Girl dating strategy is common now

[IamtheAlphamale]

I've been telling you guys for years about this. We do pickup and they have their own style now.

The websites make you verify your a woman and they have tons of people in psychology at university now.

They changed the game and took over. I saw this coming 20 years ago.

Girls literally call eachothers 'pick mes' if they chase a guy.

Well my suggestion is that this starts a thread, and we work on how to deal with this. Or I will successfully deal with this myself.

Also the way men gain connection to women is stress. This concept is proven. That's why women are making you guys chase them more now. Because they are purposely triggering attraction triggers just like we do.

So you guys can read this and not contribute if you like. But I will continue to stand out from the rest of you if you do.

So I suggest we study this together and infiltrate them

 

[pranshu]

I've been telling you guys for years about this. We do pickup and they have their own style now.

The websites make you verify your a woman and they have tons of people in psychology at university now.

They changed the game and took over. I saw this coming 20 years ago.

Girls literally call eachothers 'pick mes' if they chase a guy.

Well my suggestion is that this starts a thread, and we work on how to deal with this. Or I will successfully deal with this myself.

Also the way men gain connection to women is stress. This concept is proven. That's why women are making you guys chase them more now. Because they are purposely triggering attraction triggers just like we do.

So you guys can read this and not contribute if you like. But I will continue to stand out from the rest of you if you do.

So I suggest we study this together and infiltrate them

I do see your point OP. Recently because of the web series and other digital content, women are becoming more game aware. Negs don't work as good as they worked few years ago, at least in my case. They know what it is and what it does..They have built up a bit of immunity.

But the fact remains that Women need men more than men need women, biologically, sexually, emotionally, and professionally( lol)

Let them play even more hard to get, we will just soft next such or play even harder to get..women's SMV declines faster so only stupid women would do this in the first place..

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I do see your point OP. Recently because of the web series and other digital content, women are becoming more game aware. Negs don't work as good as they worked few years ago, at least in my case. They know what it is and what it does..They have built up a bit of immunity.

But the fact remains that Women need men more than men need women, biologically, sexually, emotionally, and professionally( lol)

Let them play even more hard to get, we will just soft next such or play even harder to get..women's SMV declines faster so only stupid women would do this in the first place..

If we do that, it cuts down our success rate. I'd rather adapt to what they are doing and capitalize

 

[kavi]

I've been telling you guys for years about this. We do pickup and they have their own style now.

The websites make you verify your a woman and they have tons of people in psychology at university now.

They changed the game and took over. I saw this coming 20 years ago.

Girls literally call eachothers 'pick mes' if they chase a guy.

Well my suggestion is that this starts a thread, and we work on how to deal with this. Or I will successfully deal with this myself.

Also the way men gain connection to women is stress. This concept is proven. That's why women are making you guys chase them more now. Because they are purposely triggering attraction triggers just like we do.

So you guys can read this and not contribute if you like. But I will continue to stand out from the rest of you if you do.

So I suggest we study this together and infiltrate them

But female game is simple I think it is completely known, I know lots of girls from different backgrounds and ages and they all act and behave the same the game is the same they even say the same **** the same lines etc.

And yh they will just try and make you chase them and for that there really is no way round it but to 'go through the motions' without emotions so like if you txt and they dont respond straightaway and make you wait then you just have to know that all women do that its just part of their 'game' and not to read anything into it or get upset or as you emotional cos yh you are right their 'game' is just to get you emotional and stressed which causes you to lose sight and power and give up power and control.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

But female game is simple I think it is completely known, I know lots of girls from different backgrounds and ages and they all act and behave the same the game is the same they even say the same **** the same lines etc.

And yh they will just try and make you chase them and for that there really is no way round it but to 'go through the motions' without emotions so like if you txt and they dont respond straightaway and make you wait then you just have to know that all women do that its just part of their 'game' and not to read anything into it or get upset or as you emotional cos yh you are right their 'game' is just to get you emotional and stressed which causes you to lose sight and power and give up power and control.

Actually, do you know about anchors? Pavlov?

Right now I am making my work a hotbed of women using girl strategy (by purposely getting them into that stuff). And I've found one who's very into it is using different safety vests when she does different things to create anchors for different emotions. So this is potentially very damaging.

Sun tzu said to know yourself and your enemy.

It is a mistake to underestimate an opponent. Better to learn them and capitalize. Why are you guys in pickup if you refuse to learn the methods women use? Don't you guys see if she pulls game and you recognize it, that it's easier to stay in frame and adapt?

 

[kavi]

Actually, do you know about anchors? Pavlov?

Right now I am making my work a hotbed of women using girl strategy (by purposely getting them into that stuff). And I've found one who's very into it is using different safety vests when she does different things to create anchors for different emotions. So this is potentially very damaging.

Sun tzu said to know yourself and your enemy.

It is a mistake to underestimate an opponent. Better to learn them and capitalize. Why are you guys in pickup if you refuse to learn the methods women use? Don't you guys see if she pulls game and you recognize it, that it's easier to stay in frame and adapt?

Ok post here wats this stuff?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Back in the day, Rollo talked about how male and female strategy were opposite. One had to "lose" for the other to "win".

Some of the advice you see here in SoSuave would be stuff like:
"Dont spend any money on the date, or spend as little as possible. Dont buy them dinner dates before sex".

If you take a look at a website called "FemaleDatingStrategy" (If you can stomach all the misandry),
Some of the "advice" (there´s hardly any real advice there. Its more like a bunch of women sabotaging each other) is the exact opposite, like:
"Dont accept anything less than dinner as a 1st date, Especially if he´s rich"

If you can find a girl who´s aware of this sort of "female game", but shugs it off, submits to you, lets you lead, is feminine, low body count, gives you sex on demand, had no red flags, passes the boner test, etc. She might be a keeper.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ok post here wats this stuff?

Basically there was this guy Pavlov. He lived a couple hundred years ago. He would feed his dog bacon everyday and ring a bell at the time he fed the dog.

When he later stopped feeding the dog bacon but rang the bell the dog would have the same reaction as if he had fed the bacon. It's referred to in psychology as classic conditioning or anchors.

You can wear a certain color shirt, for example, every time you do a certain thing with someone. And if it's anchored properly then that shirt will begin to trigger a specific emotional response from them.

So if a girl rejects you and is always wearing a certain thing when she does it, then after a while she can just wear that shirt around you and you will have a triggered stress response.

 

[kavi]

Basically there was this guy Pavlov. He lived a couple hundred years ago. He would feed his dog bacon everyday and ring a bell at the time he fed the dog.

When he later stopped feeding the dog bacon but rang the bell the dog would have the same reaction as if he had fed the bacon. It's referred to in psychology as classic conditioning or anchors.

You can wear a certain color shirt, for example, every time you do a certain thing with someone. And if it's anchored properly then that shirt will begin to trigger a specific emotional response from them.

So if a girl rejects you and is always wearing a certain thing when she does it, then after a while she can just wear that shirt around you and you will have a triggered stress response.

lols stupid girls going so deep into psychology but thanks for the info

 

[pranshu]

But female game is simple I think it is completely known, I know lots of girls from different backgrounds and ages and they all act and behave the same the game is the same they even say the same **** the same lines etc.

And yh they will just try and make you chase them and for that there really is no way round it but to 'go through the motions' without emotions so like if you txt and they dont respond straightaway and make you wait then you just have to know that all women do that its just part of their 'game' and not to read anything into it or get upset or as you emotional cos yh you are right their 'game' is just to get you emotional and stressed which causes you to lose sight and power and give up power and control.

Exactly my point..women are gaming men men are gaming women..its just that we have to outgame them..NO need to worry about women and their game evolution..

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Back in the day, Rollo talked about how male and female strategy were opposite. One had to "lose" for the other to "win".

Some of the advice you see here in SoSuave would be stuff like:
"Dont spend any money on the date, or spend as little as possible. Dont buy them dinner dates before sex".

If you take a look at a website called "FemaleDatingStrategy" (If you can stomach all the misandry),
Some of the "advice" (there´s hardly any real advice there. Its more like a bunch of women sabotaging each other) is the exact opposite, like:
"Dont accept anything less than dinner as a 1st date, Especially if he´s rich"

If you can find a girl who´s aware of this sort of "female game", but shugs it off, submits to you, lets you lead, is feminine, low body count, gives you sex on demand, had no red flags, passes the boner test, etc. She might be a keeper.

Like I said before Sun Tzu, the great strategist, said : know yourself, know your enemy.
If you don't know yourself and don't know your enemy then you lose everytime
If you only know yourself or only your enemy, you win half the time
If you know both yourself and your enemy, you need not fear the outcome of 100 battles.

Ok. So I suggest we learn what they are up to and figure out ways to deal with them. I don't know everything they know. But I do know it's foolish to discount the gatekeepers of sex because we arrogantly assume our game is superior to theirs. And because of our hubris we do not learn their methods and how best to get what we want from the situation.

I am purposely getting as many women to do this stuff as possible around me, because it sets them all in the same game plan and I can adapt and learn their game.

I also got a lot of self respect from pickup and I want them to have the same. I want everyone to grow and have the best life and I try to make that happen. But I still want to learn their methods and adapt and capitalize on the situation.

 

[kavi]

The major value of all this is knowing the ****up of modern women cos all this stuff or atleast most of causes relationships to go sour and tbh it dont benefit either party bcause it causes negativity in the market.

For instance the whole thing about getting men to pay for dinner and stuff ok thats cool but then what about the hookup on holiday or that ONE (????) time she ****ed a guy from tinder no dinner no dates no nothing just straight sex. All this is scamming and manipulation and most of it comes from some sense of entitlement to certain things IN EXCHANGE for sex, relationship or attention but in reality for the system to work correctly and there to be positive energy sex and relationships can only be exchanged for positive energy because in relationships with the opposite parties both parties really just want positive energy of which sex is one form.

So to get positive energy in relationships and general interactions with the opposite gender it can only be bought or exchanged with positive energy not money or dinners or anything like that and tbh men are not understanding of this either and often want to use money to get women in that case the men should know they will never get positive energy from the interaction and ofcourse women too if they play the game like that they will never get positive energy so many of these 'tactics' are infact the cause of the negativity and downfall of relationships or maybe it is a move away from traditionalism which was based on money and towards positive energy which in the modern world may replace money.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

The major value of all this is knowing the ****up of modern women cos all this stuff or atleast most of causes relationships to go sour and tbh it dont benefit either party bcause it causes negativity in the market.

For instance the whole thing about getting men to pay for dinner and stuff ok thats cool but then what about the hookup on holiday or that ONE (????) time she ****ed a guy from tinder no dinner no dates no nothing just straight sex. All this is scamming and manipulation and most of it comes from some sense of entitlement to certain things IN EXCHANGE for sex, relationship or attention but in reality for the system to work correctly and there to be positive energy sex and relationships can only be exchanged for positive energy because in relationships with the opposite parties both parties really just want positive energy of which sex is one form.

So to get positive energy in relationships and general interactions with the opposite gender it can only be bought or exchanged with positive energy not money or dinners or anything like that and tbh men are not understanding of this either and often want to use money to get women in that case the men should know they will never get positive energy from the interaction and ofcourse women too if they play the game like that they will never get positive energy so many of these 'tactics' are infact the cause of the negativity and downfall of relationships or maybe it is a move away from traditionalism which was based on money and towards positive energy which in the modern world may replace money.

I can understand why you think this.

But women are manipulating men's stress levels to get a better frame on the relationship.

Attraction is basically a psychological battle of who has more sexual value, the man or woman. And they operate from this, leveraging their position.

They get men to chase and create situations which cause men stress to increase our interest level. They frame it into us needing to act like simps in order to succeed sexually. They then draw us into relationships.

Basically men are hunters and for some reason stress causes us to bond with people. It is not the same as women's attraction. It's totally different.

This problem situation, of women gaming us, needs to be addressed. We should make a Bible type document which outlines how to deal with them.

Who has sisters which are willing to help us gain information about female dating sites?

 

[pranshu]

I can understand why you think this.

But women are manipulating men's stress levels to get a better frame on the relationship.

Attraction is basically a psychological battle of who has more sexual value, the man or woman. And they operate from this, leveraging their position.

They get men to chase and create situations which cause men stress to increase our interest level. They frame it into us needing to act like simps in order to succeed sexually. They then draw us into relationships.

Basically men are hunters and for some reason stress causes us to bond with people. It is not the same as women's attraction. It's totally different.

This problem situation, of women gaming us, needs to be addressed. We should make a Bible type document which outlines how to deal with them.

Who has sisters which are willing to help us gain information about female dating sites?

Bro, nothing wrong with reading or knowing female dating strategy..have at it..but all their game tactics and manipulations can be counterred by one simple behaviour on our part.."NOT GIVING A **** ABOUT THEM".

They are getting men to chase them..then DON'T CHASE them..try one or two times..if she still keeps playing then move on..

They are trying to frame it making men into simps..then DON'T SIMP simple..

There are lot of beautiful things and creatures in this world other than WOMEN...stop thinking about women for one week and see the world from a new perspective..There must be something you love to do other than women..

WOMEN SHOULD NEVER BE THE FOCUS OF YOUR LIFE, BUT ONLY AN ACCESSORY.

Let this be the last and conclusive post of this thread..

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I am a native English speaker.

Let me translate from the headline: there is no one particular dating strategy that is "new" or "newly common" that the OP is referring to. There is only the rise of FDS (female dating strategy) is general.

Hopefully I've saved some time.

 

[kavi]

No ofcourse there is general strategies employed by women I know lots of them and they are mostly these psychological and behaviours traits and often they are deeply ingrained and for sure many women really enjoy them tbh esp the thing about increasing stress because increasing stress is increasing intensity and stress and excitement and arousal are linked so it can turn women on to increase the intensity which can be increased through stress and also stress resistence and tolerance is an indicator of fitness and attractiveness so it can work to screen out low value males.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Bro, nothing wrong with reading or knowing female dating strategy..have at it..but all their game tactics and manipulations can be counterred by one simple behaviour on our part.."NOT GIVING A **** ABOUT THEM".

They are getting men to chase them..then DON'T CHASE them..try one or two times..if she still keeps playing then move on..

They are trying to frame it making men into simps..then DON'T SIMP simple..

There are lot of beautiful things and creatures in this world other than WOMEN...stop thinking about women for one week and see the world from a new perspective..There must be something you love to do other than women..

WOMEN SHOULD NEVER BE THE FOCUS OF YOUR LIFE, BUT ONLY AN ACCESSORY.

Let this be the last and conclusive post of this thread..

The strategy you are suggesting makes it so our community cannot deal with a large, ever increasing number of women.

This is the place to discuss this type of thing, before it's pretty much all women.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

No ofcourse there is general strategies employed by women I know lots of them and they are mostly these psychological and behaviours traits and often they are deeply ingrained and for sure many women really enjoy them tbh esp the thing about increasing stress because increasing stress is increasing intensity and stress and excitement and arousal are linked so it can turn women on to increase the intensity which can be increased through stress and also stress resistence and tolerance is an indicator of fitness and attractiveness so it can work to screen out low value males.

I am a native English speaker.

Let me translate from the headline: there is no one particular dating strategy that is "new" or "newly common" that the OP is referring to. There is only the rise of FDS (female dating strategy) is general.

Hopefully I've saved some time.

Yup. That's one of the sites that they have which is basically the same type of thing as this site.

Except that their movement is built on causing as much stress as possible in order to increase attraction (emotional abuse).

They also have a book which sold millions of copies called 'why men love bitches' which says to no show on a man in crummy weather and have him waiting for you in the rain so that he gets sick. So men have most likely died from this use of biological warfare.

I'm just including this so that if the media comes after sosuave this specific message will draw attention.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

No ofcourse there is general strategies employed by women I know lots of them and they are mostly these psychological and behaviours traits and often they are deeply ingrained and for sure many women really enjoy them tbh esp the thing about increasing stress because increasing stress is increasing intensity and stress and excitement and arousal are linked so it can turn women on to increase the intensity which can be increased through stress and also stress resistence and tolerance is an indicator of fitness and attractiveness so it can work to screen out low value males.

So for example women will reject you in order to cause you to stress out to increase attraction. And they weaponize this type of thing. It's better that our community is aware of these tricks they use.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

? Don't you guys see if she pulls game and you recognize it, that it's easier to stay in frame and adapt?

simple: amused mastery. “Girl game noted. Good try.” And give them the smirk.

Makes the hamster hit the wheel HARD. Say nothing else - they abhor silence and be forced to go off script. Try it.

They are not the enemy. Personally I LOVE women, they’re fascinating creatures. Use dating as a laboratory- try different things, learn to recognize patterns. learn to counter them. Trial and error- each one has its nuances. Gray seducirá have one thing in common: the ability to think creatively and reason in chaos. Women are like exotic pets, they require attentiveness and special feeding.

I remember years ago when I was dating a lot of chicks the moment I realized I could simply do certain things to illicit predetermined reactions, it was an eye opener. I did it enough times with enough women to prove that it worked most ones with most women. It gave me control and took me from feeling like I was a victim to near god mode.

You do however have to give her something she wants that no one else has, it up to you to figure out what that thing is.

Float like a Cadillac and sting like a Beemer.