Girl deleted me from fb

[DJ_Dave]

So, I went to this house party and met a few girls. There was one I particularly liked but I didn't ask for her number. Afterwards, my friend said she told him she (and her friend) were interested in me and I should add her on fb. (Note, I hate fb for stuff like this but there was no other way to contact/see her). For various reasons, I didn't actually add her for a couple of weeks but she accepted. I sent a standard message and she replied. So I was going to ask her out but she has deleted me from fb. Her friend also added me and I spoke to her briefly but I wasn't interested.

So, I'm quite confused at this stage. The obvious conclusion is that she's not interested but there was definite interest initially. And why accept, just to look at my pics and then change her mind? I dunno if she thinks maybe I'm playing her and her friend?

I'm not hung-up on this girl and this is exactly why I don't like fb but it's a situation that has confused me.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Many various reasons for this. She could have started seeing someone else, who was also on her facebook. Or, maybe she was initially attracted to you but after reveiwing your FB, she got turned off for whatever reason. Or, maybe someone noticed that you were friends with her then c0ck blocked you. Lots of things could have happened.

Keeping a woman's attraction can sometimes be more difficult than gaining it in the first place.

I'd take this as a lesson learned.

 

[skysliced]

It is often feels like a mystery when a girl unfriends you on Facebook. But you must be a bit hung up on this girl otherwise you would not have made this post.

She probably lost interest because you waited so long to add her or she likes someone else. If girls at parties like you then you are doing something right. And that is great.

 

[skysliced]

If you want you can ask a friend or a cool sosuave member to review your Facebook.

 

[abe0]

do not try to figure it out....just move one. Abe

 

[DJ_Dave]

Firstly, I obviously liked this girl and no one likes to be turned down but I'm more interested in learning lessons, so that's why I'm analysing it.

I was thinking she might have a boyfriend now too but then why accept?

One of my friends said I waited too long but I don't really get that. I mean, ideally I would have spoke to her sooner but I'm not sure it's that important.

Review my fb? I haven't taken any care over my fb and I don't even have privacy settings so she didn't even have to accept.

 

[Yewki]

Could have happened for a variety of reasons, but one thing that strikes me as weird is why the hell did you wait weeks before adding her on Facebook? I take it you didn't come into contact with her between the party and adding her, so think about that for a moment... by the time you sent the request, you had aready left her mind. Then you send the request out of the blue after such a long delay and it's obvious you're playing a game. It also could have come across as a little pathetic because while she probably forgot you existed, you're suddenly still thinking about her... from the one time you met, weeks ago.

 

[buzzin_frog]

There's no point in having any chicks you want to bang or date as a friend on facebook

Adding them as a friend will not help your cause any by getting into their pants

Facebook should be for your family and good friends

You don't need a bunch of chicks adding to your friend count.....that doesn't help you at all.

I've banged chicks off facebook and I've never decided to add them as friends

When I go out and meet chicks....I don't add them on facebook.....I don't need a bunch of random chicks that I don't care about on there.....they are nosey and they snoop....I don't want to be bothered with them

Your friend is wrong.......it wouldn't matter how long you waited

The girl that you like isn't interested in you......it's the friend that likes you instead.....so the girl that you like, just snooped on your page and left

Next time keep the chicks you like off your facebook because there is no point in having them as a "friend" when you can actually be talking to them in person or on the phone.

 

[Formerlyrossitheking]

You should of asked for her number and set up a meet.

Fb is nonsense. Let me ask you, would you stand there and flirt with a woman while she's taking a shlt?

Technology makes it so easy for women to have their ego's stroked by wannabe chumps. Convenient enough that she can be on the toilet dropping one out while she's 'flirting' with you by message.

Number close. Set date. Charm in person.

 

[dasein]

Pretty simple what happened here, the one you wanted is trying to help out her dud friend who does like you and trying to shuck you off onto her. Happens all the time.

 

[Megaman XIV]

She dropped you for a better man. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you.

When a girl drops you, don't try to figure it out. For whatever reason, she found you unattractive and undesirable. Interest was there then, but that ain't doing sh** now. It's over. Move on.

Get equipped with the facts.

 

[skinnyguy]

Consider it a gift from God. Now you won't have to waste time over this wh0re.

 

[VladPatton]

You took too long (weeks) and she jetted, simple. ALWAYS get that number, son.

 

[GotED?]

A woman with 100% interest in you, you can do no wrong.

Stop chasing and figuring out the game - she simply isn't interested.

Tough on the ego, sooner you admit to it the less time wasted on over analyzing when you could be NEXTING to the next better girl.

Be well

Exodus

 

[DJ_Dave]

So I already knew I should have got the number and not used fb. I also don't think that analysing it is a waste of time.

I'm quite happy to accept that she lost interest but I really think she might have thought I was a **** because I kinda flirted with her friend at the party. She was also kinda cute but I just didn't really fancy her.

 

[n52]

You're over thinking this man. The FB route didn't work (as expected because it's stupid) and now contact is lost. Move on.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Many various reasons for this. She could have started seeing someone else, who was also on her facebook. Or, maybe she was initially attracted to you but after reveiwing your FB, she got turned off for whatever reason. Or, maybe someone noticed that you were friends with her then c0ck blocked you. Lots of things could have happened.

Keeping a woman's attraction can sometimes be more difficult than gaining it in the first place.

I'd take this as a lesson learned.

Good post.

It's also probably a good idea to remember that a whole lot of women are fickle.

 

[mikey2012]

She got a bf. You were seen as AFC orbiter. Should have asked her directly. Move forward. Nuthin you can do now.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Don't Trip

Unless I've had some sort of sexual encounter with her and she sent the friend request, I'm not into just having random women as FB friends. Personally, that sh*t looks kinda odd to me. Having over 350 FB friends, when you don't regularly interact with 350 people.[/B]

 

[mikey2012]

I restrict my FB to 30 friends . To add a new friend I must drop one. So to get on my FB list you gotta prove to me your a worthwhile. Bit like top 30 songs...you always gotta keep things fresh.