Short story - Been bumping into this girl because we work for the same organisation. I see her every couple weeks and she always smiles at me and stares right at me. About a month ago I approached her when we were about to use a lift and talked to her for a few minutes, she couldn't stop smiling at me and seemed so engaged as if she'd been waiting for me to approach her for a long time.
Bumped into her again the week after that, talked for about 10 minutes was great and got her number. Told her I'd message her that night to get my number (I know DJ error but haven't been on this forum for long at all) so I messaged her that night. We texted back and forth totalling maybe 8 - 10 messages. I waited 3 days after that night to ring, no pick up and she didn't have voicemail. I then waited 5 days and rang again (error probably I know again) and she completely ignored me.
So now, two weeks have past since then and I see her in my office building and she's talking to someone. She instantly brightens up when she sees me and stops the other person mid conversation to say hello to me, I walked by and said hey very friendly but didn't stop. Half hour later I was outside the office and she approaches me asking how my day's been and making small talk. I was friendly but more professional then anything else and acted indifferent to it all. I'm confident I didn't seem bitter or puzzled by her flaking one bit. Then my coworker came outside to meet me because he asked to talk to me. I told the girl that I had to go meet with my coworker and said bye and she got a bit taken back by me leaving her for my coworker I believe and that was that.
How do you think I played the situation and what do you think her thoughts are? She went from being ULTRA keen to flaking and now was pretty much following me around and ignoring conversations she was already in just to say hi. We got along really well and she's about a 7.5/10 so wanted some action at least.
Bumped into her again the week after that, talked for about 10 minutes was great and got her number. Told her I'd message her that night to get my number (I know DJ error but haven't been on this forum for long at all) so I messaged her that night. We texted back and forth totalling maybe 8 - 10 messages. I waited 3 days after that night to ring, no pick up and she didn't have voicemail. I then waited 5 days and rang again (error probably I know again) and she completely ignored me.
So now, two weeks have past since then and I see her in my office building and she's talking to someone. She instantly brightens up when she sees me and stops the other person mid conversation to say hello to me, I walked by and said hey very friendly but didn't stop. Half hour later I was outside the office and she approaches me asking how my day's been and making small talk. I was friendly but more professional then anything else and acted indifferent to it all. I'm confident I didn't seem bitter or puzzled by her flaking one bit. Then my coworker came outside to meet me because he asked to talk to me. I told the girl that I had to go meet with my coworker and said bye and she got a bit taken back by me leaving her for my coworker I believe and that was that.
How do you think I played the situation and what do you think her thoughts are? She went from being ULTRA keen to flaking and now was pretty much following me around and ignoring conversations she was already in just to say hi. We got along really well and she's about a 7.5/10 so wanted some action at least.