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Girl asks if I’m seeing other girls?

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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You are pushing her into the arms of another man with your insecurity, just walk away.

Yes, 4 days a week with anyone other than your wife is blatant insecurity, this broad basically looked at you and told you to go get a hobby.
 

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I’ve been talking with this girl I’ve been banging for 5 months banging like 4x a week. Lately she’s been pulling away and saying she’s been busy so could only see me for a week. I know this is bs as girls will make time for a guy they like no matter what. I’m thinking she’s saying If I’m seeing girls so she can feel better about seeing other guys which I think she’s doing. What do you guys think? I busted a huge nut in her last night so it’s not like she’s pushing me away completely (I know tmi). What would you guys do? I’m just ignoring her for now
Pivot and re-establish your frame:

Her: Are you seeing other girls?
You: (Looking at something else or being nonchalant), I enjoy being single right now but the door is always open if there's someone who checks the boxes and all the pieces are there. (Change subject to something totally different).

I can almost guarantee she'll reply with 1) Yeah, me too (to save face) or 2) Really? What are your pieces? (to qualify herself)

Be vague and non-committal. If she's out there riding the CC, she's not a good LTR investment right now so don't offer up too much as she hasn't earned it from you.
 

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This was her message when I said I was lol
I would say this is good, you have reached the point where she is allowing you to disrespect her.

Now, if you truly want to **** this broad right, you need to shed your feels, learn to dislike her, use her. She is ready to be hate ****ed.

 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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