girl cant orgasm? wtf

[skaterguy97]

Hi guys....recently started having sex with this girl...she claims shes never been able to reach orgasm before ...this is before sex...so i think bull**** but lo and behold in bed i try everything and get nowhere...as you can prob. imagine this is most frustrating as ive read the sex god method and bed like 3 other girls at the moment who i have incredible sex with...i think her immersion or upbringing might have something to do with it...how do i break her in haha?

thanks

 

[loveshogun]

Hi guys....recently started having sex with this girl...she claims shes never been able to reach orgasm before ...this is before sex...so i think bull**** but lo and behold in bed i try everything and get nowhere...as you can prob. imagine this is most frustrating as ive read the sex god method and bed like 3 other girls at the moment who i have incredible sex with...i think her immersion or upbringing might have something to do with it...how do i break her in haha?

thanks

This might sound like some Cosmo bs, but with women, everything I've experienced is that she has to be in the right mental state.

Her anxiety that she's never reached orgasm before is probably part of the problem, or at least a symptom.

The keys for you is that you need patience and persistence. D*ck control, my friend. You may need to hold out for 40 minutes or so before busting if you want her to hit it.

I find condoms to be very helpful in that regard.

Try dirty talk if you haven't already. Women tend to love that. Or at least the kind that I date.

 

[skaterguy97]

Patience and persistence huh...il give plowing through it a def try:rockon: ...agreed on the dirty talk....thanks

 

[Kailex]

Unfortunately, women aren't like men in that they can orgasm just by shaking themselves three times and then twisting. It doesn't work like that for them. For many, it's a learned process and an emotional one at that.

I've been with quite a few women who had never had one into their twenties and all of a sudden could. For them it's a lot more mental and emotional than it is for us.

Specially if she's NEVER done it, she'll have to learn how to get there. After the first few times that they get there, I find that all of a sudden, they get a lot wilder because they want to repeat the process more.

You'll just have to be patient and not get frustrated. Get her in the mood a little more. Talk to her in a certain way. If she doesn't know where she likes it the most to get her off, trust me, there's almost nothing you can possibly do to get her there. It's a learning process.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Foreplay starts in the morning. You gotta mentally/emotionally build up the anticipation. Text messaging is great for that kinda stuff when. You can really tease/flirt/be a little dirty with your girl and then you have big festivities at night when you get home. Girls need time to build it up. We get off with little to no effort.

 

[Cry For Love]

Jelqing bro. Give it a try. It WILL make a difference.

 

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[john_trenor]

Personal opinion on this topic is that there are two types of women out there. One, they are very self sexually driven and can reach orgasm by them self’s, let alone with little help.

Most women on the other hand need to feel secure with their partner. It all starts from the very first encounter. There are virtues that most women expect us to have in order for sexual attraction to even occur. It is up to us men to know how to appropriately communicate our assets. Once a man successfully proves his worth, he establishes a strong emotional bond with his partner resulting in a healthy sex life.

 

[Nkognito]

The last girl I was with was a 40 year old who had the same problem. It was no problem when I went down on her to get her to nut 4 times and by then she was threw, it was too much to keep going.

One time she wanted to do it with me in her I laid sideways, she laid on her back and masturbated till she reached climax. There were a few times I helped her reach it just normally. But it is a mental state indeed because another girl I was with had it down to a chore. She would lay on her stomach, put a pillow under her waist, close her legs and I would be on top. Because of the angle, I would be hitting that special spot and she would go nucking futz. She told me it was the kind of orgasm that would deplete her because her entire body would flex.

Womens orgasms are ten times stronger than mens so to acheive it they need that heat of the moment playing in their head. What you need to do is spend time learning each others body. Got to get her riled up, tease the hell out of her and continue to do so and it will work.

 

[skaterguy97]

awesome responses guys, thanks for the help

 

[skaterguy97]

so little update here, she mentions that she gets super turned on when shes really warm.....so she gets in the shower and makes it like scalding hot(at least for me) so i get in a try to avoid the water and start ****ing her while shes getting blasted and sure enough like 2 mins later she comes....have any of you guys ever heard of anything weird like this ? i cant imagine how anyone could feel pleasure while being burned lol

 

[loveshogun]

I've read a study where girls who keep their socks on (you lose a lot of body heat through your head, hands, and feet) are more likely to orgasm.

That means to get her a nice set of thigh-high stockings. Or, you know, pink frilly school-girl socks, if you're into that kind of thing, you pervert.

 

[P_Dawg_Jalapeno]

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[Atom Smasher]

I just got an email from Tool Nut and I see they have a blow torch and welder's mask on sale. PM me for the link.

 

[Alexander]

Good sex and orgasms isn't about holding out for an excessive period of time like 40 minutes+, it's about hitting the right spot. I used to think like that too before, I have low sensitivity so I could last forever but too long actually backfires and starts to hurt the girl more than pleasure her. You can make a girl *** in 10 to 15 minutes by continually hitting her G-Spot. Sex for me usually lasts around 30 minutes with foreplay included, with 15-30 minutes break before starting again for round 2. She'll be more pleased to have orgasmed twice in two short sessions than one never ending one.

 

[handle]

I gotta second that guy who says foreplay starts hours before the sex... When the mood is right it'll work out beautifully, I've noticed.

 

[Wilko]

It is very likely her problem and her problem only, not yours. I'm no longer inclined to 'force' a girl to have an orgasm to placate my ego, although I certainly used to be. I believe that for many women it's more important and more gratifying to feel completely used/consumed by a man than it is to 'just' cvm. My job is to make her feel like she exists only to give me pleasure in those minutes, which means it's usually rough, kinky and dominant, and she's probably not going to cvm, no problem. Here's the kicker though, she will cvm while she's thinking about it and playing with herself through the week, it's like you're still fvcking her days after.

 

[S. Pryor]

Well to that I say you better step your oral game up or start ****ing her in the ass. If you're getting frustrated with her give it go once more and then *** on her eyelids until they get stuck for a little bit. Try donkey punching her. Get a new chick and blaze it out!

 

[Alchemystic]

Try a vibrator but first, continuallly caress her body from morning till night for at least 1 week to elevate her hormonal levels. That is the basis for bliss caressing and tantric sex and sensate - focus.
****oris rubbing plus vibrating dildo should do the trick.
Always fondle her body for at least 4 - 6 hours before sex.

You guys are so lucky, I wish I had a father to teach me all these things when I was young instead I got brainwashed with a set of stinking Nice Maternal Values and I became a loser Nice Guy.




Dogs get to get to f**k and they do not even know any hypnotic line.