Girl dating strategy is common now

[member160292]

As a result I can afford to be quite choosy. So there is no game required. A man either shows some effort/interest/investment or he does not get an opportunity. Period. If the man does not initiate interest? I’ve nothing to respond to. There are too many high quality men who do show interest for me to bother chasing men who don’t show interest.

The OP has no clue how to deal with a woman who doesn’t need girl game.

Women that are attractive will have men following them, it’s ‘unfair’ to many men on SS and really men as a whole. We think we should be the prize, but that’s not reality. Supply and demand in simple terms.
How are you different than all the other hot dogs being made everyday looking for the complimentary bun?
Chick I’m dating show me a screenshot of my text after I requested it since I lost a week’s worth of text after I had to factory reset my phone. She had 74 unread messages. 74!
She’s a 7 at best, but can you imagine all the noise that these chicks go through? Ha, sometime we are a sperm trying to find the egg in blindness, maybe a pale blue dot in the universe. Whatever the case, we are just here for a finite amount of time

 

[BeExcellent]

Women that are attractive will have men following them, it’s ‘unfair’ to many men on SS and really men as a whole. We think we should be the prize, but that’s not reality. Supply and demand in simple terms.
How are you different than all the other hot dogs being made everyday looking for the complimentary bun?
Chick I’m dating show me a screenshot of my text after I requested it since I lost a week’s worth of text after I had to factory reset my phone. She had 74 unread messages. 74!
She’s a 7 at best, but can you imagine all the noise that these chicks go through? Ha, sometime we are a sperm trying to find the egg in blindness, maybe a pale blue dot in the universe. Whatever the case, we are just here for a finite amount of time

The reality is that attractive people are always going to have choices. Every man on the planet that is into women wants beautiful women. The male model I dated prior to my first husband had six pretty women competing hard for his attention the night I met him, Six all at once! He signaled me to come over and I just laughed and blew him off. I’m not parading around competing with a gaggle of girls, that’s ridiculous. Needless to say he left those girls standing there & came to find me because I was who he was actually interested in…

If a physically stunning person also happens to be genuine and cool? They become even more attractive as the interaction continues….

Beautiful women are the prize. It’s simple supply and demand as your gal’s texts confirm. Look if every girl looked like a gorgeous swimsuit model beautiful women wouldn’t be a big deal. It is what it is. Very handsome men (see above) also have no shortage of options for the same reasons. The objectively desirable people are in a bubble unto themselves.

Game is important insofar as understanding male/female interactions, what the expectations are, how to respect oneself in that context, how to navigate the beginning salvos of an interaction. That’s social calibration and yes it’s important. I’ve run into very attractive men who were socially inept or inappropriate, and that disqualified those men from further interaction with me. I’ve known men to drop gorgeous women because they were too difficult to deal with over time too.

No matter how physically attractive someone happens to be over time a partner calibrates to their looks. Familiarity breeds contempt in a way. What you want ideally is someone who you still enjoy being around after you’ve gotten accustomed to their appearance. Someone you enjoy enough to respect so as not to go chasing new exciting strange….

But I digress, lol.

I mean what’s so special about you as an individual man that a woman should forgo all the other attention she gets from men at large? Why should she pick you when someone better might message tomorrow?

That’s what truly desirable people wrestle with constantly. Temptation is everywhere.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Kinda late to this thread. But as the old lady around here I’ll add a couple of things.

Firstly the OP completely missed the sarcasm of @The Duke in his post. You see, Duke already thoroughly understands women, and game and is mad successful at charming and engaging women. So exactly how is “girl game” going to affect a guy like Duke? So his question was tongue in cheek because he’s not struggling with “girl game”.

There is something that will work on a man like Duke, however, but it is very rare to find in the wild. It is genuine authenticity by a beautiful woman. Nothing disarms and charms a man like genuine authenticity, it’s bewitching. Why? It’s not a trick or technique, it’s real. And men like Duke are extremely game aware, they’ve seen most everything and aren’t fooled by behavior of typical women. Real is rare. No one knows this better than the true players and playboys out there…and they fall for real in spite of themselves.

I’ve been around here for a number of years. My first husband was a nightclub owner at a top nightclub. I’ve got a number of close male friends (all players or playboys) and I consider myself extraordinarily game aware for a chick. Men invest in me and fall for me quickly, even the playboys. Doesn’t hurt that I’m physically attractive of course, but because I’m accustomed to high status good looking men I’m not easily impressed and I never (NEVER) pursue a man. I’ve never needed to.

As a result I can afford to be quite choosy. So there is no game required. A man either shows some effort/interest/investment or he does not get an opportunity. Period. If the man does not initiate interest? I’ve nothing to respond to. There are too many high quality men who do show interest for me to bother chasing men who don’t show interest.

The OP has no clue how to deal with a woman who doesn’t need girl game.

I understood it was sarcasm but am not interested in explaining things.

Your post added nothing except stroking your ego.

 

[RazorRambo24]

If youre still thinking of how womwn take advantage of men, it just shows youre on the losing end with women.

Level up and watch her treat you likw a king.

Watch her fold your clothes, cook for you, give you gifts, help run your errands for you.

Honestly you can be a broke piece of sh.t but if your d.ick game is amazing you can still reap this treatment.

Guys are pathetic these days. Can barely get their **** up, have no idea how to please a chick or how to put her in her place the right way .. have nothing to show for and cannot garner respect.

Yet just blame women.

Sissification of man.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I made a couple posts on here about it and had people come after me lol I deleted them but these people are nasty

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

It doesn't really matter if women employ game or psychology, advanced shvt tests, whatever; the appropriate reaction to any disrespect remains the same - pull back, check out, or walk away. You will feel it in your gut, as long as you keep watching their behavior, manipulation straight up cannot work, even if you don't know what they're trying to do.

 

[BadBoy89]

women will reject you in order to cause you to stress out to increase attraction. And they weaponize this type of thing.

Obviously brother.

When a man doesn't have the genetics, they want to see how desperate he is without giving anything in return. Game 101.

 

[Smok1nAce]

The only women who have to use game are either, fat, ugly or old.

If a women is using game she's low quality and its mission abort.

I have never seen a hot women use game. Its either a no or yes.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The only women who have to use game are either, fat, ugly or old.

If a women is using game she's low quality and its mission abort.

I have never seen a hot women use game. Its either a no or yes.

Or badly burned

 

[BeExcellent]

I’m with Ace. The badly burned ones if they are extrapolating one man’s behavior to all men? She’s either incapable of choosing well or blind to her own pathos or both.

Sometimes people fool other people. It happens. But to become suspicious of an entire gender as a result? That type human is not healthy.

And no. Hot women don’t need to use game. They have to become well versed in male/female dynamics due to all the attention (mostly unwanted) that they receive. That’s why hot women appear so game aware.

You’d be game aware too if every man you come across each day wants something off you.

It is what it is. Beautiful women don’t need to act contrived at all. They simply show up.

 

[The Duke]

I’m with Ace. The badly burned ones if they are extrapolating one man’s behavior to all men? She’s either incapable of choosing well or blind to her own pathos or both.

Sometimes people fool other people. It happens. But to become suspicious of an entire gender as a result? That type human is not healthy.

And no. Hot women don’t need to use game. They have to become well versed in male/female dynamics due to all the attention (mostly unwanted) that they receive. That’s why hot women appear so game aware.

You’d be game aware too if every man you come across each day wants something off you.

It is what it is. Beautiful women don’t need to act contrived at all. They simply show up.

The game women need to be better at is sorting thru their pursuers. They are about as good at picking men as they are deciding where to eat!

Put a woman on a dating site and she is overwhelmed and quits. She has no idea how to sort thru a list of candidates.

 

[BeExcellent]

The game women need to be better at is sorting thru their pursuers. They are about as good at picking men as they are deciding where to eat!

Put a woman on a dating site and she is overwhelmed and quits. She has no idea how to sort thru a list of candidates.

It’s not overwhelmed so much as underwhelmed. The two times I got on OLD for a week there were hundreds of messages and profiles to go through. There were one or two men in that group who were interesting, but it simply was a waste of time to go through all the frogs to find the few princes. I don’t need to work that hard at finding men to date. Not when I can go out and men come introduce themselves.

So it was, in my view, a total waste of time for no return on the time invested. Why bother with that when I can show up in a real life venue and attract exactly the men who appeal to me?

My time is valuable. OLD was a total time sink. For a girl who is invisible in real life? Sure. Hot women don’t need OLD.

 

[SW15]

For a girl who is invisible in real life? Sure. Hot women don’t need OLD.

When a woman is average looking (looks rating 4.5-5.9), she will significantly increase her number of options. A 4.5 - 5.9 is not getting approached that much in real life. It's possible to make the case that a lot of these women will be somewhat invisible in real life. In real life, a woman who would have a looks rating around a 5 - 5.5 wouldn't be approached by men in the 7.5 - 8.5 range unless it was near closing time and he was intoxicated. On swipe apps, 5 - 5.5 women are routinely swiped right on and opened in the DMs by 7.5 - 8.5 and even men in the 6 - 7.4 range.

When a woman is cute (looks rating 6 - 7.4), she's not typically invisible in real life but she increases her options using the swipe apps. The swipe apps can begin to be an annoyance at this level, but there are 6.5 looks women getting attention from 8.5 looks level men on apps. A 6.5 woman not using apps would need to take men in the 6-7 range seriously in real life. On a swipe app, she can up her demands to men 8+.

When a woman is attractive/hot/sexy (7.5+), what you said below tends to be more applicable. At that level, a woman doesn't need to work that hard to find dates.

5.5 - 7.4 is far more common on swipe apps than 7.5+. There are more 5.5 - 7.4s out there and the 7.5+ ones don't even need it.

it simply was a waste of time to go through all the frogs to find the few princes. I don’t need to work that hard at finding men to date. Not when I can go out and men come introduce themselves.

 

[BeExcellent]

I agree @SW15 with the comments above. But this is also why the best looking women don’t fool with OLD.

What is interesting is that hotter women show up on sites like Seeking (Arrangements) as noted by a number of men here. Those are hot women who are looking to shamelessly monetize their looks, and to my way of thinking is not much different than being an escort, Only Fans attention w h o r e etc. Those women defacto are not quality people.

But they get play doing that only to a point. The best men are not going to seriously entertain women like that because the best men can choose from beautiful women who had more class than to pimp themselves out.

Although I’ve been very attractive all my adult life I earn my living through my brains & talent (some clients have never seen me), and I’ve done very well without the need or desire to monetize my looks.

High quality beautiful women are not going to be on OLD or OF or SA. They don’t need to be.

The way to meet those type women is to matriculate socially where they do. Which means you’ve got to have your act together as a dude.

 

[SW15]

What is interesting is that hotter women show up on sites like Seeking (Arrangements) as noted by a number of men here. Those are hot women who are looking to shamelessly monetize their looks, and to my way of thinking is not much different than being an escort, Only Fans attention w h o r e etc. Those women defacto are not quality people.

But they get play doing that only to a point. The best men are not going to seriously entertain women like that because the best men can choose from beautiful women who had more class than to pimp themselves out.

High quality beautiful women are not going to be on OLD or OF or SA. They don’t need to be.

This is accurate. There are physically attractive (7.5+ in looks on most men's rating scales) women on OnlyFans, Seeking, and swipe apps. They are rarer on the swipe apps.

Your key phrase is high quality. Women from OnlyFans and Seeking generally will not be high quality in factors other than looks.

There are men that would be okay with their girlfriends being on OnlyFans. In a way, having a girlfriend that is on OnlyFans is a form of an open relationship. She isn't fuccking her pay pigs from OnlyFans in most cases but she is showing off her naked body on the internet and sometimes sending/posting masturbation videos to men on the internet. It is difficult to imagine a lot of alpha and sigma males finding that behavior acceptable in a girlfriend. It's tough to rationalize that.

Sugar baby/sugar daddy dating from Seeking is in the realm of paying directly for sex. The sugar baby is in the arrangement mostly due to money.

These aren't the highest quality situations.

Women who 7.5+ on looks who elect to not do porn/OnlyFans or get paid directly for sex are showing some character. Additionally, when a woman is 7.5+ on looks and isn't sexually promiscuous, that also takes a lot of character. She's passing on the potential for a lot of money, though potential isn't always reality.

The way to meet those type women is to matriculate socially where they do. Which means you’ve got to have your act together as a dude.

Women who rate 7.5+ on looks can be approached in the real world. It's better to approach them in the real world than hope to rarely encounter one on a swipe app. Getting an introduction from a mutual acquaintance would increase the probability of getting a first date from them rather than approaching them as a stranger.

Approaching a 7.5+ at a gym would be a real challenge. She's likely wearing earbuds/headphones to discourage as many approaches as she can. A fitness class would be a better solution for that than the general gym floor to work around the earbud problem. Even if a man works around the earbud problem in a fitness class, women do not have the reputation for being sociable after a fitness class. Fitness classes are not as good as one might imagine, even though most are at least 65% female.