Girl dumped me. Not too happy.

[grayclif]

I met this girl on POF. I went on 3 dates with her. We had unprotected sex back her place on 3rd date. The next day my **** was burning after urination. I was worried I had an STD.
Connection was strong. Attraction was high. The problem was she did a 180 on me and dumped me a week later.
A little about her: She was separated from her husband. He cheated on her twice with two different girls and he didn't want to have sex with her anymore. The marriage was over. Anyway, things were going well between us--besides this STD.
I couldn't text her much due to my job so that bothered her. Then one day she asked why I haven't texted her lately? I said a sibling was in hospital. She expressed sympathy. Then asked if I wanted to get together again? I said yes after Thanksgiving would be good. We flirted like crazy through texts. We were both excited to see each other again. Then the next day she is gone all Saturday and Saturday evening. Two days later she dumps me through text...

Sara: Hey there how is your family member in the hospital doing?
Jack Hey Sara, she is well thanks. How are you?
Sara: Hope you had a good holiday!
Sara: I want to tell you I didn't know where things were going with us so I met someone else and have a deeper connection with this other guy on so many levels. So we decided to be exclusive. You never asked me to be exclusive and I never asked you. Wish you the best.
Jack: What??
Jack: How could you do this to me?
Sara: Is that a surprised or an angry response?
Sara: haven't you been talking to other girls on POF and busy?
Jack: lol...hey I am just messing with you. ok have fun
Sara: Whew! You had me worried.
Jack: Yea I had amazing sex Saturday night and had few dates since you
Sara: I can believe you had a few dates, but why tell me you had amazing sex?
Jack: Just adding some humor. Besides, you are still married with kids. We didn't have a connection just a fling. See ya.
Sara: You are an ******* and I can still see why you are single!
I deleted her number.
8 hours later texted her back..."Who is this?
Then I sent her an email saying.....GET TESTED. Since I had sex with you without a condom my **** has been burning when I urinate. I made an appointment to get an STD test. Whoever you were sticking it to before you met me you must have given it to me and your spreading germs to everyone else.
You to get tested.
I am pissed off!

Sarah: I dont care if you are pissed off...I am clean and have been tested. You are an ******* and dont contact me again!

Anyway I got an STD test and I was negative. I wish I would have handled the dumping a little better but showed her I didn't care either. Her character was what upset me. How can a girl do a 180 when attraction and connection is high?...Yet lies to me and goes behind my back to message other guys and connects with someone that fast. I was furious. She had said after one date that I was hot and cold with her and it made her mad that I didn't kiss her on first date. She couldn't read me and I confused her. Nor did I text her much. I was being somewhat aloof and not needy. I am shocked when she dumped me. She is a *****. I got played. Any ideas why girls pull this BS on guys? They lie so much and cheat on you when you think everything is fine.

Saying she may have an STD is pretty low. I couldn't imagine getting that information via text.

 

[Jack Hensy]

I'm glad I sent that text to her and spoke my mind......call me a whiney 16 yr old I don't care.
A chick wants to piss me off then I throw it back in her face. Not going to play games to get the upperhand.

 

[wakingup]

OP, you need to self-reflect man. You're glad that you told a chick via TEXT MESSAGE that she has an STD and that she's spreading germs to everyone else, when at the end of the day, SHE NEVER HAD AN STD. Wow. Really? You're proud of that huh? You sure did speak your mind, but you don't realize that you were OUT OF YOUR MIND when you said that because you had no proof?

The reason you're like a 16 yr girl is because that's what girls do, they speak their mind when they are all irrate and in a tissy fit and then later, when they realize they were wrong, they say "whatever girlfriend, ima say what I want". You see, women act on their emotions, men act on the facts they have at hand. You acted on your emotions and told a girl she had an STD when you had no FACTS to support that. When the facts came in and you were wrong, you STILL DEFEND YOUR STATEMENTS.

You don't want to play games, yet you made up facts to make her feel bad. What the heck do you think "playing games" is? This is THE DEFINITION of games, making stuff up to try to manipulate the other.

Also, are you of age to be posting in this forum?

 

[Jack Hensy]

ok.