Girl FLAKED on me for the SECOND time!!!

[Hot Ice]

Tantric, if it goes that way you planned, then good.

But be warned.
You shouldn't think what you are going to say this far.
OK, general game plan is good but it rarely turns like what you've planned.

yeah, be like that you don't like flaking and she can go **** herself if it isn't gonna stop.
But try not to plan the whole thing beforehand.
It's impossible.

At least have something else in your mind if it turns out someting else.
Otherwise you will screw it up if it surprisingly doesn't go like you thought.

Just a warning.

Go and get it if you still want.
Otherwise, next.

Peace.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Listen Tantric. Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it will never get you anywhere.

I used to have these problems too, and I think they come from people on this message board. There seems to be a huge problem with over-analyzation among everyone on here, and I think you've fallen victim to this.

See, the problem is that in general, every guy who posts about a "flaky" girl is just describing things through their own eyes, and if they're constantly looking at her every action for a signal for some indication of how interested she is or isn't then anything that is re-accounted to us on this message board is going to come up over-analyzed and completely misunderstood. It's our tendency as males and as humans to be pessimistic, so often we look at the littlest of things way too deeply.

The bottom line is, and I'm sure I don't need to tell you this, but girls are extremely fickle, and their actions often can mean either high interest level or none at all (as in your case). Some are shy. Some don't want to act too desperate. Some will call you before you call them. In the end there really is no sound answer to any posts like this. I find it funny as hell how the first couple of guys had the girl all ready to hop in the sack with you, but when you scroll down a little you have three more people telling you that she thinks nothing of you. This should indicate to you that there is no friggin answer to this dilemma. Girls are unpredictable and every one of them is pretty much a different ball game - some don't want to act desperate, so they don't call you back, and some will be quick to call you back.

I think the only answer to this problem is just to not think about any of this ish. I used to worry about this sh*t. In fact worry doesn't even come near giving justice to what I used to do. I would practically obsess over things like this constantly. I had trouble sleeping and paying attention in class all the time. I'm telling you man this stuff will eat away at you to the bone. I'm just recently starting to help myself into not worrying so much.

So just get out there and do what you think is right. If you get hurt or burnt by her then you get hurt or burnt by her. In the end it won't matter anyway.

 

[Tantric]

Thanks MikeYikes122,

You're right...i was worrying/thinking too much...

I ended up fvcking her on Tuesday night!

I've got all the cool details in a Lay Report in the "General" section.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Yeah I kind of figured that would happen. PM me sometime man. I think we could share a lot. I dont know how the PM thing works, so if I dont get back to you respond with your AIM handle or something.

BTW i think it it hilarious that all these people were completely, totally wrong...