This really nice girl started at work 2 weeks ago, after a few glances at each other (sometimes we just really stared at each other) so i waited till she left work & followed her outside (as i didn't want to ask her out in the office). She's French Canadian so i said a few french words & started a conversation and we walked together, i then said i was going to a French Bistro tomorrow & would she like to join me.
She said "sure sounds good usually we have meetings through lunch but can't see it being a problem" so i started to walk away to my car in a different direction from where she was going & seem disappointed as she wanted to keep the conversation going, but i left it at that. Next day at 12pm i messaged her using Lync (as i don't yet have her number), "Did you want to go now"
She said "I can't :-( i have a meeting through lunch. Lets do it next week instead?!" "Cool" i said. She said "Tuesday?", "Ok at 12pm we can go to that Bistro". She said "Sounds Great!" "Enjoy lunch
". I said "merci".
So waited till Tuesday at 12pm went up to her in the Office & said "ready to go".
"No i can't just got all this work i have to do", i said "thats cool" & walked off confidently like it didn't matter. Then after i got 3 meters away she turned around & said "Did you want to go Thursday" I said "ok can do that" quite half assed & walked out the door.
On wednesday we get massages & she came up to me to tell me i was next constantly smiling, looking at the ground every now & again telling me how good the massage was, while she was doing this she has her hair to one side & was caressing it with both hands (surely good signs right?).
Anyway Thursday came & was still ****ty about both date cancellations & was hoping she'd let me know before 12pm that she was coming, waited till 11.30am heard nothing so went to lunch by my self & set my message service to busy & off i went. Thinking back now 2 days later she probably she did really have to work through lunch. Anyway Friday she didn't come to work....
Its a long weekend & tomorrow's Tuesday. What should i do next? Is she letting me down softly or keen & i blew it? I haven't dated for a couple of years been in a relationship so have lost touch.
She said "sure sounds good usually we have meetings through lunch but can't see it being a problem" so i started to walk away to my car in a different direction from where she was going & seem disappointed as she wanted to keep the conversation going, but i left it at that. Next day at 12pm i messaged her using Lync (as i don't yet have her number), "Did you want to go now"
She said "I can't :-( i have a meeting through lunch. Lets do it next week instead?!" "Cool" i said. She said "Tuesday?", "Ok at 12pm we can go to that Bistro". She said "Sounds Great!" "Enjoy lunch
". I said "merci".So waited till Tuesday at 12pm went up to her in the Office & said "ready to go".
"No i can't just got all this work i have to do", i said "thats cool" & walked off confidently like it didn't matter. Then after i got 3 meters away she turned around & said "Did you want to go Thursday" I said "ok can do that" quite half assed & walked out the door.
On wednesday we get massages & she came up to me to tell me i was next constantly smiling, looking at the ground every now & again telling me how good the massage was, while she was doing this she has her hair to one side & was caressing it with both hands (surely good signs right?).
Anyway Thursday came & was still ****ty about both date cancellations & was hoping she'd let me know before 12pm that she was coming, waited till 11.30am heard nothing so went to lunch by my self & set my message service to busy & off i went. Thinking back now 2 days later she probably she did really have to work through lunch. Anyway Friday she didn't come to work....
Its a long weekend & tomorrow's Tuesday. What should i do next? Is she letting me down softly or keen & i blew it? I haven't dated for a couple of years been in a relationship so have lost touch.
