraps the blanket around her, turns her back to me and is like good night.
i could NOT sleep at all and was very uncomfortable.. after about almost an hour of lying there in the heat (it was hot to me) i just got up and went to the other room... she got up a few moments after that and looked for me askin what im doing. i said .. its too hot i cant sleep. you take the whole bed its okay.. im going to lie on the other bed. she went back to my bed but five mins later got up and put her heels on and said she was leaving.. she sounded a bit upset too.. i said you dont have to go you can sleep on my bed.. she said no its okay ill disturb you another time. i opened the door and she walked out and said bye... i said.. ill talk to you soon okay.. she just said yep and hopped in the car and left. didnt seem happy.. probably just tired i dunno.
sorry for the long post but this is the reason ive never had girl FRIENDS in my life. ive always been alone and use to it. the only girls ive had were very short term relationships or one night stands. so what's this girls deal? she wants to be friends but she comes to my house 3am with this sexy dress and her tits showing.
ps we are pretty open about things. sometimes ill put things down her bra or whatever but it doesnt get past that since she never makes a move. she just sometimes hits me with a pillow when im mean to her or whatever. or slaps my arm. arrgg women!
btw this isnt me asking how to get in her pants. im just trying to figure her out.
i just thought id let you know
