Girl cheated on me

[Burridge]

I've been dating this girl for three months. Everything was going good but yesterday she made out with a mutual friend of ours and called me crying for like 5 hours. I really liked her, i dunno, what should i do?

 

[Vypros]

Dump her and move on.

 

[Modro]

^ nothing you can do sir, she probably was only crying because she got caught and didnt want to be called a slut..... was there alcohol involved?

 

[Vypros]

was there alcohol involved?

Not that it matters.

Alcohol is just an excuse.

 

[speed dawg]

I'd say it's all over.

Pick yourself up and walk away. You will gain TONS of self respect by doing this. Don't ever talk to her again.

 

[Modro]

Not that it matters.

Alcohol is just an excuse.

i know just wondering if it was the catalyst, its game over like i said though.

man i hate women sometimes, good luck though buddy

 

[ryannath]

Dump her. She didn't respect you enough not to cheat and if you forgive her, she will make your life a living hell and she will probably cheat on you somemore because she will lose ALL respect for you, and probably will dump you too. So dump her. You will feel so much better about yourself if you dump her and show her you don't take that crap. Also, be prepared for her to make it seem like your fault that she cheated. Like, "You weren't there for me emotionally", or some bs like that. And, if she says she was drunk, don't listen to her. It's just an excuse. I know what I am doing when I am drunk.

 

[dap]

You got to let her go. Do it in person though (not over the phone), and be nice about it. She'll probably start crying again; stay until she feels better, then get the **** out of there and go to the tittie bar

 

[Jackman]

Let's see...be a doormat or have some principle...doormat....principles.... Hmm...yeah, tough choice. Let me sleep on this one. I'll get back to you.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

yesterday she made out with a mutual friend of ours and called me crying for like 5 hours.

You stayed on the phone for 5 hours?

 

[penkitten]

she disrespected you in more ways than one. the cheating is a given, but to keep you on the phone for five hours just to explain the situation says that she thinks she is smarter than you. she thinks she can talk you into doing whatever she wants. she was being manipulative by crying to try to get the result she wanted.
she knew you needed time to think about it on your own and make your own choice on what you wanted to do from that point, and that is why she kept you on the phone, so that you wouldn't have it.

 

[spread_love]

You DO NOT need her, don't even tell her it's over...just move on...you owe it to yourself.

 

[TruthHurts]

actions speak louder then words... she did what she wanted to do... would she cheat on Brad Pit? sorry man... she didnt care about you enough.. next her

 

[SharinganUser]

Next her. Make out with her friend. Or her sister if she's got one

 

[SilverProphet]

oh well why dump her?????? use her as booty call or whatever.

 

[Mindtrust]

Get rid of the so called friend and the girl...

One chance, one chance only..

No need to have that in your life.

Mindtrust

 

[NewDon]

hey bro,

it sucks to be cheated on... here's two possible reasons why it happened...
1) you weren't 'alpha' enough for her... this other guy obviously was. she's wanted to cheat on you for a while i'm guessing, just hasn't been able to do it in the past cause she may have felt guilty (now she can blame the alcohol... and the guilt factor disappears)

or

2) she's experimenting still... you know how a lot of the guys on this site keep telling you to not get serious until you've dated and hooked up with a lot of chicks... and tell u to date multiple chicks... well that's what she's doing... it's called casual dating. but the fact that she didn't tell you that explicitly, and led u on, thinking what u had was monogamous makes her a skank... and a bit of an AW.
also, girls like her (which is most girls 20-25) love the rush of a new relationship... it's like an adventure for them... becoming close to a new guy, 'connecting' with him (all the other bullsh!t)...

don't beat yourself up over it... move on... make sure your happiness is never dependant on a woman. i firmly believe that most girls would cheat given the opportunity... the only way to stop this from happening is

1) make sure she's not an AW... and is menatally stable... (these girls you can't stop from cheating)
2) be the most alpha out of all the guys she knows... keep in mind alpha = good guy... not nice guy or jerk... and even though being a jerk works in the beginning, it won't make a girl stay... there are some good threads on here regarding how to be alpha in a LTR.

 

[So pimp its scary]

The only reasonable solution is to drop the girl like a hot potato and not look back.

She cheated on you... try to find the areas where you went wrong so you won't make those same mistakes again...

forgot to remove the sig.

 

[The Shocker]

Do NOT dump her. Now I know some of you guys are like "WHA'???" Here's what he should do:

1. Call her and tell her that you're very hurt by what she's done, but think you can forgive her if she makes up for it.
2. Get her to come over to your house when your parents are not home.
3. Do the sickest **** you can think of to her sexually. Anal, fisting, anything you want. If she balks tell her that it's the only way you could be comfortable continuing the relationship.
4. Once you're completely satisfied, kick her ass out the door and never speak to her again.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

You DO NOT need her, don't even tell her it's over...just move on...you owe it to yourself.

:rockon: word up...Im da same way....