Girl at work showing interest Yes or No

[DJay247]

Well i work at a electronics store as a salesmen in computer componets and well
my question is this,theres this girl,that i met,well we met the same day we got hired 5 months a while back in orientation which took 2 days and well ever since then we have kept things cool and now it seems things maybe going to the next level but i need thy opinion, i have an understanding that she may like me why do i think this because,shes always saying Hi to me in a very cheerfull voice and what i mean is that she literally yells out my name,whenever she sees me in her dept in front all the co workers and up close in personal in her department she always trying to play mind games with me and tells me to get out of her department in a playfull fashion,up close and perosnal when i talk to her,she really feels happy around me,am i to blind to see that she likes me.By this has been happening for 2 months snd shes a nice 7 with a really nice atitude. Please share ur thoughs. Thank You

 

[MisterMcGee]

She may like you as a friend. It's easy to become 'work buddies' with girls you work with. Try to touch her physically and see how she reacts. Put your arm around her and say "hey" and look into her eyes.

 

[GrenadeGloves]

Well first of all I think you need to actually have a conversation with her before you can judge wether or not she is into you. Make her laugh! Make fun of some weird customers who are shopping at your store after they leave. Do something other than judging how loudly she says your name.

 

[DJay247]

Thanks Guys!

Thank you guys for ur words of wisdom,if theirs anybody else who would like
share any more i shall gladly receive thy counsel,in this matter!:

 

[Aragon034]

Thank you guys for ur words of wisdom,if theirs anybody else who would like
share any more i shall gladly receive thy counsel,in this matter!:

i've had 'office' relationships, i don't recommend actual BF/GF stuff, seeing as how the slightest mistake on either part will bring pain and suffering the likes of which will consume your soul...

ok maybe not that much, but it'll be bad, trust me.

If you just wanna hook up with her, go ahead, as long as you make CLEAR to her that it's just a sexual relationship.

besides, it's a freaking retail job, a dime a dozen if you ask me, most are full of intra-office relationships anyway.

just remember, failure wil lead to having your reputation drawn and quartered.

 

[DJay247]

Thank You

Thank you guys so much for the info.I really appreciate that.:rockon:

 

[#41]

Just to be devil's advocate here, I know girls who are just naturally flirty at work because it's a "safe" environment in which to flirt. Some girls also just do it because they're bored at work and guys provide a distraction.

For what it's worth, I work in the legal field and there is a girl in my office (not a lawyer) who I flirt regularly with. We're jokingly referred to as the "Pam and Jim" (of "The Office" fame) of our office since we're always seen huddled together sharing something funny or a story about people we know. The flirting is reciprocated and mutual, but I also know it's just a fun thing to do at work -- she's in a fairly serious LTR and has shown 0 signs of ever wanting to leave. It's just a fun thing we do at work to pass the hours.

So, just me, but I'd look for more than a bubbly attitude at work before I made a move.

YMMV, though.

 

[DJay247]

Thanks #41

Man youre right.The other day at lunch break at work i almost got tempted to the hit her up for her #,but after observing her for 30 minutes,i noticed her boredom and flirtatious attitude,not just her but several other chicks,acting the same way, i guess my natural man got a little hold of me,in that i was just looking at her body, and since i was resently in a relationship i tought she would be LTR material,but yes i am judging with insuffient evidence,and dont really know her and another thing i dont want to get caught up the politics that go around the store,because i know it will be hell,especially when i hear, people open their mouths about almost every second, I must a be professional.Thank You All Again.:rockon: