Originally posted by Jay26
Okay, it's like this: Would you ask out the girl (a 9 HB) behind the counter at your local gym out if she was being really flirty with you?
Flirty, like how? Like by smiling and saying how are you doing? I go to the gym everyday and the girls do that to everyone, it's their job. Like I'm a waiter and I smile and talk to everyone but it doesn't mean I want to hook up with all the customers.
Bearing in mind that you see her everyday and she works in a gym full of hot guys, but all the same, seems very interested.
Well what I'd do and what I've done is just take it one day at a time by building the rapport up and separating myself from everyone else whether it be by giving some smart ass remark or teasing the girl at the counter or when it's not busy, getting into an interesting conversation, then BAM go for the close. I actually have a "date" this Wednesday with a girl that works at the smoothie king in my gym.
Here are a couple of examples of what I've done in the little time I have when they scan my card and enter the gym.
- I usually ask for a towel when I enter the gym. Well one time I noticed my towel had a stain on it (Nothing nasty, just makeup that doesn't come off) so as I leave the gym I say "You know, the towel you gave me had blood on it, what's up with that."She can't be rude b/c she's at work ya know, so she flirts back
- One time when I went to the counter, the girl was busy doing something and I was at the counter for 10-15 seconds so I reach across the counter and try to scan my own card, she quickly comes and trys to grab the scanner from me and I get some "kino" in and I'm teasing saying "well if you were doing your job in the first place, I wouldn't have done that".
- With the girl at the smoothie king, I actually went up to her and talked to her and I asked her, like when her manager wasn't around, if I could go behind the counter and MAKE MY OWN SMOOTHIE. I know, no one has EVER done that before. She set up a time for me to come and do it. When I got there late she was talking about how she was waiting for me and I didn't show up on time bla bla bla (high interest) . We had a lot of fun doing that.
I've also had plenty of fun conversations with them also. So sometimes when I enter or when I go to the lounge to chill, they come to me and initiate the flirting and teasing.
So after you've built up some rapport and she sees that your a fun person, just talk to her and all of a sudden say something like "When are your off days"
Her- bla bla bla
You- "I'm probably gonna check out that new movie Dumb and Dumberer tomorrow, you want to go check it out with me?"
I made a post on Gym pickups a while back, see if you can find it.