Girl Freind into **** buddy...

[note.the.smoke]

heres the dealio we was going out for 7 months and now we've split up..

today she's been textin me askin if i wanna be a **** buddy, she even sed she wouldnt speak if i didnt want her to... lol...

I know this sounds fantastic on paper, but i really dont wanna end up back with her, i wanna be single over the summer & for my holiday in a few weeks,

would allowing this make it likely that we'll end up back together?

 

[Caldus]

Probably not.

 

[NewMan]

wouldn't be the first time.

Your in control - remember that.

 

[Brad324]

dude? Are you really asking us whether or not you should accept a ****buddy invitation?!

 

[darthsidious]

I did this once, it wasn't a great idea. It's okay to go from friends to fwb to gf route, but it never goes backwards kinda like how gf will probably never be your friend.

 

[Ever onward]

I did this once, it wasn't a great idea. It's okay to go from friends to fwb to gf route, but it never goes backwards kinda like how gf will probably never be your friend.

That was a little out of character Darth. Where is the death and destruction? How does the dark side figure in all of this.

 

[cave dweller]

buddy.......

smoke,

I have a fvck buddy.
I never call her, bug her or go out with her.
She calls me, about twice a month, wanting to come over for a 'back massage'.
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I recommend that you start dating other women, today, and 'write off your ex'.
Then if she gives you a 'booty call' you can squeeze her in.

my 2 cents

cave dweller

 

[hungry_american]

Its not always as easy as that. If you really did care for her and let her get in your weak spot. Knowing she just wants you as a **** buddy isnt always that easy unless you have completley moved on or been with other girls. But if you didnt really care about her much in the first place then have at that free buffet.

 

[darthsidious]

Originally posted by Ever onward
That was a little out of character Darth. Where is the death and destruction? How does the dark side figure in all of this.

darth sidious not get enough sleep lately, but you shall soon know the full power of the dark side...

tonight...

after you turn off the lights

 

[Big Eee Zee]

yes, he'll jump out of your closet and rape you...

 

[Brad324]

:crackup:

 

[So FLY]

Yes, you should its not like your commiting yourself to her

 

[themanwithnoname]

It seems like now she is using 'sex as a power tool', I'd say it's a negative but do what you must.

 

[note.the.smoke]

ok update:

she came round this afternoon and DURING sex, she started sayin how sorry she was and then started crying, clearly hintin that she wanted 2 get bk together.

i kinda froze up n tried not 2 get caught up in the moment, so i just pulled out n layed ther not saying much.

i felt really bad but i kinda saw this coming , so i knew i had 2 hold my own.

later on she carried on askin me if i wanted 2 get back together, i tried dodgin the conversation becoz i really didnt want to hurt her. I doubt shes going 2 stop now though, so any tips on keeping this relationship 100% sexual ?

 

[NewMan]

later on she carried on askin me if i wanted 2 get back together, i tried dodgin the conversation becoz i really didnt want to hurt her. I doubt shes going 2 stop now though, so any tips on keeping this relationship 100% sexual ?

It's over buddy.

Even if she tells you she's ok with it, there is more drama ahead.

Break it off and move on.

 

[darthsidious]

themanwithnoname's advice is solid, she is using sex as a powertool telling you how she feels (SHE MAY BE LYING) during sex during a vulnerable moment.

How soon young stormtrooper? HOW SOON YOU ASK TILL SHE TURNS AROUND AND USES HER JEDI MIND TRICKS AGAINST YOU!!! You may have a couple days if she's the smart type, or a couple weeks if she's the dumb type.

You can beat her at this game, continue banging her BUT NEVER ALLOW YOUR EMOTIONS TO OVERTAKE YOU.. remember Anakin, he was more powerful than I was yet he could not hone his complete skills because he was emotionally weak.

Start experimenting in sexual ways.. take advantage of this situation now. Use lots of sex toys, dildos, vibrators, pee on her, crap on her, whip her, dunk her head in the toilet, threesomes, foursomes, group sex. DO WHAT YOU MUST, SHOW NO MERCY, BE RELENTLESS.

may the dark side be with you...